AFAB (Assigned Feminist At Birth)

Sirona//23, neurodivergent, bisexual. USA. Rudefem. (terf/terfs/terfself) Exposing the bigotry of TRAs. No slurs allowed. Cryptos welcome!

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Welcome to tra-archive!

Hi radblr! I was sirona-ryan. You can call me Sirona, Rona, Ro or whatever you can come up with.

I originally started this new blog as a receipts blog, but because of personal stuff I’m less available to be online, so as of now I’m no longer a receipts blog🫡This is subject to change!

About me: I’m 22, I’m bisexual, I’m autistic, I’m in a relationship with a wonderful woman, and I’m a first year teacher. I’ve been a feminist since I was little, but I didn’t get into radical feminism until about 2021. I had my terf awakening when TRAs called me names for not wanting women to be called “menstruators.”

I am also a survivor of CSA and my feelings on sharing about it are conflicting. Sometimes I post about my experience and sometimes I don’t want to think about it at all. Please don’t send me asks about the specific events, if/when I’m open to questions I will make it known.

On this blog I post receipts of TRAs being bigoted (racism, homophobia, misogyny, ableism, etc.), men being misogynistic, general feminist stuff (calling out beauty culture, the porn industry, etc.), rants about everything, and random thoughts I have that I just want to get off my mind.

This blog is pro-woman, pro-LGB, pro-abortion, and pro-intersectionality. This blog is anti-conservative and anti-MAGA. If you like that sex pest in office, go right ahead and block me.

You may send asks and anons, but I do have boundaries so please be respectful if you don’t want to get blocked. No receipts involving animal abuse.

Do not harass or brigade any of the blogs featured in receipt posts. I don’t support that behavior and we shouldn’t stoop to their level. That will result in a block. Also, no slurs. I don’t support using the T slur, plus it could get you and me termed.

You may not use misogynistic language (bitch, cunt, whore etc.) to talk about women. Remember that it’s not okay for any woman to be called those things, even women you hate. I’ll block you if I see you using misogynistic insults.

Here are the links to my tags, made for easy mobile browsing.

Receipts: Homophobia

Receipts: Misogyny

Receipts: Racism

Receipts: Violence (suicide bait, death/rape threats, doxxing, etc.)

Receipts: Sex vs Gender (TRAs not understanding the difference between sex and gender)

Receipts: General Stupidity (for everything that doesn't really fit the previous tags but is still hilariously stupid)

Asks

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Thank you so much for the detailed reply! I guess I am a crypto now that I know what it is.

-Previous anon

No problem nonny!❤️

I’d say most of my followers are cryptos. TRAs would probably spontaneously combust if they realized how many cryptos are really out there lol. My radfem discord server is also mostly cryptos except for me (and they finally have a safe space to rant off anon with other radfems), so that should say how common it is🤣

I’m even crypto on my other account, my sims tumblr. I have my pronouns in my bio, post pro-trans stuff, etc. It’s just not worth the death threats and hate messages. I already get so many of those here haha

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Could you outline what the acronyms stand for? I understand TIM is trans-identified male (?), but struggling with the other acronyms I see on here a lot.

Yeah no problem! Here’s most of the acronyms I see used in radfem spaces:

TIM- trans identified male (trans woman/enby)

TIF- trans identified female (trans man/enby)

NB- non-binary (aka enby)

TRA- trans rights activist (btw I know they think we use this as an insult, but it’s literally just a descriptive term lmao, that’s what they are)

MRA- men’s rights activist

DNI- do not interact (TRAs say this a lot, like “TERFs DNI” but some radfems say it too, I used to have “conservatives/MAGA DNI” in my bio)

TERF- trans exclusionary radical feminist

GC- gender critical

HRT- hormone replacement therapy

GAC- gender affirming care (what TRAs like to call HRT and surgeries)

DSD- disorders of sex development (a more accurate and less colloquial term than “intersex” which some people do find offensive)

FEB- female-exclusive bisexual (so I describe myself as “feb” or a “febfem” which means I’m bisexual but choose to exclusively date women)

SSA- same-sex attracted

OSA- opposite-sex attracted

WOC/MOC- women/men of color

FWW- the subreddit r/FourthWaveWomen

4B- a feminist movement originating in South Korea which focuses on four things women shouldn’t do with men- date, marry, have sex, and have kids. The “B” is because the Hangeul character ㅂ is often romanized as “B” in English, and the 4 tenets of the 4B movement all start with the letter “비” (which is like the prefix non- or un-) which is also pronounced like the letter B, so it became 4B or “The Four Nos”

The following aren’t really acronyms but they’re still terms used in our spaces a lot that are kind of shortened and can be confusing:

Libfem- liberal feminist (so unlike a radfem who thinks the system needs to be torn down and rebuilt, a libfem usually prefers to try and fix the system we have, they also focus more on individual choices rather than examining the history behind those choices)

Rudefem- a feminist (usually a radfem) who doesn’t bother being nice or trying to engage with TRAs/MRAs/libfems, instead preferring to insult and crash out (this is me basically😭)

Nicefem- opposite of rudefem, they’re more likely to engage in civil debate

Factfem- a feminist who is more straightforward during debates and uses facts & statistics to get their point across

Febfem- like I mentioned above, a feminist who is bisexual but only dates women

Crypto- someone who is a radfem or terf but isn’t open about it, whether that’s because they’re still new and learning or because they’re in TRA circles and understandably don’t want to get harassed. They’re usually either completely anon (like many of my asks) or have an account with no terf/radfem content but secretly like radfem posts or send private asks/DMs

⚠️⚠️And finally, these acronyms can be triggering so I’m putting a read more. I’m only mentioning them here because I use these acronyms a lot as someone who has experienced these things and also wants to raise more awareness:

CSA- child sexual abuse/assault (I am a survivor of CSA. Some survivors prefer other terms but I tend to go with CSA)

SA- sexual assault (the word “rape” can get you banned or censored on several platforms, so SA is often used instead, plus SA also covers other forms of assault such as groping)

CSAM- child sexual abuse material (the “new” term for CP/child porn because it does a better job of conveying the reality of it. You’ll hear the term CSAM pop up in radfem discussions when discussing the ethics of porn and normalizing pedophilia)

Hope this helped a little! If there’s ever one I say or someone else says that you don’t get, just send an ask :) I didn’t think I’d end up yapping so much in this ask lmao but we really do use a lot of our own language I guess.

[cosmonautistic]

[doubleca5t]

ok well my lesbian fantasies involve having sex. so write that down

[plounce]

the original tweet being translated from russian may provide some helpful context as to why OP is fantasizing about being able to be publicly affectionate with a partner. sex is an important part of lesbianism for many people (including myself!); i also think approaching harmless posts like this with sympathy for the context is more thoughtful and considerate than jumping to a snappy comeback. my heart aches for OP and i hope they are able to find happiness in an often unkind world.

[river-grunfeld]

Hmm I wonder why Double misunderstood this so badly

[literally-black-jesus]

I hate people who say shit like "I prefer to date people with afab bodies" no you don't you prefer people with vulvas and boobs who look more "fem" to you and its perfectly fine to say that. I'm afab and I don't think you'd like my beard or body hair or anything about me so don't rope me in when we both know what you meant. SAY WHAT YOU MEAN I FUCKING BEG YOU

[evenlesssentimentaltranslator]

OK. She means she’s a lesbian and she wants heterosexual men to stop sexually harassing her.

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To sum it up:

And she’s right😌

[sailor-grrrl-deactivated2025052]

68.1% of muslim women have severe vitamin D deficiency.

46.2% of muslim women with severe vitamin D deficiency had high bone turnover. Hyperparathyroidism is found in 38.6% of muslim women. This study was done in Australia, a very sunny and dry place, and these women were healthy in every other way, keep that in mind.

Source

Anyways, keep telling me about how the hijab empowers women.

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Happy Pride Month!🏳️‍🌈❤️

Here are some reminders:

-Nobody should ever lose human rights because of their sexuality.

-Pride started as a protest and we can largely thank Black lesbian women for fighting for our rights. Stormé DeLarverie specifically.

-Children belong at Pride. LGBT kids and teens deserve to feel included too, especially those who don’t have supportive families.

-It’s okay to use qu**r for yourself, but please don’t use it for the whole community. Many of us aren’t okay with it.

-It’s LGBT, not LGBTQIA+ and especially not 2SLGBTQIA+.

-There’s no such thing as “respecting each other’s beliefs” and “agreeing to disagree” when it comes to gay rights. There is no justification for homophobia, yes even if your bullshit religion says so. The only solution for homophobes is the Charlie Kirk treatment.

-Related to that last point, don’t give your money to homophobic companies (if you can). Chick-fil-A says “we can respect others without agreeing with all their beliefs” but being LGBT and thinking they deserve equal rights isn’t a fucking belief. There’s nothing to disagree with.

Enjoy the month and make sure you tell your local homophobe to fuck off!

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“Nope”??

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you're not the only one. i wish there was another word other than "big pharma" but yes. it's an industry and not untainted by capitalism. i think it's important to separate the actual science from companies. vaccines save lives and they will continue to save lives even if capitalism didn't exist.

Agreed, “big pharma” definitely sounds like a conspiracy theory word💀Probably better to differentiate like you said.

I had this discussion in my radfem discord server (hmu if anyone’s interested) with another amazing woman and we were talking about how a lot of TRAs are super anti-capitalism and preach about it all the time online but they then go on to give a lot of their money to huge capitalistic (?) industries like medical companies and makeup companies. Again I know people with dysphoria do actually need the transition services (and the therapy which is another part of the medical industry) but I think the amount of people who genuinely need it is waaaay lower than what we currently see.

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Okay I feel like I’m not the only one here but I’m just curious for other radfems- does anyone else fully support vaccines and modern medicine but ALSO believe in big pharma?😅

Like I’ve argued with anti-vaxxers so many times and I fully believe they work and trust medical professionals. I also believe we should take medicine if we need it and I’m not one of those “all natural only” people. If a doctor recommends or prescribes a vaccine or medication, I’ll take it. I get the flu and Covid shots.

But at the same time I do believe that big pharma is a thing. I feel like this is especially evident with “gender affirming care,” like it’s not like those surgeries and hormones are cheap. (Yes many people do have insurance, but many others don’t and do pay out of pocket.) Considering how rare sex dysphoria actually is, you’d think there’d be a lot less people getting surgery or going on HRT, but it seems like the amount went way up especially after the 2020s. Also there’s a disturbing trend of young women, often autistic, getting “top surgery” and even hysterectomies. Idk, I hate to sound like a conspiracy theorist but…🤷🏻‍♀️

That was kind of all over the place but yeah lol that’s what I’ve been thinking about lately.

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not for nothing but "chastity until marriage" and "lifelong strict monogamy" is every bit as much kink as piss or free use or knotting is. we just don't call it that because those weirdly specific and highly fetishized sexual practices are institutionalized and considered normative.

[shera-dnd]

what are traditional catholic values if not just an overly elaborate and widely accepted version of a breeding kink

[butchviking]

"chastity until marriage" and "lifelong strict monogamy" aren't a kink thing. they're a way to control women's reproduction. to ensure the bloodline for male heirs. to ensure power and wealth is handed down and men get to continue their "legacy". imagine being so oblivious to opressive social structures you think people just made the rules up randomly one day to decide what's normal and what isn't lmao. "what are traditional catholic values-" a way to fucking control people, dumbo. especially women. same as every other religion.

[lesbian-interveners]

porn addicts looking at misogynist violence and oppression: i'm getting real kink vibes from this

[tabbycatcarnival]

The call is coming from inside the house

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Genuinely one of the most insane comments I’ve ever read

And of course it’s a fucking TRA.

[natnormalatall]

roald dahl was antisemitic. george orwell was openly homophobic. edgar allan poe married his 13 year old cousin. dr seuss cheated on his wife. hp lovecraft was racist as fuck. anyways they’re fucking dead it’s not like you’re enabling their behaviors in the afterlife or something. then again I think orwell’s homophobia bleeds into one of his books so uh keep an eye out for that

the difference between these old white guys and jk rowling is that the former group is all dead. jk rowling is alive and using your money to oppress trans people

[hyeenagurrl]

nope! she’s funding womens shelters that dont allow male people to ID their way in. shes benefiting women, not oppressing trans peiple. funny how you didnt use, say, neil gaiman, a serial sexual abuser of young girls and women, benefitting financially from good omens season 3 as a better and recent example. because a woman author believing in the material reality of sex based oppression and not literally believing you can change your sex is worth more performative hand-wringing to you. you stupid misogynist jackass.

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“The difference between these old white guys and JKR is that they’re all dead”

Wrong! The difference is that they’re men and JKR is a woman, so it’s more acceptable to criticize and hate on her. Don’t even try and pretend otherwise. I’ve never seen those male authors called bitches or cunts, and I’ve never seen people wish that they’d been raped. But JKR has had all of that happened to her. I wonder why?

Also, I don’t buy the whole “they’re dead so it’s okay” excuse. When Neil Gaiman was accused, so many of you people made excuses (“good omens stopped me from killing myself!!”) and still read and bought his shit. He’s still alive. But when it comes to JKR she might as well be Hitler right?

There’s only one reason why JKR gets such horrific hate and it’s because she’s a woman. That’s it. I’ve seen male celebrities say way worse about trans people but she gets the most hate because people feel more comfortable doing it to a woman.

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I blocked every single TRA who liked, reblogged and/or commented on a negative post about me (over 1000) so this is pretty much all I see in comment sections now lmao

A day in the life of a chronically online person

[ovaryuri]

woman back in like the 1800s or something: I want to be able to explore the world and pursue higher education. but because i am a woman, the world will not allow me to do such things. this is why i made the difficult decision to cut my hair, bind my breasts, and pretend to be a man— all so that i can truly live.

people with stale gumballs in their head instead of a brain: omg trans icon! he's so gender! trans people have always been here and accomplished so many things 🥰 don't point out that he was a woman experecing sex based oppression or you're literally if hitler and jkr fused together

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They also do this thing where they take a single line from a diary of a 19th century woman saying something like "my life would be easier if I had been born a man" and take it is proof that she was definitely transgender and trans people have always existed. Yet they will also look at a detrans person who got a formal diagnosis of gender dysphoria and fully medicalised themselves and lived as a trans person for 20 years, and they will say that this person was never actually trans. Almost as if there isn't really a consistent definition for what "trans" even is.

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They’re finally admitting gender identity is just stereotypes.

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No one will ever convince me women are the more emotional sex. Never.

I have a million examples I could bring up but the fact that DV rates in the UK go up when men’s soccer (or football lol) teams lose tells you all you need to know. Physically lashing out because you’re angry about something is what toddlers do, and those outbursts involve a LOT of emotion.