Party On Apocalypse

32, genderqueer, embracing chaos by diving headfirst back into my obsessions.

[sentrysvoid]

The Princess Bride dir. Rob Reiner | 1987

[mashkara45]

[markwateneymemorialcrater]

This would be great for a children’s hospital

[ragsy]

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[imboredandneedalife]

This. This is why i love this hellsite. Where else would you see bloodied walls and call it color theory.

[lizzietheshortie]

[newtlesbian]

goes psppspspsspsps at the unfathomable horror hunting me for sport

[redbelles]

+ bonus:

PACIFIC RIM (2013) + letterboxd reviews ↳ insp. & insp.

[dailyflicks]

PACIFIC RIM 2013, dir. Guillermo del Toro

[thefollow-spot]

Just saw a TikTok where this bi woman was like,

‘I’m a woman-leaning bisexual and you know what pisses me off? The fact that I’m dating a skinny white man and I love him and I’m happy, like what the fuck.’

And I just have to say. What pisses me off as a bisexual woman is that TikTok.

This is the Woke version of ‘my wife is the ol’ ball and chain, doesn’t it suck to be married,’ jokes. It’s not funny. Your queerness is not negated or tarnished by opposite-gender attraction, dating men isn’t inherently worse than dating women.

Love your partner.

Cherish them.

For fucks sake.

[higgsboshark]

So much this. I’ve had a rant building for a while and it looks like today’s the day.

I’m getting REAL SICK of that “bisexual means I’m attracted to all women and two men” joke. I’m getting equally sick of the implication, in a thousand ways, that men are bad and it’s inherently worse to be attracted to them. If you’re a woman or woman-adjacent and you fall in love with a man, there’s this horrible and easy-to-internalize idea that you’re taking the lesser option.

Like y’all. Y’all? You know that’s gender essentialist radfem bullshit, right?

If you didn’t, I’d like to gently suggest you consider the idea that “Men are problematic (read: sinful) and violent, women are pure, beautiful and loving” is just conservative Christian ideology in a gay hat. We are not advancing towards equality for all genders by flipping which end of the scale is The Bad One ™.

I’m bisexual. I make a point of talking about being queer (because it’s my identity and culture, and that’s important to me), and I present mostly in the androgynous area of the spectrum. People often assume I’m only/mostly interested in women.

That’s actually not true. I like all genders, but when it comes to specific people, I’m most often attracted to men. And it makes me sad – really, genuinely sad – how many times I’ve felt ashamed to talk about that. Even though I’m not a woman, liking a man has made me feel “not queer enough.” Hell, some days it still does.

I’m gonna say this, even though I know a lot of people won’t like it. And I will also say in advance that I am not accepting criticism and I don’t argue on the internet as a personal mental health policy.

That said, here is the statement: This too is a closet.

Anytime you’re ashamed to admit to liking someone because they’re the “wrong” gender, anytime falling in love is treated like a disappointment instead of a celebration, I don’t care who you are or who your partner is, that is a FUCKING CLOSET. And I would appreciate it if we could STOP PUTTING PEOPLE IN THOSE.

[thegreenmeridian]

Honestly, shit like that should be seen for the relationship red flag it is.

If you’re a man, absolutely do not date someone who thinks their attraction or affection for you is something they ought to be ashamed of.

And regardless of your gender, avoid women who subscribe to the idea that women can do no wrong and are inherently pure and safe because holy fuck is that an easy and gaslighty shield to hide behind for abusers. I’ve heard a variation of that story too many times to think there’s not a correlation there.

[chiribomb-deactivated20220820]

Amen to that. And “it’s a joke” isn’t the excuse people think it is.

[gayestpirate-deactivated2021060]

ppl be acting like being attracted to men is a disease

[carolxdanvers]

Hi I used to make these jokes too and it’s absolutely because of how fucking shitty the lgbtqia community has been towards bi women. I felt like I HAD to downplay my attraction to men in order to reassure people that I’m not straight.

That’s fucked up. Y'all need to observe your behavior and wonder if you’re contributing to the shit that makes bi women feel like they’re not good enough.

[humorblr]

WHAT WE DO IN THE SHADOWS (2019- )

[manny-jacinto]

Mark Hamill・Behind the Scenes of the original Star Wars trilogy

[textsfromstarkiller]

(613): I’ve seen your dick too many times for both of us to be straight.

[vitariesocks]

Comic on having long-COVID as a young person. Sending love to others who may be similarly suffering.

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[heartcountry]

hope your days get softer from here on out. hope the hurt lessens and the dark turns to light. you deserve gentleness and good love. I hope it finds you soon.

[broccoliveins]

Don’t leave out any hard of hearing children who come to your door this Halloween, take a minute out of your day to learn a few seasonal asl signs!  These are two different variations of “Happy Halloween” Click here for my source.

[scullysgirl-deactivated20260108]

halloween is for everyone!!!!!!

[cosmopollution]

this is honestly the cutest thing ever 10/10 will do this year💗💗

[sophiainspace-deactivated202409]

And here are the British Sign Language versions. (I love the BLS sign for Halloween. It’s so cute.) 

Deaf inclusion for every holiday!

[redemptiionss]

Love this! I also posted a video the other day of different signs from about 90+ countries for “Happy Halloween” :)

[prismatic-bell]

Two years ago, I had a Deaf girl show up in my drivethru on Halloween. Her mom was kind of sad when I tried to offer the girl candy, and you could tell it’d been a rough night. I asked her to get the girl’s attention, and then signed to her the way I learned from those top gifs. She started laughing and clapping her hands at once, and when I held out the bowl of candy she was DELIGHTED. I think there’s a very serious possibility I was the only person all night who was able to share with her that way.

It matters. Learn.

[beckgreyauthor]

IT MATTERS. ASL is the THIRD most used language in the US yet most schools don’t offer it as a language course.

If you are at all interested, even in self-study online, check out www.lifeprint.com. It’s free and an absolutely marvelous program.

[userpoe]

[catboy-maul]

you BISECT maul?? you throw his body down the reactor shaft??? oh! oh!! jail for kenobi! jail for kenobi for One Thousand Years!!

[aanakin]

THE NICE GUYS (2016) + letterboxd reviews

[jedi-anakin]

“If we can make it to the ground, we’ll take the next chance… and the next, on and on, until we win… or the chances are spent.” — Jyn Erso (requested by @captainearlcole)

[mr-e-nigma]

There’s a line in Newt’s syllabus that reads “Do not call me Dr. Geiszler, Dr. Newt/Newton, or just any variation of title that includes Dr. The only exception I will make to this rule is if you call me Doc like you are Bugs Bunny. Actual Bugs impression is optional, but would be greatly appreciated.”