What is or isnât a slur can be highly contextual, y'all.
âJonny Sims bummed a fag off my maâ doesnât contain a slur, but âWhat are you, some kind of fag?â does.
âQueer studiesâ, âthe queer communityâ and âIâm queerâ? Not a slur. Some bigot calling you a âdirty queerâ? Slur.
âBe gay, do crimesâ and âHeâs gayâ â slur, but âEw, thatâs so gayâ = slur.
In conclusion, stop buying into this fucking âq slurâ bullshit. Queer people talking about the queer community arenât using it as a slur any more than a gay man calling himself gay is using that term as a slur.