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Your 20’s are your ‘selfish’ years. It’s a decade to immerse yourself in every single thing possible. Be selfish with your time, and all the aspects of you…Travel, explore, love a lot, love a little, and never touch the ground.

Kyoko Escamilla (via wordsnquotes)

#quotes #quote

oddishodyssey-blog

Are there any other non-binary, genderqueer/gender non-conforming, or trans folks in the wellness/recovery sphere out there?

Not that I don’t love my cis blog family, but I wonder how much more of my blog would detail gender related things if there were community to support it. (And notice all the words I used, it’s a huge area) Also, I notice a distinct lack of health, wellness, fitness, and recovery-related material for gender nb folks specifically, I’m almost considering making a side blog to collect it.

frontalbread-deactivated2021071

signal boost! I know I have a few of you lovely people on here - go chat to @oddishodyssey , they are lovely.

fatgirlgetsfitatlast

Boost

monkeymoves

Queer right here!

ideokinesis-deactivated20191229

I don’t have any sympathy for people who need extrinsic motivation. I’m so intrinsically motivated to do my best at everything I do, so much so that lots of nights I can’t sleep because I’m just thinking of how I can do it better. It’s been this way for years now.

panicmixiescreamhurl

“You don’t have to say thank you, it’s their job.”

YOU ARE LITERALLY THE WORST PERSON

panicmixiescreamhurl

Why would you teach your child to be rude and ungrateful. Literally why.

elliotofrph-blog

Fun fact: My mom taught me to thank EVERYONE. I thank the bus driver, I thank the guy at the Taco Bell drive-through window…I THANK THE TACO BELL MACHINE THE PERSON TALKS THROUGH. The sad thing is…almost everyone I know thinks this is weird. I’ve had people look at me funny because I thank the bus driver for being there because if he wasn’t I couldn’t get home safely. My friends question me because I’m thanking Taco-Bell guy because where else am I going to get cheap, crappy, delicious food for 3 drunk ass people at 2am? It’s called being a human being. Try it.

zofrph-deactivated20160306

If someone does something, anything from doing dishes to picking up something you dropped to holding the door for you, you say thank you. They did something for you they didn’t have to so they deserve a thank you. It’s called appreciating the community you live in and the people around you.

monkeymoves

Also

Say hello or hi or good morning or something alike to e v e r y o n e . It’s nice too.

mattjosephdiaz-blog

so you're a straight dude and you're a feminist? don't you get sick of being told how terrible and awful straight guys are

I mean, I guess? But not really. Here’s a few things about when people say stuff like “cis het guys are fucking disgusting.”

1. When it comes to harmful comments, being told that cis heterosexual guys are shitheads is the bottom of the barrel.

Do you know why it doesn’t really bother me when I hear shitty things about cishet guys? Because on the wide fucking spectrum of gender and sexuality, we have it easiest by a fucking MILE.

We have the most privilege and the least resistance in a LOT of things. We never have to deal with our actions being called into questions and we’re allowed a stupid and ridiculous amount of wiggle rooms with ideas like “boys will be boys.”

We can do things women would get crucified for doing. Sleeping around doesn’t make us “slutty,” it makes us “studs.” Spending a lot of time focusing on our look and style doesn’t make us “shallow,” it makes us “classy,” even though neckbeard fedora MRA dickheads have ruined that word.

So if a woman wants to call cishet guys gross, it’s kinda like calling a white dude a cracker. You can’t be racist or sexist to the people who are in power, because it’s an institutionalized thing.

2. Here’s the thing. Straight guys are kiiiinda the worst.

I’m sorry, but have you SEEN other dudes? Jesus christ, we’re fucking awful.

It’s gotten so bad that literally like 80 percent of the time I’ve begun to talk to a new girl through the internet, dating sites, tumblr or texting, they seriously make a point to say something like “holy fuck I’m so glad you can have an actual conversation.”

When I see screenshots of dudes texting it’s so fucking terrible. This “what would u do if I was there right now lol” bullshit is so disgusting, charmless, lame and fucking pathetic, it reminds me of me when I was like 18 and I fucking hate 18 year old me. He’s a sexist and a dipshit.

And that’s not even the worst of it. This isn’t even touching the sort of hatred and hostility that a LOT of men have when it comes to rejection. I’ve SEEN conversations women have had with men where, once the woman rejects the guy as politely as she can, he immediately turns on her.

As soon as he has to fathom the idea of a woman not wanting him to shove his terrible dick inside her for 20 seconds, he gets fucking furious. He insults her weight, appearance, anything he knows she might be insecure about. It’s horrible and disgusting.

This is just a SMALL part of the shitty things that cishet guys are capable of because we’re taught to think of ourselves as kings who, if the women are lucky enough, will bestow our kingly dick and balls upon them.

This isn’t even TOUCHING the dangerous ideas of the friend zone or how dehumanizing and manipulative it is, but I’ve talked about that before, mostly because I used to be one of those white knight dudes and I feel horrible about it to this day.

3. The most terrible thing to men? IS MEN.

Somehow, MRAs got this idea that feminism is about killing men and taking their place or something. That just goes to show why feminism has to exist, because somehow men’s rights activists took a movement about women and made it about them.

But here’s the thing. The terrible shit that happens to men? We pretty much do all of it to ourselves.

First of all, there’s the idea of toxic masculinity. We raise boys to believe that they have to be tough. “boys don’t cry,” we try and tell them. And because of this, they feel pressured to be tough and to feel nothing, so they’re emotionally stunted and filled with anger.

Second of all, we throw out dangerous ideas that grant them more freedom to be shitty to each other. “boys will be boys,” we say as we write off bad and violent behavior.

Let’s look at that mixture. We’re telling young boys that they aren’t free to express their emotions in the natural way, so they end up bottling up everything. Then, we grant them the freedom to be physically and verbally aggressive to other people.

That’s a dangerous mixture.

Even beyond that, MRAs are so quick to shout “things are bad for men too” at so many things, then when presented with those ideas, they write them off as invalid.

Whenever we talk about the statistics of women who are raped and how it’s a problem and a crime of aggression, men are so quick to say things like “Men get raped too!”

But if you look on Facebook, as soon as someone posts an article about some 35 year old teacher who raped a 17 year old boy, it’ll literally only be the men who say things like “heh, that boy is so lucky” or “wish I had a teacher like that!”

do you know what it means to claim that men are also raped, and then immediately joke about how lucky it is for a man to be raped by a woman?

It means that you don’t give a fuck about other men. It means that you don’t give a fuck about other human beings. It means that literally the only reason that you said it, without caring about the men who are hurt in those crimes, is because you want to take attention away from the VASTLY higher number of women who are raped and make it about you.

That is why women need feminism.

And that is why I don’t mind seeing jokes about straight(ish) dudes like me on tumblr.

breemaquillage

Praise

nudityandnerdery

#3. So fucking important. If dudes would realize this, especially ones who apparently pathetically hate-follow my blog, it would help them actually understand something useful about some of the difficulties men actually face in life.

40yodater

So beautifully said!

okcdouchebags-deactivated202003

This dude has awesome opinions and awesome hair.

Today is hot and humid and I don't want to go outside. But I'm wearing turtle earings.

#me

justjennanicole-deactivated2016

Omg did u know that freelee doesnt believe in protein???? What is she doing???!!

Slowly killing herself and promoting harmful restrictive diets probably 🐸☕️

monkeymoves

Whoa. Didn’t know that protein was something to believe in. Proteinism (n): the faith in Protein and its ritual consumption.

I am definitely a Proteinist.

#freelee why #stahp

sadboyfactory

IM THE WORST ART TEACHER DONT WATCH THIS

dadjokes-archived

WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT YOU ARE THE BEST ART TEACHER EVER OMFG THANK YOU

dustinmathisen

If all teachers taught their subjects the way just taught this, I would have been more interested in what they had to say and less in just doing the bare minimum to pass a test.

moved-to-phantaysia

thets a fecking chyeld OH MY GORD

psionicillusionist

“G-oh, that’s porn.”

that-ships-hellabig

I fucking love this

ablack-cat

Imma save dis sINCE IVE STARTERED TO BE ABLE TO ART YAY

lifeisdeathislifeisdeathis

HOLY CHRIST YES YES THIS IS AWESOME

bendystrawsrgr8

I watched this with the sound off and then reconsidered and turned the sound on and I’m so glad i did.

monkeymoves

Ijustfeltinlovewithavoiceokbye

#davediddlystrider

achel-ois

strength strɛŋθ,strɛŋkθ/ noun 1. the capacity of an object or substance to withstand great force or pressure. As a wheelchair user, it can feel like the definition of strength excludes you, doesn’t quite capture you, like it might be a lie to describe yourself as strong if you don’t prefix that with “but not physically”. I’ve learned what it means to be all kinds of strong. I’ve been strong in many different contexts.I’ve been strong in rowing races, I’ve been strong under a 75kg barbell, I’ve been strong in the middle of a half marathon. I’ve been strong in a six-pack-and-23-inch-thighs sense of the word. I’ve also been strong in a being-disabled-and-losing-everything-I-thought-I-had-and-holding-my-head-high sense of the word. I’ll sit here in this wheelchair and tell you that I am stronger now, unable to walk up more than one flight of stairs, than I ever was in a gym. We move mountains, us lot.

Some awesome pants and wet hair

#me #ootd

What have weightlifting done for me? Gave me amazing confidence. In my body, in my strenght, in my mind, in my habilities. There's still a lot of work to do, but I feel that I'm finally on the right road.

#me #girls who lift #recovery #i want to snatch my body weight this year #weightlifting

waitineedaname

Since it seems to be the cool hip thing for allos to hate aros and/or aces and exclude them from the community we belong in, I just want you to know that when you say we “haven’t suffered enough”, you’re telling all asexuals that have faced “corrective” rape that they haven’t suffered

You’re telling that to all asexuals who are told every fucking day that they’ll change their mind someday

You’re telling that to every aromantic kid who had panic attacks when faced with romantic situation and thought it was something that everyone felt because our problems are never spoken of

You’re telling that to every aromantic that grows up in an amatonormatic culture and can’t relate to a bit of it

You’re telling that to every asexual or aromantic who thinks they’re broken and need to be fixed for something that they can’t help

You’re telling that to every asexual or aromantic that doesn’t even realize that their orientation exists because people talk about straight, gay, bi, anything, but theirs doesn’t even exist to others

You’re telling that to every asexual who is called childish and innocent just because of their sexuality

You’re telling that to every aromantic who is called a robot and heartless and cold

You’re telling that to every aroace who watches people cheer when a same-gender couple is in the media and is thinking “well, where am I? When do I get representation?”

You’re telling that to every aroace who only gets representation in robots and villians

You’re telling that to every aromantic or asexual who tries to headcanon a character to fit them that is shot down by people of every sexuality because look! That character looked at someone else once! They can’t possible be like you, you. can’t. have. them.

You’re telling that to every aromantic or asexual who tries to stick up for themselves and is shot down with laughter

You’re telling that to every asexual whose parents don’t believe them, whose friends don’t believe them, to every ace that has no one and tries to find some support in the LGBT+ community and are immediately laughed at and kicked out

You’re telling that to me, and every other person in the aromantic or asexual community full of anxiety and self doubt that wants to cry and throw up at every arophobic or acephobic post they see

Just think about that next time. Okay? Please.

theasexualityblog-deactivated20

You’re also telling that to victims of coercive rape (Hi, that’d be me!)

You’re telling that to aces who are told that they don’t really love their partners if they don’t have sex with them.

You’re telling that to aros who are told that they aren’t enough because they don’t love romantically.

You’re telling that to aces and aros who are convinced that they’re going to be alone forever because society prioritizes romantic relationships over platonic and claims that queerplatonic partnerships aren’t legitimate.

You’re telling that to aces and aros who force themselves into uncomfortable situations and relationships because they feel like that have to in order to be accepted.

monkeymoves

I wsh someone would have told me about asexuality when I was 15. My teenage years would’ve been much easier.

#important #demi #asexuality is a spectrum

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FINNNNNNALLLYYYY after the longest 8 months of my life.. I somehow managed a PR triple!

56kg/123# 57kg/125# 58kg/128#

at 51kg/112 bodyweight!!! I swear I was channeling my inner @crossfit-cupcake tonight and everything just felt right. Thank god for these days because they make all the bad days worth it.