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OK so nobody is running in the Clacton By-Election because: 1. If Farage Loses, he avoids the investigation into his £5 million donation. 2. If Farage Wins, he will be investigated, found guilty, and forced to stand down, after which another by-election will happen where all the parties will run. Basically, they want Farage to not avoid being investigated. But one person is running, seemingly to Mock Farage: Count Binface. All of this leads to the possibility of an objectively hilarious scenario: Count Binface Wins the election.

mousidy

speaking from experience, if you're a lesbian and you're attracted to a trans man then two options present themselves to you:

realize that you don't really see him as a man, or :

accept that you can be attracted to a man

a fork in the road like this would be a great place to examine your bioessentialist transphobia, but instead of doing that you can just ascend to a new enlightened plane and reach queer level 100 by deciding "welllll trans men can be lesbians"

mousidy

a lot of advanced level 100 enlightened queer thinking is really just bioessentialism in disguise frankly

like, no, it's actually not level 100 gender to expect trans women to top you, you just see her as a man and instead of examining your transphobia you're pretending you exist on the next plane of queer thought high above us bottom feeders who foolishly think having a penis might not necessarily mean she wants to perform a traditionally masculine role for you in the bedroom

mousidy

a lot of trans women I've met who initially discuss enjoying topping their partners have, over time, after getting space from the expectation to top, said that they've stopped enjoying topping and no longer want to do it

certainly a lot of trans women genuinely enjoy topping, but I think it's a lot fewer than many people imagine. we just aren't being given the space to genuinely explore what we want, often thanks to the presence of enlightened level 100 queers who see us as naive fools for thinking we might not want to top. how simple we are for not considering that Women Can Top Too! it's actually more radical for women to top! 😁

mousidy

no amount of pretending to be an advanced queer thinker can paper over the fact that you expect trans men to be like women in their sexualities and you expect trans women to be like men in our sexualities. you are not level 100 you're level 1

mousidy

"you can be anything labels don't mean anything" yadda yadda whatever but why do you always mysteriously seem to apply labels and expectations based on assigned sex? hm?

mousidy

had someone tell me that the counterpart to lesbian trans men is a "turigirl"

I went looking and I couldn't find any transfems actually using that label, just an article on one of those queer wikis and a bunch of positivity posts mentioning turigirls. I really don't think a lot of transfems think of themselves as being women who like men "in a male way"

not fond of this mysticism about men and women experiencing attraction in fundamentally, biologically different ways, nor am I fond of the idea that trans people fundamentally experience attraction in accordance with their assigned sex. the bioessentialism is rancid

I get the impulse to distance oneself from straightness but I don't think the answer is to construct bioessentialist mythology around your sexuality

mousidy

like where are the trans women saying they like women in a "male way" or the trans men saying they like men in a "female way"? is nobody doing that because straightness is unchic? because you don't win any radicality points for misgendering yourself to align with straightness?

the idea that we experience attraction in accordance with our assigned sex is not the enlightened level 100 queer idea you think it is. there are people who say trans lesbians are attracted to women in a straight male way and they're called terfs

pipshinwhatever

what they dont tell you about strategy based games is that its hard if you’re stupid

cookiethebirddoll

bus is my friend. shes no train but shes trying her hardest in a world that hates her

byjove

I’ve never seen a pro-life trans man (I’m sure there is one out there, do not show me them) we’re one of the most pro “abort that thang” demographics of people, much more so than cis men and women. Proud of us for that.

captain-price-returns

Dr Oz on Medicaid requirements: "You have to work. You were not put on this planet to sit at home and watch television. The average person who's on Medicaid, who's able-bodied, watches 6.1 hours of television, or just hangs out, every day. That's not why God put you here."

Remember when Jesus healed all those sick people and then charged them premiums, deductibles, and copays?

queerprayers

house I am staying in for work usually houses a ~christian marriage counselor~ and I flipped through a book and stopped in my tracks. it had not occurred to me, no.

eatyourpapitas

it's not a cuck chair it's for our exorcist

midnightglances

no it’s fine, it’s just that being vulnerable is scary and disgusting and makes me want to die haha lol so funny am I right?

what-even-is-thiss

When we learn something we should’ve known already or that everyone supposedly knows my family and I have taken to saying “well you’ve gotta learn everything for the first time at some point”

what-even-is-thiss

Didn’t know what feat. means on a a song? Well, you’ve gotta learn everything for the first time at some point.

Didn’t know how to read an analog clock until last week? Well, you’ve gotta learn everything for the first time at some point.

yellow-cat

FUCK. i think i have to learn blender

hamblimp

the humble manual smoothie maker after they break their hands:

yellow-cat

every day i log in here and get beat up by genies

captain-price-returns

A FIFA referee has spent more time in federal custody for being Somali than anybody on Epstein’s list for raping kids. A 5 year old has spent more time in federal custody for being the son of an immigrant than anybody on Epstein’s list for raping kids.