I'm just holding this

[en-tei]

A few people have mentioned the similarities of isff and her circle such as (pocket-deer-belly, patriciataxxon for example) have these similar talking points to radqueers even if some don’t label themselves as such but they interact with people who identify as and share nearly the same ideology. Since this is a news/informative blog, I shall share this video from 6 months ago:

Yes it is an hour long but this actually originated on TUMBLR and spread to the general LGBT community and on other social media like TikTok, twitter and YouTube. There is a very large community of these people and this is what lgbt youth get introduced to when walking in. This is dangerous. I’ve been on tumblr a while and the way things shifted and this grew so fast is astonishing. If you are part of the lgbt community and disagree with this - you are made the enemy and why people are afraid to call this out. Degenerates have successfully taken the podium.

[britts-galaxy-brain]

I've shared this video before and I'm sharing it again because it's true.

Radqueer is inherently a groomer movement.

[cyberpunkpavlichenko]

I’m sorry but anyone who says this, defends this or handwrings about it (“you can’t criticize a marginalized person for being abusive that’s abuse!”) deserves to be shot. No if ands or buts.

[cyberpunkpavlichenko]

I think anyone who fell for this obvious 4chan psyop over the years should be banned from the internet. You are easily misled like an idiot.

[hymnism]

can we remove "biblically accurate" from the general lexicon

[al-ssahan-deactivated20260425]

Applying for visa feels like panting on all fours while an older woman-- (reflects on myself for a second) No it doesn't

[isuggesttouchinggrass]

isff defenders should read the zoosadist leaks and read the oddballs and pediverse situations.

do you want to be associated with animal abusers, rapists, and murderers? do you want to be associated with pedophiles who tout about their desire to rape children, to groom children? do you want to be associated with people who believe that rape - not cnc, not roughing, rape - should be normalized?

i've even read some who wrote about their sexual fantasies of wishing to abuse a child. to mutilate the child, then rape the child. not minor - minor downplays the seriousness of this situation.

look up kero the wolf. look up snakething. look up tim win. hell, she's not related to them directly, but go on and look up hypnotist sappho! find the audios of them mutilating and/or raping animals. you can probably find the videos with ease. look at them, and then tell me you still don't give a fuck about the normalization of zoophilia and pedophilia. go watch a video by the cult of cat murderers. or the monkey torturers.

this is beyond a silly "you can become a girl!" post. this is beyond a sissification fetish turned into some fucking wannabe political movement. this is not transfeminism. you do not care for us, your sisters. you do not care for your brothers. you care for entitled, individualistic, selfish needs. not community. not safety. and sure as hell not children and animals!

it was not normal for isff to say that removing pedophiles from the lgbt community is the equivalent of "dropping the t". it was not normal for isff to defend someone who claimed that "pedophilia is the most oppressed sexuality". it is not normal for people to claim that you can "safely practice pedophilia".

do not let this define transfeminism.

[wooper-official]

Can white people stop trying to say that incest and pedophilia are an inherent part of trans culture

[wooper-official]

I say this as a trans woman of color who’s tired of other trans people automatically assuming I’m a “sisterfucker” simply because of my transness, whether fictional incest or not. Be whatever the fuck you want to be into ig but stop trying to make this something that’s inherent to transness

[wooper-official]

Can white people stop trying to say that incest and pedophilia are an inherent part of trans culture

[evil-enby-osoka]

i hate that nonbinary people can't be, like, nonbinary.

whatever we do, we can't win. we can't be seen as actually nonbinary. people binarize us and often mock us or get aggressive or dismiss and ignore our nonbinaryhood or something else.

if we don't medically transition, we are "just cis trenders."

if we do medically transition, we are "just [binary trans] eggs."

we are "technically transmasc or transfem anyways" if we don't use these terms.

we are lumped together with binary trans men and trans women if we do use these terms. our nonbinaryhood is ignored or seen as some kind of "gender-lite."

we are aggressively pressured to disclose if we're AFAB or AMAB, TMA or TME, transmasc or transfem, "boy nonbinary" or "girl nonbinary." and if we refuse to answer, people get double mad at us and pick something for us anyways.

if we show the slightest hint of something that could be interpreted as binary gendered, we are immediately binarised.

if we put a lot of effort into looking the most ambiguous or androgynous or neutral, people still try to find something. and they become aggressive. people often EXPLODE [PT: explode] when they can't gender someone by glance.

our ways of expression are constantly mocked and ignored (like neopronouns, nonbinary-centering labels for gender and orientation, basically all things that are associated with nonbinary people).

but if we choose more typical ways of expression (for example, use "he/him" or "she/her" pronouns), people use it to ignore and dismiss our nonbinaryhood.

we just can't win, and it's upsetting.

[wooper-official]

Nya

[timhortons]

i hope youre all lying and hyping your cv/resume’s up

[timhortons]

i have never gotten an interview and not been offered a job position after it

[timhortons]

I mean lets be honest if everyone else is gassing theirs up like no tomorrow and you’re being as honest as you can who th are the recruitment team going to be more interested in

[timhortons]

There’s people working in my banks head office with me WITH MUCH MORE EXPERIENCE than me BUT ARE GETTING PAID LESS

[timhortons]

we’re doing the exact same job role

[timhortons]

the point I’m trying to make here is if you’ve handled finances for a company you’re now what i would call a treasurer my g, if you’ve done admin work you are now a secretary (or as I’ve put Management secretary)

[timhortons]

you help some kid with his homework? you’re a private tutor.

keep your bullets points for the job role as concise and important sounding as possible AND ALWAYS EMPHASIS THAT YOURE A TEAM PLAYER IF YOURE GOING TO WORK IN A TEAM.

[timhortons]

go into that interview room and get your story straight the night before and remember that interviews are two way conversatons yes they might be grilling you but at the end of it make sure to grill them BACK. do you have any hesitations about my qualifications? my suitability for the job? any feedback on my cv? how long have you been working at this company? do you like it here? whats the work environment like?

I ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS GET THE SAME FEEDBACK WHEN THEY GET BACK IN TOUCH WITH ME

“ive never been asked those questions before” / “you were one of the strongest candidates”

[timhortons]

throughout the interview emphasise that youre about progression, that you want more responsibilities than you did at your previous job, tell them the hours here are more suitable for me than my last ones were, AND WHEN IT COMES TO SALARY NEGOTIATION its all about continuity. tell them again that it boils down to progression. make up a reasonable figure for how much you were paid in your last role (do your research for how much the industry youre applying to or the role youre applying for pays, base it on that) tell them you expect more than you were previously paid. do not give them a figure. progression is your primary focus, tell them if youre progressing youre happy. leave it at that.

[timhortons]

LIE THROUGH YOUR TEETH AND GET THAT MONEY

[infiniteglitterfall]

I had an interview yesterday, at the place I’ve been temping, where I busted out the “is there anything about my skills or background that makes you concerned about my fit for this job” question for the first time.

Neither of my supervisors had never gotten it before either. They had to think for a while, and then it turned into them telling me how great I am and what they love about me.

This stuff is real. I would also say: none of it is lying. This is taking experience that you normally downplay and write off, and putting it in accurate words they’ll understand.

It’s hacking the capitalist system. Why ISN’T helping a kid with homework “tutoring”, when the only thing missing is a paycheck?

It’s especially important for anyone who isn’t a cis white man, because many of us are so thoroughly trained to feel like we are not good enough.

Privilege tells people they can fake it, and that they’re good enough just as people and can learn the skills on the job. Abuse and oppression tell people they aren’t good enough as people and that even their high skills are probably below average, and that unless they had the specific job title or were using certain skills officially, nobody will think it counts.

The goal is to at least fake the confidence of a privileged person, to give the employer a chance at seeing the skills that you’ve been trained to undervalue.

[queenklu]

I would also say to answer any query of “Have you done [X small task] before?” with “I have, but it’s been a while.” Or, “I have, but it was a slightly different program.”

100% THEY WILL GLADLY WALK YOU THROUGH EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW, and I stress ‘gladly’ because claiming prior knowledge boosts their confidence in your abilities and any slips you make are already covered by your caveat. 

[leupagus]

blackstoic may have deactivated their account but this advice is fucking gold and all y’all looking for jobs or who think you might one day need to look for a new job PRINT THIS SHIT OUT AND STAPLE IT TO THE WALL. 

[14kgoldsoul]

Gems nothing but fucking gems ok? PLEASE READ!!!