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[fairycosmos]

god i love coming home and being at home and sitting inside my home and staying home

[kosmogrl]

[kosmogrl]

[theambitiouswoman]

You build your confidence by doing the things you promised yourself that you would do

[probuccalfat]

it’s important to ask yourself once in a while “why do i live this way” any time i ask myself that, it’s my sign that something’s changed for me so i can take a moment to figure out my new wants, needs, hopes, goals, values. do not need to live in a way that’s making me say that.

[desultory-suggestions]

You are allowed to completely change as a person by the way. You don’t have to stay trapped in the versions other people created of you.

[allsadnshit]

Adulthood can be so easy to self isolate in a way that was annoyingly impossible as a child and I feel like adults even warn you to enjoy community and the comfort of groups despite how difficult they can be because you really can just accidentally lose the ability to be around others if you don't practice for long enough which is so weird and scary to experience and really observe yourself

You really have to CHOOSE to keep up with friends and family like you have to smile at your neighbor and ask their name- even if you have ever excuse in the world to shut everyone out, at the end of the day it's not good for the soul and being alone is different than being isolated and I am having to get scarily real with myself about my choices and how I am living and how I've become overwhelmed at the idea of platonic companionship outside of my love and fulfillment I get in marriage

And childhood friendships just won't be like adulthood ones like you don't have the same time and freedoms and forming families together and apart are all very complex parts of things and I want to let things be different instead of feeling lost and letting that rule me

[br1ghteyed]

i think i tend to forget how good boredom is for creativity because we're all so addicted to numbing ourselves with screens and stimulation. but standing in the shower or going for a walk with no music or just sitting in your bedroom without being allowed to touch any screens & all of a sudden i have multiple new projects to start, a solution to a months-long plot problem & 4 new original characters

[allsadnshit]

Constantly remember how full of choices life is and how if you let your guilt or shame lead you instead of joy you truly will have no one to blame but yourself when you are living a life that feels heavy and constrained instead of happy and free

When you are not a child anymore you have to make decisions based on your own beliefs and no one else's and if you can't then no one is gonna save you - it's something you do for yourself regardless of how it looks to people around you and no one is gonna tell you to choose yourself

[allsadnshit]

Check in - My life has continuously improved since I voiced this and really actualized it

[boethiah]

no such thing as wasting your 20s your 20s are for recovering from whatever the fuck happened to you as a kid so that youre ready to get weird with it in your 30s

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[vampurrring]

maybe growing up is just becoming who you were at 14 again but learning how to love her this time

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[da-shaolin]

Daily reminder that how people perceive you means nothing. Be yourself at all times

[scorpionlafemme]

[with-practice]

My fav thing is going home.