it only took them exactly 80 chapters, but qifrey and olruggio did finally manage to have the kind of conversation over tea they probably should have had back in chapter 9, so they could have talked things through in private and presented a united front for the kids lol. qifrey literally putting coco between them and using her as a human shield a bit is still one of his quietly worst moments to me interpersonally (affectionate). 'being as mad at me as you should rightfully be allowed to be about this unhinged situation I've dropped in your lap is scaring an innocent child olly please lower your voice 🥺' well why is that innocent child here to hear this unavoidably fraught conversation qifrey fhsadkj. we're all looking for whoever did this. his emotional blackmail game is simply on another level
I think that's why olruggio underlines his role as watchful eye so bitterly in his first scene, aside from the necessary exposition it provides at that point in the story -- qifrey certainly isn't treating him like a friend, nevermind a partner, someone he's chosen to live and raise children with. it's only with jujy's little speech about friendship in chapter 39 that olly really goes '...you know what fuck it he IS still my friend no matter how he's acting and I get to have that matter, he isn't getting rid of me that easy' and unleashes his full sky's kindest most radiant star form in chapter 40. to tragic results as usual but I think it was good for him to get to have that moment anyway; it seemed like he'd maybe been building to a bit of a crisis point of frustration and distress about the state of their relationship and qifrey keeping him at an increasing distance even before qifrey came home with a new kid and a forbidden magic jumpscare. (on qifrey's side there's of course the building horror and desperation of his deteriorating sight and being unable to find any leads on the brimhats, both for his own and his immediate family's sake, and the absolute bullshit he knows they're cooking up out there. and knowing, always knowing, that he's hurting olruggio seemingly no matter what he does. if he involves him more he'll have to carry out the violation of the mindwipe more regularly, in keeping him at a distance he's safer from that but the sense of loss and 'what happened, what did I do, where did you go?' ache with no recourse grows ever deeper. I'd have trouble staying connected in that relationship no matter the love that's always beneath too)
and then of course by chapter 89 the conversation is fully in mutual 'hey babe do you think we should we renew our vows...? <3' territory haha. I do think chapter 40 was a bit of a wakeup call for qifrey as to the state of his marriage as it were lol he does seem to actively work to get it together more after that and get fairer to olruggio in how he does things, even given the terrible framework he has to operate within. the two scenes are like... chapter 9 is 'one' with johnny cash, chapter 89 is 'it's all coming back to me' (either version I guess but I've got a weak spot for the meatloaf and marion ravn one). do you see what I mean.
(olly being placed right in front of the fireplace on the left there tho, almost like it's springing from his head -- that despite the tension he's brought into the story he's also immediately identified with the warming comfort of the fire after the rain... the manga is already quietly like 'no biggie but this guy is literally the hearth the house is built around. I just thought you should know' and I think that's neat)















