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[blissfulascension]

We know detransitioners dont owe trans people shit but they don't owe radfems/gender crits shit either

They don't owe us activism. They're not our tokens, they're real humans with real feelings

They also don't owe us silence when members of our community call their bodies "mutilated" "sad" "biohacked" or any other negative adjective Ive seen used over the years Ive been here

They don't owe anything to anyone on either side of the discourse

[tsunderemployee]

truly cannot stand men who are obsessed with mentally ill girls

[tsunderemployee]

it’s so so so transparent that this type of guy wants like an eternally dependent controllable manic pixie dream girl with none of the effort that goes into maintaining a relationship with a mentally ill person “bpd girls have the best pussy” SHUT UP this shit makes me see red. and then they think being with a mentally ill girl will give them a free pass to be as horrible as they want and if she complains she’s obviously just an irrational psycho whos making stuff up

[wwwyzzerdd420]

The word "TERF" needs to be taken away from this website until y'all can remember how to fucking use it correctly

Dave Chappelle is NOT a TERF because, while he is transphobic, he is NOT a radical feminist.

Trans men who are discussing our own oppression are NOT TERFs, because we include trans people in our worldview and advocate for trans rights (and the vast majority of us are also not radfems!!!!! That is not to say they couldn't exist I guess??? I just haven't seen it)

To be a TERF, one must check ALL OF the following boxes:

Transphobic / sees trans women as "predators" / sees trans men as "lost women"

Excludes trans people from their brand of feminism

‼️‼️‼️‼️ Is a radical feminist ‼️‼️‼️‼️

I genuinely didn't think that a four letter acronym would be this difficult for people to grasp, but here we go once more:

Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminist

It's right there come the fuck ON

[mmsoniaaa]

this clarification is important. ive literally seen people calling TRANS WOMEN terfs, its insane.

[wilwheaton]

\m/

[ms-hells-bells]

wil, you could have just reblogged the actual post, if you google the first sentence of the first commentor and ‘tumblr’ it’ll come up

[rainbowsnviolets-deactivated202]

If your definition of “woman” is “a person born with the female sex” you are saying “A woman can be anything she wants to be and a woman can look or act however she wants to” while also giving women the means to define and describe their oppression (which they face no matter how they look, act or live). If your definition of “women” is “a person that identifies with the gender role of a woman, regardless of sex” you are saying “A woman has to conform to a set of rules how to look, act and live. If a person doesn’t fit that set, they can’t be a woman, regardless of sex.” while also taking away the means to define and describe the oppression of women (which by this definition only people face who conform to societies perception of how a woman should act, look and live).

[mmsoniaaa]

some radfem theory disagrees with this mackinnon even says that gender precedes sex

[touyangel]

i love you pubes i love you stomach hair i love you unshaven pits i love you happy trails i love you coarse leg hair i love you untrimmed bushes. i love you body hair

[mmsoniaaa]

I ESPECIALLY LOVE NIPPLE HAIR

[mmsoniaaa]

i still cant wrap my head around that sex and race are social constructs. any black marx/matfems wanna recommend me essays/books about it? i dont know where to look for

[mmsoniaaa]

tra to terf to tirf... im so lonely

[shychili]

“remember it’s not just women being affected by the abortion ban, trans men and non binary people are too!” so you agree biological sex is real and gender doesn’t really matter when it comes to the oppression of the female sex

[gimmedatass-quatch]

its so funny to see dumb shit like this because nobody is saying that biological sex ISN’T real. But biological sex and gender identity are two different things. Biologically I was born female but I identify as a gnc trans person. Yet i’m affected by this ban because of my biological sex. You don’t have to identify as a woman to be affected by it but you do have to biologically be born as one. It’s called being respectful of people’s identity and pronouns. 

[shychili]

a lot of people in your community are denying sex’s existence and saying it is a social construct while it’s gender that is actually a construct. “woman” is an adult person of the female sex, not a gender, so it literally includes the whole female population. “you don’t have to identify as a woman to be affected by it but you have to be biologically born as one” you’re literally saying what i said in the post, it doesn’t matter what “gender” you identify as(even though like i said, woman is not a gender anyway), as long as you are a female it affects you.

[mmsoniaaa]

i agree with the post generally but woman is a gender as well. ->"a woman isnt born, she is made"

[kiefbowl]

people: “noooooo don’t make me think critically about my porn habit 😭😭😭 that makes it harder to enjoy the porn 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭”

[virgoiscariot]

you can’t even watch a goddamn cartoon without sjw theythems telling you to “critically examine your media” but god forbid you ask a man to set aside his dick and think about something for once

[mmsoniaaa]

tirfs do occasionally use a lot of terfy language and do point out biology whenever its needed which some tras are very much against. they will use words like "male" or insult males by referring to their Y chromosome and such. i dont think most tras would even consider us as allies. even if we are completely supportive of transitioning

[mmsoniaaa]

i was sceptical about a trans genocide existing, but looking at this graph i think i see it. we are at the polarisation state

yes the murders are lower than rest of marginalized groups but police usually ignores trans identities and records their sex, so i believe the data is a bit untrustworthy

[mmsoniaaa]

im too lazy to block prn bots

[mmsoniaaa]

black people told white queers to not use the sayhername tag for brianna bcuz she is white. u know how white transfems reacted... god this is so fucking depressing. i want to make a point but its not the time. a kid was murdered.

[mithliya]

a 16 year old trans girl was murdered on the weekend. i bet youre happy right? just elated that another one of us is dead and gone right? this is what you want, osnt it?

remember when a trans woman killed two lesbians & their son and some of u genuinely argued that they must’ve been terfs who deserved it? yeah. not everyone sits there wishing for & justifying random minorities being murdered like your movement does.

[bishounenjesuschristkun-deactiv]

The insane part is not a single woman, much less radfems/terfs, were involved in that poor child being murdered and his family being left without a son. It was homophobic boy who killed him. It was boys his age. Thats what happens everytime. Its men who kill gnc and/or gay men, not women on twitter and tumblr. But they hate us so much that they’d rather blame a random woman on tumblr, who hasn’t even posted about the event, rather than the system of male violence because if they blame men they’d have to look inward and at their own privilege and its much more fun and far easier to get mad at women for no reason.

[mmsoniaaa]

i get the point but a girl was also involved in the murder, just to clear up misinfo

[bumblee-stumblee]

It is extremely sad what happened to Brianna, but the fact people have jumped on saying she was killed because she was trans without a released statement of evidence is just feeding the fear-mongering machine.

Two 15-year-olds have been charged. Could it be transphobic related? We don't know that yet. Currently, the UK (England and Wales specifically) reports a knife crime involving young people every few months or so. Last year 3,490 10-17 year olds were charged with a knife crime offence.

In England and Wales, 679 homicides were recorded last year (ending June 2022). 7/10 were male (72%), 3/10 female (28%). 91% of male murders were committed by a male, and 95% of female murders were committed by a male. 38% of murders was due to knife crime or a sharp object.

Knives and sharp objects were used in 75% of teenage murders. In the last 12 months, in England, 51 teenagers were murdered due to knife crime or a sharp object.

This is 1 incident out of 679. 1/ 282 for knife crime, and 1/51 amongst young people. The problem is knife crime. We need to look at why some young people think it's okay to just attack someone they don't like. The societal issue here is more than a hatred towards trans people.

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/london-office-for-national-statistics-england-wales-mayor-b1059248.html

https://benkinsella.org.uk/knife-crime-statistics/

https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/homicideinenglandandwales/march2022#:~:text=As%20in%20previous%20years%2C%20the,10%20were%20female%20(28%25).

^^^

[mmsoniaaa]

"The societal issue here is more than a hatred towards trans people"

the societal issue in question IS hatred towards trans people. cops did say theres a probability its a hate crime.

[mmsoniaaa]

both tirfs and terfs misunderstand wittig so much i feel like.