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I AM YOUNG AND I AM ANGRY!!!!!!!!!!! This blog is new, beware of future changes

[more-youthlib-now]

Intro ⭐️

I made this blog to:

post random youthlib takes

complain about school (when I’m there)

a cool post read it

~ Im keeping my main a secret for now.

and yes, I’m a minor. If you genuinely think that makes what I say invalid, get the off my blog. I acknowledge that yes, I don’t have the “life experience” and maturity of an adult, but I’m still a human being. If you think I’m too young to have an opinion, you’re part of the problem. Most of y’all are too old to even know what it’s like to go to school in the modern era, and if you’re not, you’re probably less than 10 years older than me. So shut up

Oh and I’m autistic and I can have trouble with social cues or understanding things sometimes

DNI:

-standard racist maga homophobe transphobic terf ect ect ect. Whatever

-proshippers, darkshippers, anti healing paraphiles or “MAPs”, anything adjacent (speaking of which, I’m cleanqueer)

-Radqueers, xenosatanists, ect.

-pro harrassment of any kind

I’ll expand on my intro later, rn I’m lazy

Rules for asks:

-remember I’m a kid. Please don’t send me nsfw things. Discussions about sex education and similar things are allowed, though

-asks trying to change my opinions or trying to convince me to change my boundaries cause x group isn’t bad actually or whatever will just be delete delete deleted :p that being said, if I did say something wrong, you can tell me. I’d actually prefer you sent me an ask instead of reblogging a post to tell me

-yes you can ask me questions about myself, and what I like! Feel free to ask me questions about certain discourse I haven’t clarified on (general, not specific people. Also there’s a chance I wont know what you’re talking about lol) I know the feeling of being paranoid that a certain blog is a certain thing but not knowing for sure. -Feel free to complain in my ask box about school, experiences as a kid, ect.

below the cut: nothing but I’ll put a list of random stances or anything important to know about me I guess? Later on

[beemovieerotica]

adults love seeing a small child or teenager who is so visibly anxious and uncertain of themselves and quiet so they can tell them "HEY!! 👹 YOU BETTER GET SOME CONFIDENCE RIGHT NOW! 🗣 AND SPEAK UP! 🤬 YEAH YOU! 👊 SHY KID 💥 EVERYONE LOOK AT THIS SHY KID 👈 WHO I'M GOING TO FIX 🙏 WITH THE POWER OF LOUD !!! 😤 YOU'D BEST BELIEVE IT! 😱 NOW SHOUT, SHY KID!!! 🤯 SHOUT AT ME!!! 👽 HUUAAHH&HHH 🗯 NOW TEAR ASUNDER THE HUSK OF YOUR FORMER SELF ☠️ YEAH RIGHT NOW 👇 WHY DON'T YOU FEEL CONFIDENT 💣 I AM GIVING YOU THE CURE" and the shy kid has to pretend like this isn't the millionth time they've had this exact conversation

[troublepunk-ldn]

me as a teenager: man it sucks to have no privacy or autonomy but i guess its for a good reason. when i turn 18 i will realise how young i was and understand why they did all that.

me as an adult: teenagers are an oppressed class, their abuse is normalised and systemic and they need to start killing people

[clonedroids]

Because I feel like kids of color don’t hear it enough: domestic abuse is not a part of your culture. 

A lot of us were raised with the idea that “its normal for wives/children to get hit! it helps them learn– only white folk don’t get beaten when they misbehave”. That’s not true, white people aren’t the only ones who deserve a safe and abuse free environment. Black and brown people can and do have loving families. 

If you’re in a situation where you are enduring abuse and people use your culture to justify it, I want you to know that what they’re telling you are lies.

[dragon-in-a-fez]

as someone who studies this: statistically speaking, child abuse (including “spanking”, because all forms of hitting children are abusive) is pretty much equally prevalent in households of all racial, ethnic, and cultural backgrounds. so yeah, don’t let people use the “culture” excuse on you, but also, don’t believe others are experiencing it less just because it’s less normalized in their culture to talk about it. we all gotta work together to fix this shit.

[brown-spider]

All the black & latino ppl who joked about Miles Morales saying “Whatever” to his parents, saying that he should “know he cant get away with that like white kids can” and “lmao did he forget that he’s black/has a latina mom???”

You aren’t better behaved because your parents beat you. “Knowing your place” did not make you more dignified than white children, you were being needlessly abused.

[politijohn]

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[deltaomicronfive]

Hey kids! Don't smoke. Just don't do it. It affects your body in the worst ways possible, even if you never get cancer.

Hey kids who smoke! You are still fucking worthy of love, dignity and respect and anyone who mistreats you because of your addiction alone is a fucking cop.

[bi-dykes]

This. And bc of those ppl who crash into every elementary-schooler’s franchise fandom… into every corner of it (such as not tagging properly, unwanted direct interaction, etc) and immediately making it all nsfw and then complaining that there are kids in those same franchise spaces

[more-youthlib-now]

”let’s milk it up” -my father, just now

[more-youthlib-now]

I’ll prolly post more on this blog when in about 4-6 weeks when school starts so I’ll have more to complain about lmao

[laciffo-satan]

Did anyone else skip their teenage "rebellion" years and stick to their teenage "depression" years a lot more prominently?

[tongue-twists]

age gaps are actually not a problem in themselves (as long as both participants are adults blah blah you know the drill). the potentially harmful dynamics between two partners with a big age difference arise from other factors that are associated with age. more wealth. more stable life situation. a big gap in relationship/dating experience. this is of course worsened if you add gender and/or racial dynamics to it. age in itself doesn't create this imbalance, we just exist in a system where older people are more likely to have other forms of privilege over their younger partner.

if you're both 30 but one of you has a job and owns the apartment in which you both live, that is a lot riskier than if you're 20 and 40 but both have independent income and housing. ya know?

[koiagain]

IM SO SICK OF BEING TREATED LIKE A CHILD & THEN EXPECTED TO ACT LIKE AN ADULT

[p0pr0x1an]

PLEASE LISTEN I BEG YOU GUYS IF YOU LIVE IN THE US DO THIS!!!

[depsidase]

[glitchin-bitchin]

🟡/🟢 - Someone mentioned the whole recent twitter thing posted on tadc-crit was brought up before a couple of years ago and I can confirm. There were some other tweets talked about back then that I haven't really heard about since but I've been afraid to bring up?

https://xcancel.com/GooseworxMusic/status/1523841241795817472#m

https://xcancel.com/GooseworxMusic/status/1462359860406751232#m

https://xcancel.com/GooseworxMusic/status/1594416633371844608#m

https://xcancel.com/GooseworxMusic/status/1464458926296997889#m

https://xcancel.com/GooseworxMusic/status/1542725426182623232#m

These are all from 2021 onward. I don't want to jump to any major conclusions but what the fuck? She and her fans can't keep falling back on the its just "edgy humor" excuse to deflect any criticism. This is getting ridiculous. And we're all aware of that Shadman tweet.

Yeah she thinks a lot about potentially sexually scarring children apparently. Huh.

[more-youthlib-now]

what the hell this is actually ageist as fuck 😭

[json-derulo]

Whenever they gave us one of those "read through ALL the instructions before you begin!" trick assignments in school where the steps lead you on an increasingly ridiculous goose chase until the final one tells you to just put your name on the paper and turn it in without doing anything else, I was always like, "Okay, but what's the point? Surely the REAL world won't be anything like this." And then I grew up and discovered that not only is the real world often exactly like that, some people won't even read the first line of the instructions even if they make perfect sense. And these people are called "co-workers"

[more-youthlib-now]

These exercises are still fucking stupid for school because if you actually did that on all your assignments you’d be wasting all your testing time. The problem is, they’re trying to teach you this lesson as if it applies to everything, when in reality it only applies when you’re actually doing a task. Which is not something you almost ever do in school lol. It’s meant to teach you a meaningless lesson, just like the rest of the education system.

[quitblamingnarcissism]

When someone is abused by their narcissistic parents, it's funny how saying "I hate narcissists" is accepted but saying "I hate parents" isn't.