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ETTIE ☀️ SHE/HE/XE ☀️ 19

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The Lucky System 🐞 19, White, TME.

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muppettie

and yeah, sometimes the way that a lot of ace and aro people on tumblr talk about their experiences is very insular and uncomfortable. and it makes it super embarrassing to post about the very real phenomenon of amanormativity. but like, some of you are just uncomfortable with other people who have differing experiences than you and it's okay to like. sit with that discomfort and eventually move on. like if you're genuinely bothered by and trying to point out "flaws" in the way somebody labels their relationship you're just a lonely freak who doesn't like people who experience the world different from you and you should probably like. analyze that instead of posting about it on tumblr. or better yet shut the fuck up forever and go live in a cave until you can be respectful of aromantic people's genuine experiences

muppettie

like you're actually mad that i have partners that are neither platonic nor romantic? that actually bothers you? that's quite pathetic.

#you can DM for context i'll url drop idc

mousidy

the positioning of transfem hypervisibility and transmasc invisibility as two opposing forces is so insidious and dangerous because it reinforces the status quo where trans men's voices are already valued over trans women's

trans women can never speak because we're already apparently soaking up all the attention... nevermind that the "attention" is fearmongering government propaganda

trans women can take up no space, because any amount of attention is further proof that we hog the spotlight from trans men. our visibility is thought of as coming at the cost of that of trans men. so if a trans man speaks over us or silences us, he's just seen as balancing the scales. but our visibility and theirs are not actually opposing forces. a decrease in visibility for trans women is not an increase for trans men. it's just a decrease

melrose-arcade

It also assumes that we're actually getting space. It's like, we have wanted signs up so we don't get to have any other flyers up.

No one sees our opinions, or takes, or love, or joy. They see ONLY that we're a big boogey man. Arguably, we're not hyper visible, we're hyper targeted. Every thing I've ever seen as Transmasc Invisibility, mostly applies to Trans Women too

mousidy

#transmisogyny #🐞

wooper-official

Can white people stop trying to say that incest and pedophilia are an inherent part of trans culture

#🐞

toroidalearthtruther

"less is more" is a lie perpetuated by big small to sell more less

him?

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thegothicchangelingthesequel

I have a headcanon that Kaz enjoys gifting Inej jewelry but he's too shy to do it directly so he just leaves it in her coat pockets for her to find. She always wears it in front of him so he knows she likes it but neither of them ever say anything.

#grishaverse #🧵