The Difference Between Boomers and Millennials
I think I have come to see the main difference between Boomers and Millennials.
We both go through the same terrible things life throws our way. But the key difference is how the two generations react.
Boomers have bad stuff happen and are told "that's the way the world is, suck it up buttercup. We all get hurt, the world isn't a nice fair place" and they ACCEPT that is how things are. They then raised us going "The world isn't a good fair place, you need to toughen up..."
Then Millennials, taught from a young age that the world isn't fair or nice, grow up to experience the same bad things. But instead of accepting it we decided to CHANGE it. We go through the bad and go "You say This is the way the world is? Well lets see what we can do about that..."
The conflict comes from Boomers seeing Millennials wanting to change the world and expressing the bad things they have been through and the Boomers going "That's the way the world IS! You are snowflakes and whimps and ungrateful for not accepting the horrible things that happen! Suck it up butter cup!"
Every single fight boils down to this:
Millennials: "wow this part of society or life really sucks, we should fix it..."
Boomers: "Well I grew up suffering through that! you are a snowflake if you can't handle it!"
Like somehow they don't realize that what they are doing is saying "I've been through bad things to, so you have to as well, to try to change the world and make it better makes you weak!"
When all that's happening is the younger generations are just saying "wow, this really sucks, I'm so sorry you were raised believing this is just life and how its supposed to be, I just experienced the same bad things. I want to be tough enough to make sure they don't happen to anyone else."
We see the poor and homeless and go "wow that's a terrible way for a person to live, we should fix that"
We see starving people and go "wow that's terrible, how can we have starving people in the richest country on earth? We have enough food, lets fix that"
We see the sick and go "wow, that person is sick and we have the cure, but its locked behind an arbitrary imaginary number that prevents them from getting it, maybe we should fix that"
We see the wage gap and go "Why do the top 1% of the population control more combined wealth than the other 99%? Why is it so hard to pay people enough to live a comfortable life, we should fix that"
We see racial or sexual inequallity and go "but aren't we all just people? why is it hard to just treat each other as equals and with the respect we all deserve? we should fix that"
We see sexual harassment and assault and say "oh my God I can't believe this is happening to so many people, we need to treat each other with respect and dignity, we need to fix that"
An older person hears all of that and goes "well that's the way the world is! I experienced all of that too! they probably did something to deserve it anyway, your such a pansy for making a big deal out of this, don't you know
IT'S ALWAYS BEEN THIS WAY!?"
What is so wrong with wanting to fix what's broken with the world? Why do people desperately cling to the most horrible parts of life and justify them with "well that's how its always been". Sure, maybe it has been that way, but that's even more reason to fix it.
Standing against those people fighting for real good change is the same as standing for the bad things that they are trying to fix.