HELP THREE BROKE TRANSFEMS MOVE OUT OF DANGEROUS LIVING CONDITIONS!!!
hiya, its me. renowned disabled transfem from tumblr. our apartment conditions were not great to start with and now theyre even worse, with nonfunctioning AC in 110 degree weather, a fridge that won't keep things cold, and all manner of pests and filth from past people living here that is unremovable without significant financial support.
WE DESPERATELY NEED TO MOVE OUT BEFORE OUR CONTRACT RENEWS IN OCTOBER!!!!
so starting now, im collecting funds to support us packing up and getting a different apartment, where we can live cleaner and healthier with a fresh start.
if i talk to our landlords about any of this, they'll just try to kick us out again.
I HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH WE NEED but apartments usually ask for a deposit, and a couple months of rent on top of that so im setting our goal at 3000 usd. thats more than ive ever asked before but its necessary for our survival and i can't put it off anymore.
$0/3000
ca$happ v3nmo
and dm me for my paypal if you would like to help.
"Stop scrolling and please help me spread the word, because if I've landed on your page you're most likely either a black woman or someone who cares about black women and the simple phrase I'm about to share could help save a black woman's life.
Doctors are to black women what police officers are to black men. That may seem controversial but I believe it to be true and I speak from personal experience.
If you've seen this TikTok you know that a 2016 study showed that 50% of medical students and residents thought that black people couldn't feel pain the same as white people.
And we learned from this video that because of a 1999 study, to this day, there's a black correction factor for the creatinin levels in black people's kidneys, meaning we're less likely to recieve a kidney transplant if needed.
So if you go to a doctor, feel you aren't getting proper treatment or they refuse the treatment you've requested, say to them the following:
I will need you to document on record that you are refusing the treatment (or medicine) I've requested, and the reason you are doing so."
This works. I have used it in other situations. If medical staff have to document and take responsibility and be on the hook legally for doing shady shit they behave much differently.
If you weren’t already going to spread this advice because black women are at risk, then spread it because it’s applicable to everyone else as well, including you reading this.
But particularly women, and especially black women.
Yes, the woman who spent the start of the year willfully misinterpreting all her posts regarding pedophiles, said she wanted to get child rapists into youthlib spaces, used her as a shield to be racist toward third worlders and continues to reblog posts that still misinterpret Missstrogen's words is pro-ISFF, you are very smart.
All that just so they can pedojacket Txttletale by being even associated with ISFF before backstabbing her. Like, obviously the racism and pedojacketing is bs and it fucking sucks that it's getting brought up just because someone used a screenshot of her "transfem shield that attracts bullets" post, but its so fucking ridiculous that even people who are complicit in the harassment of Missstrogen are tainted by proxy.
anon hater just accused me of (among other things) "encouraging kids to install malware on their parents' computers". I don't remember ever doing that but it sounded like a fun concept for a post so here are some ideas for things to install on your parents' computers!
a custom DNS resolver that blocks access to Fox News and other right-wing propaganda outlets
a keylogger to capture the admin password for your router so you can disable parental controls
a VPN or a virtual machine running the Tor browser to bypass access restrictions and age verification checks
your own "parental controls" browser extension, set up to send you notifications if your parents visit websites that indicate they might be spying on you (e.g. Life360)
a userscript that adds a fake virus warning popup to the donation pages of fascist political parties
have fun! make sure to do loads of reading and learn how things work so you can break them safely and effectively!
oh, and anon, my advice to you is never stab a man who collects knives
why transgender voices project / transmasc voices project should not be taken seriously
To anyone who supports transgendervoicesproject (formerly transmascvoicesproject), here she is, presented in her own words...
She talks over, ignores, mocks, or doesn't believe survivors who disclose abuse if they are also criticizing her
When hoveringwatcher criticized the blog's aims and disclosed her own experience, transgendervoicesproject screencapped her comment and posted it as if it was a submission. When hoveringwatcher commented on that post calling her out, transgendervoicesproject never responded.
Here she is mocking and refusing to engage with a rape survivor because the submitter was criticizing her. Update (7/26): and here she is doing the same thing on the same post when mousidy criticized her.
Here she is arguing with and diminishing another survivor. On the same post she misunderstood the submitter's situation and when she got called out for it, she claimed the submitter "literally rewrote [his] own story in real time."
Here she is condescending and arguing with a survivor after the survivor explained that places like transmascvoicesproject are why they struggle to come forward with their story.
She has continuously stolen other people's disclosures off of reddit. Links here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, and here. In many of these threads the OPs specifically mention not wanting to cause harm to the transfem community as a reason they struggled to disclose the abuse. By taking these disclosures and putting them on her blog, transgendervoicesproject is going against the explicit wishes of the survivors she claims to care about. In this thread multiple replies outright state they would never want their abuse used to further an agenda.
An anon saying they are the OP of one of those threads messaged her about it. She claimed the anon was lying just to "shut down a space for survivors." Previously she had said that "survivors deserve to be heard, believed, and protected." Seemingly that's only true when its beneficial to her.
In the comments of that anonymous ask, several people ask directly and indirectly if she got consent to post any of these reddit disclosures. She did not reply to any of them.
Her actions make it clear that she only cares about survivors when it is beneficial to her and her blog. If you criticize her, you are a rape apologist at best, and an abuser at worst. Here she is saying that everyone she has placed on her blocklist is just that. And then here she is denying she ever implied that.
She has no regard for transfems
Despite the blog's name implying that it would be a space to discuss instances of sexual assault targeted toward either transmascs or trans people in general, up until very recently she only allowed submissions where the perpetrator is TMA and the submitter is TME. Currently she does allow submissions from people who are also TMA, but again only if the person who abused them is also TMA. Her blog exists purely to catalogue rape by transfems.
Here she is agreeing with an anon saying that some trans women transition to escape rape allegations. And here she is platforming and agreeing with something that is somehow even more obviously TERF shit.
She has called five different trans women "rapey" or outright rapists. Here she is calling mousidy "insanely rapey" for saying trans women are coerced into topping. And here she is doubling down when she got called out for it. Update (7/26): here she is tripling down and further misinterpreting mousidy's post.
After storyweavingspider criticized transmascvoicesproject for calling mousidy "insanely rapey," transmascvoicesproject reblogged doxxed information about storyweavingspider. She has gone on to call storyweavingspider an abuser.
Here she is calling doyoulovethewayzeylily a "modern, digital-age charles manson" for DMing her and warning her about potential pushback from her blog. In the same post she accuses it of being a gaslighter and an abuser.
Update (7/26): Here she is misinterpreting yay-bunnies-world so she can imply yay-bunnies-world is a rape apologist.
Update (7/26): Here she is implying this trans woman is a rapist because she's critical of the blog.
Update (7/26): Here she is platforming a book created by two well known terfs. Feel free to read the book here and judge for yourself if you don't believe me.
She steals from and obsesses over mousidy to a suspicious degree
The first post on her blog is from July 13, 2026, roughly six hours after Mousidy announced she would be taking a break from Transfem Voices Project.
Her original mission statement was copy and pasted from mousidy's TVP mission statement. She denied this fact, saying she was only "mirroring a format." Here are the two posts side by side by the way. She then denied it again and again.
Following mousidy's post explaining the personal significance of the pink glitter heart emoji used in TVP, transmascvoicesproject changed her icon to a custom made blue version of that emoji.
She lifted the naming convention of her blog from mousidy's Transfem Voices Project. Mousidy stated that she is uncomfortable with people creating projects clearly stylized off of hers, and when transmascvoicesproject decided to rebrand, she continued to use mousidy's formatting and theming.
Following the name change, she started using TVP as her own acronym despite mousidy very explicitly stating that TVP is the acronym for her project. And then here she is arguing semantics and misinterpreting the criticism of her stealing the acronym TVP.
She has routinely accused mousidy of using Transfem Voices Project as a way to "farm donations" and as a way to "prophit" off of survivors. She also claimed that mousidy was using her "targeted harassment campaign" to get more donations.
Oh, and here's a silly one, she has on multiple occasions suggested that this very parody blog is run by mousidy: in this post, this post, and in the tags of this post.
She is now asking her followers to mass report mousidy, falsely claiming she "has repeatedly directed her followers to harass and mass-report me." The timing of which is extra suspicious given that the rebrand seems to exist to co-opt the TVP acronym and mousidy had just announced she was taking another break.
A few interesting oddities
In this post she says she's "old" and that she remembers when the terms transmasc and trasfem were invented, meaning she was around in the 80s to 90s. But then in a recent post she revealed she is 21.
Despite not knowing how to navigate an image board and also not realizing mousidy's comment contained a link, and also not being able to figure out what "HAL-ing" meant, she claims to have enough technological know-how to operate and maintain this pc setup.
She has a fear of being doxxed, but willingly posts her age, and then casually drops that she's related to David Lynch. She's either lying about being related to him so she could one up her criticizer, or she really isn't that worried about being doxxed.
Update (7/26): Here she is agreeing with an anon stating that the people criticizing her "never posit what the right way [to operate the blog] should be." On the day before that ask, here are three instances of people suggesting how to do the project "the right way."
In summary:
I no longer believe transmascvoicesproject was created out of any genuine desire besides to hurt transfems and to target mousidy. Her behavior and her posting being as consistently contradictory and inflammatory as they are, her weird obsession with stealing from mousidy while refusing to acknowledge her rushed copy and paste jobs, and the way she parrots terf talking points while claiming not to be a terf is incredibly suspicious. Even if you disagree with this assessment, it is undeniable that her actions stand in opposition to her stated goal of providing a safe space for survivors. She refuses to listen to criticism, she denies things that are easily fact checked, and she will outright call survivors liars if she can't twist their disclosures into serving her own agenda. Whether she's a troll/terf is irrelevant because the damage she is causing is real no matter what her intentions may be.
I will continue to add on and update this as more things come out. If she truly does care about accountability, then she shouldn't have an issue with someone simply cataloguing her posts. She will almost certainly continue to play the optics card, saying that the transfems (who are probably rapists) are criticizing her for simply "providing a space for survivors." Don't fall for it. She is being criticized for lying, for harassment, and for all her weird transmisogynistic behavior.
"it's not a thought crime if you post it because then it's not a thought it's something you said" ouhhhhh my God Can we all just throw ourselves into a river. they're inventing Posting Crimes. you did a Post Crime when you made that silly little kink post. it's only a thought crime if you only think it AND you have to hate yourself for thinking it you have to flagellate every day and be miserable and you have to bathe in boiling hot holy water to absolve yourself and cleanse yourself. you fucking Post Criminal. posting your Thoughts that are Criminal (not a real definable category that matters btw)
can we please talk about how the most miserable people on this website have such a backwards-ass idea of how to deal with intrusive thoughts. like, "it's only an intrusive thought if you perform exactly how disgusted you are by it!!" this is The opposite of what they tell you to do like actually. if you spend all your time wringing your hands over every single bad thought you have that only reinforces it!!!! you need to let it go. it's a thought it cannot hurt you and it isn't what makes you. and you don't need to performatively retch over how despicable the thought may be to an imagined jury. It Doesn't Matter. It's A Thought. Not An Action. And No Simply Saying It Aloud Or Writing It In A Journal Or Posting It To Your Blog Or Writing A Story Doesn't Make It Any More Real Either. Can We Please Stop Being The OCD Reinforcement Website
I just recieved this email for being a former Premium user.
The survey was asking why I left premium and what it would take for me to pruchase premium again.
For full transparency, I had premium at the beginning because I didn't want Tumblr to die, and I liked it being ad free. As soon as everything came out about PhotoMatt's transphobia and the Tumblr Moderation Team's inherent biases, I left the program- let tumblr die for all I care.
If you also recieved this email, I am pleading with you to take the survey and fill in any optional text boxes with the fact that you will not return to tumblr premium unless the CEO is removed and Tumblr makes actionable plans to remove Transphobia from their policies.
The Difference Between Transsexuality & Transgenderism: The Distinction is One of Identity and Necessity
(For the purpose of this post, I am defining "transsexual" as "trans" people with sex dysphoria, and "transgender" as those without.)
The mainstream trans movement has reached a point where the distinction between a medical condition and a social identity has been completely dissolved. Activists have successfully branded "transsexual" as an outdated term, many even considering it a slur, effectively giving us no other choice than to be grouped in with nondysphoric "trans" people.
The difference between a transsexual and a transgender person being in this community is the difference between someone saying, "I have a medical need to be in this space," and someone else saying, "I prefer the vibe over here."
"Trans" as a label has become meaningless. It no longer communicates anything specific about a person’s sex or their relationship to it. When someone says they are "trans," you have no idea if they actually are changing/have changed their sex, or if they just want to wear the label. By grouping transsexuals, transgender people, non-binary people, and "genderqueers" under the same umbrella, we have created a movement that lacks a uniform goal and erases the medical reality of transsexuality.
The truth is that transsexuals and transgender people do not share the same interests or needs. Transsexuals require the medical recognition of our condition, access to life-saving healthcare, and the ability to assimilate into society as our true sex. Transgender people, on the other hand, focus on liberation - they want to be seen, to be validated, and to dismantle the construct of gender. These two goals are fundamentally at odds; you cannot assimilate into a system while simultaneously trying to tear it down.
And the demand for unconditional validation of unfounded (and honestly, just ridiculous) claims has destroyed the community's credibility. It makes no sense to say someone's gender can change on a daily basis, but if you say gender fluidity isn't valid, you're labeled a transphobic bigot. It defies common sense to suggest that you don't need dysphoria to be trans, yet this is now the mainstream idea. When trans activism pushes boundaries of what most people find nonsensical, the legislative backlash is almost guaranteed - and indiscriminate.
The irony is that the resulting anti-trans laws - targeting bathroom access and medical care - do not affect all "trans" people equally. These laws hit transsexuals, whose lives depend on these services, the hardest. Meanwhile, those who only use the label socially can simply opt out of the danger when things get difficult. A transsexual woman has her entire existence on the line, while a nondysphoric AFAB "demi-girl" is at zero risk.
It is a shame that these two communities were ever forced under the same umbrella. I feel that if we developed separately, transsexuals would be more likely to be viewed as a protected class rather than a political caricature. By being forced under a social movement that prioritizes validation over medical reality, the mainstream movement has made a mockery of us.
I got sucked into the 'transsexual is a slur' nonsense years and years ago when people were saying it makes transition sound like a fetish, which was embarrassing and dumb, and I get being frustrated with that. Especially given that it's sex that's actually changing during transition. But I entirely disagree with the supposition that letting cis people explore their genders with or without HRT could ever make accessing care harder for transsexuals.
The thing is that while HRT, gender affirming care and surgery are life saving medical care, locking them behind a diagnosis will keep out cis people (entirely unnecessary) and trans people alike (killing them).
The fact that HRT is life saving medical care is exactly why it needs to be made more accessible, not gate kept. I don't care of some misogynistic cis woman who thinks she's not like other girls (due to her unchallenged misogynistic view of women) starts calling herself nonbinary or genderfluid or bigender and goes on T. So she'll get dysphoria and detransition eventually, whatever. That's on her for being a misogynist, and she's not the person I want to protect.
Setting HRT behind a wall of psych evaluation and specialists at overloaded clinics creates long wait lists, forcing trans people who actually do have dysphoria to wait, sometimes years, and sometimes that's too long. I'm more motivated to protect trans people w/ dysphoria from suicide than I am to protect cis people from HRT, y'know?
Not to mention that dysphoria doesn't look the same in everyone. I'm on a wait list for bottom surgery now, but when I started HRT I didn't have enough bottom dysphoria to want that. I had a lot of shit going on internally, including trauma from three other genital surgeries. If doctors had said, "Oh, well if you're not planning to get a vagina then you must not have dysphoria, so we won't give you HRT" then I would never have reached the point of wanting bottom surgery in the first place. I needed to see a woman in the mirror first.
The freedom to explore one's gender and gender expression can and often is a necessary step in contextualizing the way one feels as dysphoria. If one isn't allowed to do that exploration because the experience of dysphoria is treated as a prerequisite in order to gain "permission" then a lot of trans people will be stuck in the closet, potentially indefinitely, and for what? Who cares if someone wants HRT but doesn't "need" it? Who cares if someone's trans but doesn't want HRT? They might in the future. That, too, was a process for me - a process that started with moving somewhere that felt safe enough for me to not get killed for looking like tranny. There has to be room for people to take baby steps.
I can't say if I fully believe someone can be bigender or genderfluid as a singlet, but I have to treat that as a possibility because figuring out I was plural was harder than figuring out I was trans, and letting "singlets" explore gender expression can be a path to recognizing that they're plural in the first place.
No "cringe" trans person will ever be the root of societal transphobia. They're an excuse for policy at worst, not the cause for it, while binary trans women continue to be the best excuse transphobic policy makers could ever hope for. Respectability politics won't save us, that's exactly why trans women face more oppression than genderfuck people could ever conceive of.
You say you can't integrate into a system while dismantling it, and I disagree. Gender abolitionists and genderfucks are just cis, they're not trans allies, on that I agree. But at the same time, gender roles and the ever narrowing acceptable forms of gender expression have to be challenged. Transitioning IS challenging them, by its very nature. We have to dismantle, or at least reform the system in order to assimilate into it because the cisnormative belief is that this is an impossibility.
I feel extremely fortunate to not ever have needed a donations post, but I wish I was making enough to feel safe donating. I'm always two bad days away from needing help, but I never seem to have those two bad days in a row.
Of course, getting fired would fuck me over completely, which is why I still haven't come out at work or legally changed my name. I can't convince myself that i'll be fine if I do, clearly most trans women are not fine after doing so. I watched my best friend at the time go from making like 4x what I do to homelessness in less than a year.
if you tell a trans woman she is "enforcing passing culture" by wanting to pass and expressing it i honestly hope nothing good happens in your life ever after that
the whole “you are silencing survivors” thing transmascvoicesproject/transgendervoicesproject pulls does not need to be taken seriously under any circumstances. mousidy ran a project dedicated to opening a dialogue for tma victims and survivors of abuse, took a break for her mental health, and this blog was created immediately. the purpose of the blog is to archive instances of abuse where the perpetrators were tma and the victims were tme — this is the language used, and this does explicitly include cis people. the blog took its initial intro post directly from the transfem voices project, and has accused mousidy of being “rapey” for discussing her experiences with sexual coercion (doubling down twice), having more ideological alignment with abusers of transfems than transfem victims, and directing her followers to send the blog gore and rape threats, an unsubstantiated claim. this is a transmisogynistic hate blog, and it is specifically a harassment campaign against mousidy, which seeks to make her look unreasonable for dissenting — why would you want to shut down a survivor-centric space? are you afraid of people knowing how pervasive the issue of transfem sexual violence is? this does not need to be taken in good faith. the point of the blog is to silence and punish a transfem survivor for discussing sexual violence. taking it at face value is pointless; we don’t have to play along.
there are honest and good criticisms to be had about the human domestication guide but I'm pretty sure 99% of the hate is just because it's trendy to hate something transfem and seeing other transfems do it just because others also do is simply sad
