chronic tag yapper

25 • he/him/his • engaged 💍 This place is a mess. Miscellany be upon ye!

[mostly-okay-budgie-boy]

Oh look, an About Me post! Neat!

Hey, I’m Michael (feel free to call me Mikey or Budge if you want!) I’m a 25 year old guy who spends far too much time online.

Asks and DMs are open! I’m very friendly and I love to chat! I do struggle to reach out first, but I love making new friends. Notifications always brighten my day!

No DNI— please follow your own, and be respectful when interacting with me!

⚠️ This blog is 18+ ⚠️— I don’t mind if younger folks follow me, but please prioritize your safety. This blog contains occasional profanity and adult themes. You have been warned.

Here’s what you’ll find on this blog!

My fandoms: Sky: Children of the Light, Digimon, Pokemon, Tamagotchi, Webkinz, Neopets, Cookie Run, Infinity Nikki, Vocaloid, Genshin Impact, Honkai Star Rail, Final Fantasy, Tokyo Mew Mew, Legend of Zelda, Magic: The Gathering, RuneScape, Black Desert Online, Dragon Ball, Stardew Valley

My hobbies: Twitch streaming, photography, writing, drawing, music, birdwatching, hiking, gardening, cooking & baking, knitting, crochet, video games, singing & playing music!

Other interests: biology, psychology, philosophy, history, social justice and civil rights! BIRDS! Lots of bird content here.

Tags I use: #budge chirps my original posts about my silly little thoughts, #whump hurt/comfort writing or imagery, #my face for pictures of me! —— if you have a tag request, let me know and I will do my best to tag!

[utopians]

duuuuuude you have GOT to come out tonight we're enacting cruelty upon those who have transgressed so badly that we can justify any act against them... and you KNOW we're interpreting our delight as moral righteousness... Yeah it's fucking crazyyyyyyy get an Uber

[owlscribbless]

bearcatmon!

[that-house]

partially-managed mental illness is so fucking funny i'll be sitting around doing my job and suddenly think "wow i hate myself" and immediately get confused because, like, that's not TRUE! i love myself so much. who are you to talk to me like that

[deadandwalking]

hey kitten. daddy needs to talk to you. your kink blog is great, but you are not highlighting the words correctly. kitten. stop highlighting. this is shit. did you seriously highlight that period. kitten.

[puppygirllaika]

talking about stuff like prison reform or the SO registry really quickly makes you realize how many peoples political ideology boils down to "look, just tell me who the bad people are so I know who we should be killing."

[puppygirllaika]

and this is not unique to one side of the political spectrum btw. right or left, authoritarian or anarchist, all are susceptible to the rhetoric of "who is the acceptable target?"

[ultramanzer0]

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[musicforyourplants]

[boy-matt-deactivated20181204]

*slams reblog*

[ariesaav]

Klezmer dolphins.

[willcub-deactivated20180521]

I don’t know that I’ve reblogged anything faster in my entire tumblr life.  

[onceuponamirror]

honestly they’re better than the band that played at my bat mitzvah

[fractalindigo]

I like dolphins.

I love klezmer.

But as a former band kid, this made me die laughing.

[gaydiation-poisoning]

It would kill half the 19-25 year olds online to realize "I can't help it I have trauma" is one of THE quintessential abuser excuses

[gaydiation-poisoning]

Like there is a difference between "My trauma creates impulsive urges and has changed my instinctive reactions to be irrational, I need to relearn shit." vs "I'm traumatized so I Can't Help It and you're not allowed to expect better of me"

[anxious-and-in-pain]

it’s okay to do things that make your symptoms worse (as long as you’ll stay safe)

every once in a while you need to eat something yummy. or go on a walk. or a trip to the zoo. take a hot shower. cry your eyes out. dance. listen to music. draw for way to long. write. laugh. sit in a cafe with a friend. paint your nails. dye your hair. go on a run. pet a cat

sometimes you need to do things that are cathartic or make yourself feel alive. sometimes you need the reminder of why you’re fighting so hard to stay alive

this is your reminder that just because it makes your symptoms worse, it isn’t always the wrong thing to do. there can be value in these actions

[lifewithchronicpain]

If you think about it too, abled people do it all the time. Deciding to drink to excess at a party knowing they'll have a hangover. Going to a theme park knowing walking all day is going to hurt their feet by the end. We have the right to make those same decisions.

[ghostly-light]

This is called Dignity of Risk, and it's an important concept in disability justice.

Everyone weighs their physical and mental/emotional health against one another in constantly shifting balance; inevitably, there are times when we choose to accept consequences to one for the sake of the other.

Infantilsing us by undermining our agency in the name of "protection" or "care" is yet another way that we are disabled by society.

[skrotchevo]

[sticker-pop]

2020's Tamagotchi memo sheets

[threedollarsdotcom]

you cant get anywhere by bottling it up. when youre around people who really do care, you have to let yourself open up or no one will ever know. you deserve better than praying for scraps be genuine or die

[maxxie-or-smth]

half the thoughts i have aren't mine and i don't know where they're coming from

[koko-bunii]

✨Garurumon✨

[todaysbird]

unexplained slide in my little brother’s high school math class PowerPoint

[boxheadpaint]

And like who the fuck is this guy [gestures to reflection in mirror alone in bathroom