i like fanworks where dick is closer with the batsiblings than he is in canon but like generally speaking he's really busy and self-isolating and they have to break into his apartment or call him for backup to see him. like in post-crisis canon. even timmy who is his little purse dog doesn't spend half as much time with dick as you'd expect. the titans barely see him unless they're backing each other up or are on a team together at the moment which is half of why they keep manically reforming the team every three years (so they can actually hang out). post-crisis dick is not the person keeping the bats together (that's tim) or scheduling family hangouts (that's not really any of them on any kind of regular basis) he's spending 18 hours a day minimum working and nightwinging and somehow squeezing even more time out of the day to fix his neighbor's water heater and do six other good deeds and then he's getting shot again
#to me he really just gives everyone the standing offer of#call me if you need me#and will honor every call he gets#but never calls you himself cuz he gave that offer to a million other people#if you never call him that’s on you#if he inexplicably has downtime he’s not spending it on reaching out to people#he’s spending it on America’s Most Wanted and animal documentaries – @nibblewinger
#honestly I think the thing really is is that Tim solved the puzzle on how to get Dick to pay attention to you#and it was just “show up at his apartment”#which is why when you go through Dick & Tim moments it's like#major event - major event - Nightwing issue - major event - Nightwing issue - story about Tim but it still takes place in Bludhaven#and then when you have stuff like GK 8 where Tim says Dick picked him up from school on his motorcycle#and you realize how special that was and why he felt the need to say that out loud – @katanahime
#or physically kidnapping him. which happens to be wally's favorite tactic#just straight up snatches dick in the middle of doing something else and takes him home to hang out with his wife#and dick's like jesus wally stop doing that and wally's like haha sorry (he's not sorry and will do it again) but now that you're here#you should eat dinner with us :) (you literally can't escape me)#crucially wally is also one of the big names in Dragging Dick Back Onto Teams#the extent to which wally gets away with tormenting him cannot be overstated i feel – @vintagerobin
#i feel like dg is that type of extroverted person who u hardly get to see and never responds to your texts#so you think he doesn't like you or is mad at you or smth#but then when you DO see him he's really friendly and acts as if you talk to e/o every day so you think maybe it was all in your head#but then a week later you're 10 unread texts in and starting to think he hates you again#he doesn't tho he's just bleeding out on his couch – @eerie-five
#Nightwing ‘96 and Grayson’s run made me realize this about him#and it’s essential to his character#he’s The Avoider#and he goes out of his way to fix other ppl’s problems to deal with his guilt about being The Avoider – @b0nes-mcgee





















