Midnightium

she/her, asexual (aegosexual), lesbian, millennial

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Hi-hi, everyone!

I'm agender (but I prefer she/her pronouns) asexual (aegosexual*, demisexual and demiromantic) lesbian and this's blog for SFW lesbian/BL, agender/asexual/lesbian memes and reposts.

Nice to meet you and have fun!

*Aegosexual is a term on the asexual spectrum. A person may enjoy erotic fantasies, sexual content, or sexual relationships between fictional characters, while feeling little or no desire to participate in sexual activity themselves, or feeling disconnected from the idea of themselves as a participant.

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As I know this is fictosexual (this person doesn't love real people, but only fictional characters).

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True

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I made this meme because I’m starting to feel scared to watch movies, worried I’ll stumble upon yet another romantic scene that came completely out of nowhere.

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Dedicated to all the aroaces *plays the 20th Century Studios opening theme*

[ravioliet]

being aroace and nonbinary is so beautiful like i'm not doing any of that LOL

[pearlsasinger-deactivated202602]

being a girl and hitting puberty is so traumatic. you go from being a genderless little free thing to being hit with shaving and makeup and growing breasts and skincare and menstruation and suddenly being sexualised when like a few years ago you could take your shirt off to play in the stream and trade yugioh cards with the boys and come home covered in mud and not even think about it. and then you spend years hating being a girl and hating everything puberty did to you and wishing you could be a boy or be completely genderless again and it takes you Many years to come to terms with yourself Or you simply try to Lean In to everything and do makeup tutorials on YouTube and claim it’s for fun. like how can this be treated as normal

[id-rather-be-an-outsider]

this is it this is literally it I have never felt so seen and heard in my entire life than when reading this post right here, it’s so hard to go through puberty and know that you don’t want it and then to make it out on the “other side” or w/e you wanna call it and know that you have had something stolen from you that you can never get back because now any change you make it perceived as being on one side of the binary or the other or both and I don’t want both. I don’t want neither. I want what I had before, and I can never have that again.

[dastupid]

My loves... girls don’t think like this, the only people I’ve talked to who want to revert from puberty or be the opposite gender are gender queer people:|

[pearlsasinger-deactivated202602]

Nope, I am a butch lesbian who does not appreciate being told I’m not a woman and many girls & women clearly relate to this. You are being completely inappropriate and diminishing the impact misogyny can have on children.

[lilithslabrys]

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Can we be nicer to people who are on the aro/ace spectrum who aren’t aroace please? Aroallos and alloaces and aplatonic folk and cupioromantics and those who want queerplatonic relationships and those who don’t and aros who date and aces who have sex and people who don’t fall on the “sex-favourable to sex-repulsed” line because they feel like it doesn’t describe them well enough and greyromantics and demisexuals and those in polycules and selfshipping communities and those who fight for aro/ace visibility and those who don’t and those who haven’t fully come to terms with their identity yet and this community is such a beautiful place can we see it beyond “uwu innocent aroace doesn’t know what sex is” please god I am begging you

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Art by Tinyangryghost on X

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Is there a name for this combination?

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Anthy is so cute here, but this crazy cat is making me nervous... 😅

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I like Utena from the series because she manages to preserve feminine traits while also being an incredible fighter during the duels.

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I'm agender asexual (aegosexual) lesbian.

I’m curious whether there are people who perceive themselves the same way I do. I feel the closest connection to stylized feminine male characters (anime, stylized games, movies, TV shows, etc.), even though I’m a woman and I mostly like relationships between such kind of male characters. I spent a long time wondering why this is, but the answer is simple: I see in these characters the closest representation of my own agender perception of gender and the way I perceive characters expressing and presenting themselves.

For example (Jian Yi from "19 days"; The picture is not mine):

If he were a real person like the one on the right, I wouldn’t be interested in him at all, even though I think the AI made him into a beautiful young man. Perhaps the loss of my interest is connected specifically to the fact that, as an agender person, I don’t feel a sense of kinship with real people. I can’t explain it exactly, but it seems to be somehow connected to my feeling of being agender.

Does anyone else experience something like this? If so, how do you explain it?

Of course, these things are highly individual for everyone, and it would be interesting to learn something new about similar experiences from others.

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Haha, do you agree? 😄

hell, yeah

You haven't seen Gen Z yet! 😄

Generation Alpha is rubbing its hands together. 😏

Voting ended onJul 28

Although I think it's simply because each new generation becomes more open-minded than the previous one.

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We're getting there little by little, sure. But it's a road.

Anyway happy international asexuality day back to work I go