My friend speaks to this even more succinctly and simultaneously expansively:
"One of the most important and meaningful tools we have as humans is our WORD. By all means, please do your best to keep your word. If you can’t, then communicate that and formulate another plan and share it.
There is so much shadiness and misinformation circling around all of us, under our noses and across the planet. Intentions get muddled and misread and the outcomes of partially conveyed information coupled with assumptions brings ugliness, fear, heartache and chaos. Sometimes this is accidental and other times it’s deliberate. No one needs extra stress. This is a given. When people are truly SOLUTION-MINDED, they collaborate and strive for harmony, resolution and win-win scenarios. When you find that the intended goal of another party IS chaos and pain and confusion, that is when you must recognize that you are navigating a different playing field in a different arena.
People who take comfort in (creating) conflict because it’s their only known norm must not be dealt with in a typical manner. They lack empathy and can not communicate on a human/e level despite their practiced displays of human-like emotion. Sociopaths and narcissists are typically very damaged and scared individuals who try to protect themselves by hurting and even/often attempting to destroy others. This is all done amidst a cloak of falseness designed to strategically creates uncertainty and doubt. It is directed right toward the target/victim.
I send blessings to all who must summon their courage and trust their intuition when they feel deeply that something is amiss within personal interactions and circumstances. We are our own guides and we have access to our celestial guides and the wisdom and input of our ancestors. We all have the capabilities of applying discernment and shining light onto darkness as we disengage from the sickness of others, all while sending them LOVE FROM AFAR with our own boundaries remaining intact.
These are intense and trying times, on numerous levels—personal, professional, national, international, global and beyond. We are at a huge pinnacle of global change and we are all players with power in this revolutionary shift.
Your word/s, your intention/s, your prayers and your follow-through are of the utmost importance right now. It is a time in which we are seeing things being shaken up, opportunities arising for righting wrongs. We are to be holding ourselves and others accountable in the healthiest of ways, knowing that one will always endure the punishment or rewarding consequences one brings to oneself.
Be open to learning new ideas and new ways of thinking. This time is also ripe for learning and assimilating higher frequency practices which will bring peace to those who need to be recharged by that powerful force we all have at our disposal: LOVE.
I have so much more to say but I will leave you with this:
Your word means everything. Keep it.
People are not always who they pretend to be, but the truth is ALWAYS revealed later.
Put others in their place when necessary, but remember that the universe is already working on that. Send those who intend us harm love but do not be trodden over by others’ falseness and misguided plans.
Trust. The right things come along if we open our eyes and minds to their existence and the certainty of their availability to us. Our instincts and intuition are perhaps our greatest gifts as they guide us multisystemically.
There is no right path but your free will can benefit you most when you align and connect yourself with TRUTH. Your truth may be different from that of others. But no real truth contains darkness. All truth is designed to reach toward the GREATER GOOD (for all).
You may be forgiven and you may offer forgiveness while keeping your integrity and boundaries intact.
I appreciate that you took the time to read my New Year’s message.
Remember that we ALWAYS have solutions and options available to us. We always have a CHOICE.
This new year, let us all strive to break down barriers of misunderstanding while maintaining our own strength and influencing as well as learning important lessons from all the individuals and situations around whom and within which we find ourselves.
Life is a gift. We are all here because we are supposed to be here now."