Missy Irida

transfem lesbian, She/Her It/Its, 26 yo, nerdy microbiology student. av by my friend, but she doesn't wanna be named :p

[indouscurse]

you have to consciously unlearn racism and continue to watch for it because it will come out without realizing. because so much of society is structured around it. shrugging and going "i dont care" or "i dont know how else to say it" means you are okay with being racist and hurting other people with how much you dont give a shit about them.

[villainessbian]

Stop saying gender was invented by capitalism, capitalism was invented at earliest in the early 19th century and gender has been around for several millennia more

[setheverman]

what’s the mood for july?

[aeonlamb]

[fullafag]

[soup-mother]

Never let weirdos (Americans) on the internet convince you that you need to donate money to the people you pirate shit from. Their weird moral ocd is not your problem. You don't need to "make up" for it. You don't need to pay indulgences. You can just pirate shit and get stuff for free and then do nothing else. End of statement.

[prokopetz]

In my experience, one of the reasons the idea of "brain gender" is such a persistent gremlin even in ostensibly progressive spaces is that a lot of folks haven't really abandoned the bioessentialist framework of gender, they've just modified it to include trans people, and trans-inclusive bioessentialism falls apart if brain gender isn't real.

[robdogdraws]

Throw her

[shegayonmygirl]

hey I heard that me groping your tits makes them bigger. we should try it.

[shegayonmygirl]

reblog to grope prevs tits

[enbaluka-tokyo-drift]

[googieghoul]

[uptownlowdown]

hey yall,wanted to update that tumblr alerted me that the mature tag was removed from my gifset which was unexpected because i don’t think they even read my appeals for the ones all over my art.

ironically? the first time they removed a mature tag (on an ask i received) was after i mentioned it in a different post i made that got 11k notes meaning someone from staff definitely saw it and presumably removed it the tag.

this leads me to believe that they 10000% know this is a bigger problem than they let on because the only two times they have removed mature tags on my posts about black women and girls, was when i, or someone else, mentioned it with receipts on a post that got thousands of notes.

idk what’s worse? knowing this system targets certain people and still using it bc it’s cheaper or whatever than any real moderation.. or only stepping in and changing it when enough people complain. not sure how i feel about either.

[were--ralph]

im not a furry but recently ive been thinking about what if there was a global outbreak of a virus that transforms you into your fursona? so i made one just in case. not because im a furry (im not) but just ouf of safety if i need one in a pinch. he's very cute and fluffy btw

No yeah that makes sense like you always have to be prepared

[cyprozombiegirl]

Remaking this post since I’m pretty sure it got deleted, and a lot of people found it very helpful. This is a medical diagram of before and after bottom surgery for trans femmes.

[finalgirlcock]

this shit is actually life changingly informative to girls who are on the fence abt bottom surgery or scared of getting it

[theparadoxspace]

i think part of the reason that "trans men dont have male privilege" has become so popular (other than a refusal to accept trans men ARE men for real and not some fake simulacrum, among many other things) is that 'male privilege' is seen by many as a sort of abstract omnipotent superpower that has to be consciously enforced specifically by cis white men and not like. a systemic force built into the foundation of the societies we live in and grow up in.

[rpfisfine]

Omg the White Rastas are dragging my Ass on Hinge

[rpfisfine]

[demilypyro]

i'm streaming unbeatable because i want to

hang out with me as i play rhythm game badly or goodly

https://twitch.tv/demilypyro

[shuffled-bunny]

[sylvyspritii]

My notifications look so much more fun this way

[eater-of-the-sand]

Scrolling past this lowers this website's fps to 2.

[nervousyoungpup]

it really gets me how often people on here will describe oppositional sexism then call it transandrophobia (thus discounting any transfem that shares this experience). like oppositional sexism is covered within the first couple chapters of whipping girl, maybe literally the first one i can't remember, you dont even have to read the whole thing i sure havent yet just a chapter please i beg.

[marigold-22]

Girl I'm not on hrt because it helps me "perform womanhood" or something like that I'm on hrt because I am fucking transexual. Girl I don't want to get surgery because "the social role of woman doesn't fit people with penises" I want to get surgery because I have DYSPHORIA. GIRL I AM LITERALLY NONBINARY (no that does not give you license to use they/them pronouns for me I still use she/her).

Certainly sometimes I feel like a woman, but other times I feel completely agender and all the time I am still transexual. The other side of you don't have to go through medical care to be a binary trans person is you don't have to be binary to go through medical care.

ALSO I'm not doing any of these things to be "genderfuck" or whatever. ALSO I am still transfem. My body does not fit my brain and therefore I am transexual. If someone presented as a cis woman and was also vaguely genderfluid in some unspecified way yet uses she/her pronouns you would be ok with that. But for some reason when someone like that is a transexual woman your mind fucking breaks.