StillSweatingTheSmallStuff

They/Them. Oh fuck, we’re 30 hpc: @tef_ebooks

[fishgummy]

2024

DO IT SCARED

FUCK IT WE BALL

REMEMBER THAT PEOPLE CARE ABOUT YOU

MAKE THE CHOICE TO END HARMFUL PATTERNS

LOVE WITH YOUR WHOLE HEART

[homunculus-argument]

I love browsing cover-up tattoo stuff when every once in a while there's someone asking "how do I cover up this unspeakably idiotic thing" and people are like "please do not cover that up, that's fucking amazing." You just have "shrimps is bugs" written on your leg now. That's your legacy.

[wario-hentai-hobbyist]

Have you seen that one weasel tattoo that someone was asking coverup advice for? One of the best tattoos I've seen.

[wario-hentai-hobbyist]

Found it!

[homunculus-argument]

It's so fucking beautiful I'm in tears. Laughing so hard I'm crying but what difference is that really.

[what-even-is-thiss]

If nobody ever explained this to you, if someone you see a lot does something you like and you never ever tell them that, they might think you don’t like them or don’t like the things they do for you.

[what-even-is-thiss]

If you like your sister’s cooking and have never ever told her that, she may very well think that you hate her cooking. If you like it when your friend drives you places and you never ever thank them, they might think you’re not grateful even if you are. If you like it when your partner does this or that thing for you they won’t know that unless you tell them.

[what-even-is-thiss]

Tell people in your life hey thanks for driving me, that was a great dinner, I like your singing, thanks for helping me with that. They don’t automatically know that you appreciate what they do.

[trochaic-mutant-ninja-tetrameter]

🎶Show appreciation! For the small things!🎵

[mountcrynai]

Being a townie comes at you fast.

(I have strong opinions about which fire dept has the best Friday fish fry)

[fearsomeandwretched]

Transphobia is so antithetical to genuine feminism it blows my mind there's such a wide overlap like you either believe in autonomy and self determination or you don't

[libraford]

The people who police your gender will police your gender even if you're cis.

Eat them.

[libraford]

"OH those body builder women with pancake breasts arent-" eat them.

"This woman has a beard, thats not-" eat them.

"That man has a baby face, that's not" - eat them with barbecue sauce.

Eat them. You will never be gender enough for their definition of gender. Eat them.

[symbiotic-slime]

[nicolethered]

[greenishness]

As part of her social media detox this girl on YouTube made herself do one hour of understimulating tasks every day and she just counted rice for 60 minutes straight because its no different from doomscrolling in terms of wasted time

[greenishness]

When I say this changed my life. Every time I'm on my phone I ask myself Is this different from counting rice for one hour ? and if the answer is no I go find something else to do. It works well because it's not about conforming to productivity standards or about moralizing digital hobbies it's just an honest reflection on whether tomorrow I will be glad I spent my time this way and then acting accordingly. The rice paradigm

[wizardsisananimal]

the procrastinator’s mind will invent distractions you’ve never conceived of in order to avoid tasks even a dog could do.

[lazy-crooked-barbarian]

From @notagarroter So true. Also there are books. And writing. And writing in your head without actually writing. Or sudden, inexplicable cleaning sprees.

[amnesiaguy]

so ummm welcome to my jar:) lemme show you around! theres some holes poked in the top so i can breathe, theres some leaves to munch on, and ive even got a twig! #mytwig

[worldheritagepostorganization]

World Heritage Post

[amnesiaguy]

madame president its an honor

[foxes-in-love]

[energyprison]

people really think "i HATE this [genre/medium], so that should tell you how good this is when i say i liked it" is a good place to start their review from. like why would i listen to you. you hate the genre/medium. the one you like is probably not very good as an example of the genre or medium.

[energyprison]

it makes you sound like this

[furryprovocateur]

no amount of monetization or algorithm favoritism will have me call it unalive or seggs or grape

[furryprovocateur]

generally speaking if doing something makes an advertiser angry you should do it and keep doing it

[homunculus-argument]

I started thinking about how fun it would be to play with the idea of two characters from completely different cultures bonding and getting along quite well, but due to their different backgrounds they have completely different ideas of what their dynamic with each other is. Like they are friends, but their ideas of the nature of their friendship are practically opposite from each other.

And the example idea that occurred to me was having one character who considers themselves the dominant one, who looks at the other one and thinks "this is my loyal companion, who has served me well and whom I can trust with my life. Though they are sometimes stubborn, and will refuse to obey if they cannot see the logic behind my desicions, I consider them more a friend than mere attendant."

And the other one considers themselves the one in charge, and looks at the other one like "this is my idiot friend, whom I clothe and feed because they can't be trusted to take care of themselves. They are charming in their own way, and I like this idiot too much to leave them to fend for themselves and very likely die."

And then I realised that's just the dynamic of having a cat.

[cometconmain]

😂

[alexseanchai]

the best bit of this description is, there's no way of telling which is the human and which is the cat

[homunculus-argument]

My god you're right. I didn't even write it that way on purpose.

[academic-vampire]

𝔬𝔠𝔱𝔬𝔟𝔢𝔯 𝔦𝔰 𝔟𝔯𝔢𝔴𝔦𝔫𝔤

[hisch13r86]

[confessionsdiaz]

*through gritted teeth* the world is GOOD. people are kind. Humans are NOT inherently selfish. you will make it through this year. recovery is possible. people you don't know yet will love you. You are going to do things you can't even imagine right now. You are going to read a rlly good book. You are going to eat some rlly good food. You are going to experience joy again. Things can get better. Situations can change. You can choose to be kinder. The world can change for the better.

[byronicjamie]

^this

[kitschycritter]

never stop collecting little things that make you happy! rocks! buttons! feathers! flowers! sticks! bugs! bones! never stop!

[yeahthatsdeepshitman]

how did a crow get a tumblr

[peanutbutterpumpkincake-deactiv]

with his fuckin email and a password how’d u get here

[shadowspoken]

@friend-crow