sumiisan

radfem || bi || multifandom|| lesbian supporter

[hemipenal-system]

ok im actually done being nice now. if you’re a cis lesbian who refuses to date trans women i genuinely think you’re a bad person. “but my genital preference” i dont care. fix your heart or die idk what to tell you

[ms-lgb-maggot]

why are you so obsessed with erasing lesbian culture so much? why won't you tell "CIS gays to like trans men"? why is it always women and lesbians that you attack? do you even know what word "lesbian" means? Lesbos, female only land and etc. Go read books instead of brainrotting on this site 24/7.

[gracieslvss]

I can't call myself a "Terf" because that stands for 'Trans-Exclusionary' and you can't exclude something that was never included, males were never part of radical feminism and never will be.

[wyvern-of-the-evening]

People will accuse you of “erasing lesbians” or “erasing gays” while also thinking males can be lesbians and females can be gay men

[butchpeace]

We talk a lot about how it’s homophobic to tell lesbians that they need to be open to dating males.

But by focusing on on how harmful this is to lesbians, we leave bisexuals behind.

Many trans people have an attitude of “If lesbians/gay men don’t want me, at least bisexuals do.” And that’s just not true, and not fair to bisexuals. It leads to a culture of expecting bisexual women to be okay with any configuration of biological sex, hormonal status, and body parts.

Bisexuals are therefore framed as a group of women who are supposed to be available as a potential partner for anyone who wants them.

So it’s not just homophobic, it’s part of rape culture. Because it aims to teach (mostly) women that they’re not allowed to form their own feelings about their sexuality and their attraction. It teaches women that their sexuality isn’t for them. Their sexuality is a political statement, and there is a right and wrong statement to make.

The fact of the matter is that no one has to date someone they’re not attracted to. No one has to try to develop attraction for someone they’re not innately interested in. No one has to “examine their preferences” when it comes to who they want in their bed. This includes bisexuals.

Yes, women standing up for ourselves does lead to a lot of lonely mtfs who can’t get dates. No, that is not women’s problem.

This affects all of us, but it affects bisexuals in a unique way that’s worth talking more about.

[dk-thrive]

Sunrise. 7:03 to 7:09 am. 22° F, feels like it's damn colder. December 3, 2024. Cove Island Park. Stamford, CT. (@dkct25)

[ms-lgb-maggot]

It looks fantastic

[gatekeeper-of-witchcraft]

interesting how many people I see handwringing over 4b being “terfy” and transphobic but unable to articulate why. admit it’s because it denies sex to transwomen as part of the group of people who could get women pregnant. admit it’s just because tims aren’t getting their dicks wet. admit you’re caping for a male sexual access movement. admit you’ve conditioned yourself to knee-jerk hate anything by and for women.

[aftonfamilyvalues]

they dont even try to understand what korean women endure. they immediately start acting like everything in korea is the same as in the united states. that the only reason feminism is vilified there is because theyre meanie terfs rather than because of rampant misogyny and incel ideology so bad that even being a suspected feminist is life ruining and endangering

[itstherandomloller]

They don't understand that IS feminism and they're just proving they're anti feminist. There is no bigotry in being against the oppressor.

[ichverdurstehier]

Korea is the most misogynistic civilized society on earth

[ms-lgb-maggot]

shit this is TERRIBLE they're not even hiding it

[ryan-sometimes]

As a queer Gen Z, I constantly think about how there’s such a huge chunk of the queer community that’s simply… missing. So much of the queer community died during AIDS that almost an entire generation of us is simply not there anymore.

Those queer people were supposed to be our teachers, our mentors, maybe even our parents or grandparents. Those queer people were supposed to be there for us. They were supposed to be at pride events, welcoming all the young queers. They were supposed to be representation in our careers. Those people were supposed to be there to help us navigate life as queer people, and it’s devastating for both us and them that they never got to do it.

[lookupmedicalmisogyny]

Youre calling them all terfs and tehms and acting like theyre dead.

[scumbhag2]

You people literally beat up Fred Sargeant at Pride...

[coquettefeminist-deactivated202]

I wouldn’t be associated with the newer “queer” community either. In fact I will not really participate in anything deemed “queer” only because yall are insane. Even lesbian bars aren’t even lesbian.

[ms-lgb-maggot]

I would rather die than get called queer instead of bi.

[kkoffin]

an abused wife of the 1700s who’s birthed 16 children and has not been allowed to leave the house for the last 7 years will write in her diary “i am cursed to be a woman. i wish i were a man, so i could be free, and i wouldn’t always be pregnant, aching, and i could explore, see the world, and learn. why did god forsake me with this body?” and you’ll search her name on tumblr and get “he was such a transmasc legend!! trans people have always existed! proof is right here! he suffered because he wanted to transition so bad 😔 this is why gender transition must be a human right, and deadnaming should be illegal. stupid TERFs, complaining about sex-based oppression. that doesn’t even exist.”

[tra-archive]

I dont understand why trans ppl decided to infiltrate the lesbian and gay sexuality than the pan?

The whole point of gay and lesbian, is that they aren't fluid. Their meanings are simple, lesbians are into cis women, gay are into cis men.

Pan is literally for the ppl that don't care about the gander or the genitals of the person. That's where they fit. That's where they go.

Like why try to make lesbian and gay a fluid sexuality when you already have one, pan.

This annoys me so fucking much.

I gotta be honest nonny, I have no idea. It could be the entitlement of wanting to be included in everything, or it could be that they feel rejected by people calling themselves same-sex attracted. (So like “if I say I’m a woman and a lesbian doesn’t want to date me, it means she doesn’t see me as a woman.”

Either way though, that doesn’t change the fact that gay men are homosexual males and lesbians are homosexual females.🤷‍♀️

[worldsworst-grl]

and tras wonder why we don’t want these freaks in our spaces…

listen to trans women when they say that they want to rape you

listen to trans women when they say that they want to degrade you

listen to trans women when they say that they see you as nothing but a “cum dump”

[lazylabrys]

Thought I’d add this. “Transbians” are just straight men, literally. Let’s be real, the fuckers that make these posts can’t even get it up.

Anyways… let’s stop normalizing corrective rape against lesbians 💀

[wanhyutji]

Stop calling it women’s healthcare stop calling it women’s healthcare stop calling it women’s healthcare stop calling it women’s healthcare stop calling it women’s healthcare

[ms-lgb-maggot]

and here we go again, they already want us to stop separate basic female healthcare how it's supposed to be.

[marcusbrutus]

"4b is misandrist" don't care "4b is unpatriotic" don't care "4b hurts men" don't care "4b will cause incels to rage out" don't care "4b is just purity culture" don't care "4b is problematic" don't care "4b is xyz-phobic or xyz-ist" don't care "4b is too radical" don't care "only ugly/unfuckable women do 4b" don't care "no one would want to sleep with you anyway" don't care "4b is bad for birthrates" don't care

[lavenderfeminist]

The pattern of default referring to butches as “they” is so transparent and homophobic

[starlight-fem-deactivated202605]

"queer" this, "wlw" that, "sapphic" this... shut up, i am a lesbian. a homosexual woman. i am same-sex attracted. these aren't dirty words.

[transphobicennui-deactivated202]

right. genuinely why are people so afraid of the word lesbian

[girlpatches-deactivated20250530]

i wish he would give up as well

[feminine-wrath]

"men are slowly giving up, and nobody cares! :("

[radfemmadoka]

“Men are giving up and women don’t care” is what he should have titled it, because that’s what he meant. What is stopping men from looking out for and caring for each other??? Men hold, what, at least 90% of political positions worldwide?? Why can’t these men in charge make things better for their fellow men? Its because males fucking hate each other. They treat each other like shit and murder and torment one another, so they want a “waman” to love and fix it for them. Even though they hate us too. Learn to appreciate each other and care about each other for gods sake. Im so tired of seeing vids like this. The women of the world aren’t your collective mommies.

[unsentimentaltranslator]

They should give up faster, I’m sick of their shit

[anoptimisticdevil]

society if women were seen as people