HOPE FOR THE BEST, EXPECT THE WORST

16 / M / BG ~~~ i post whatever the fuck i feel like posting and you ain't gonna stop me #dasibuntar

[perspectiv8]

matching icons for u and ur crew

[bang]

[labias]

Try me bitch

[youreguiltyofnothing]

@lostwanderher

[foghornleghornofficial-deactiva]

this legitimately scared me what is wrong with the dogspotting admins

[straightwhiteboystexting]

[badsjw]

A SELF DIAGNOSIS IS NOT A REAL DIAGNOSIS!

You cannot officially say you have a certain mental illness unless a professional has told you so. Recognize some symptoms which may mean you have a specific mental illness? Okay. The next step is to go see a professional and/or to get help in whatever way you can.

I see 14/15/16 year olds diagnosing themselves with personality disorders that cannot be diagnosed if you’re under 18. I see kids diagnosing themselves with mental disorders that cannot co-exist. There are so many people that treat this shit as a little cute thing that they can put in their description and reblog posts about how their self diagnosed autism is a superpower.

Yes, I get that there are people out there that will be right when they self diagnose. But there will also be people that will be wrong. The thing is, you can’t know whether you’re right or wrong until you see someone. Self diagnosis will never be as valid as a professional diagnosis, so stop treating it as such.

[spywitch]

1. Not everyone can afford to go to a doctor or has a parent who is willing to take them (yes there are shitty parents who don’t believe in mental illness or think its shameful or whatever) so even though a lot of self diagnosis is wrong “just go to the doctor,” is not so easy for everyone. (Although people should know that I think depending on where you live at around 15 (I think) you can seek mental health help without parent’s consent, even though that can still be difficult).

2. Stop fucking saying that people think this is cute shit to put in their description for fun as a “superpower.” Are you fucking kidding me? A “superpower?” Even if someone is wrong wrong about their self diagnosis and all they have is depression, anxiety and/or normal teen angst, they are not self diagnosing themselves with shit because they think its cool and they want to fit in or have excuses to do stuff, they are self diagnosing because they are genuinely paranoid that there is something wrong with them and because they ARE having a rough time, even if its not a personality disorder or autism or whatever the fuck they think it is.

Even more importantly about the “superhero” comment is you’re fucking throwing all the people who are actually right about their self diagnosis or who have been professionally diagnosed under the bus for trying to ever see their mental illness as anything more than a tragic condition. You’re making a mockery of people trying to be positive and say “You know what my disorder doesn’t infantilize me and make me helpless.”

You’re making a mockery of people trying to love themselves. Its not romanticizing the illness, its fucking accepting and loving yourself. You just shat on all the people who ACTUALLY HAVE AUTISM or whatever mental illness who make/reblog those posts trying to see the good in themselves. If you saw some news story with some autistic child diagnosed from a young age talk about how he doesn’t see himself as disabled and that he loves himself, you’d think he’s so brave and strong, but by mocking posts that effectively mean the same thing you just shat on every every ACTUALLY mentally ill person for seeing themselves as more than an object of pity.

I can’t speak on behalf of self diagnosing but I do say fuck you for assuming everyone has easy access to mental health care, for thinking people think their (supposed) mental illnesses are accessories, and most of all for mocking people for trying to love themselves.

[baruchyosef]

festivebluspy, thank you!!!! I was professionally diagnosed with stuff but I can’t afford to get CBT therapy or other stuff like that, even though my psychiatrist told me to see a neurodevelopmental disorders specialized therapist to help me with stuff. I fear I just cant afford it though! My diagnosis of autism is kinda semi-official, others are completely official , and I was always right when I self-diagnosed (I have been studying mental disorders since forever).

And anyway, doctors can make mistakes too! So people should stop putting mental health professionals on a fucking golden pedestal because they can fuck up a lot - after all, they can’t read people’s minds and they are humans. So it depends on who you see and how seriously they take you and how good they are at recognizing certain disorders….because many doctors are also biased (for example they think men can’t have bpd or other ignorant bullshit like that). So, they’re humans, not gods who always get things right! And believe me, they do fuck up! (Someone I know was almost gonna die because of a psychiatrist’s mistake!)

Sure, self diagnoses that are done with ZERO knowledge of mental disorders have a high chance to be wrong, but other people are very knowledgeable about mental health even if they don’t have a degree in psychiatry, as they’re used to living with mental disorders all their lives so they get educated about this stuff and research a lot.

It’s true not everyone can afford doctors and therapies. And I doubt most people who are ironic about their own disorders or call themselves or others cute are doing it for attention!!!! I don’t usually do this, because I hate my disorders, but maybe those people just love themselves? It happens to me, during my mood swings to make jokes about my own mental health because it’s a way to cope with stuff! If I were to be serious all the time I’d jump off a bridge, okay? So, making jokes and using self-irony can be a way to cope with pain sometimes!

To be honest, badsjw, you just sound really judgmental!

[badsjw]

@festivebluspy I haven’t read through this entire post, but I just want to ask a question: What exactly does a self diagnosis do? If you can’t afford healthcare or can’t go to a doctor, what exactly does that self diagnosis get you? By all means, find ways to help your symptoms, but don’t say you have a particular condition unless someone qualified tells you so. There’s a chance the self-dx could be wrong. 

Yes, doctors can be biased or wrong, but I’ll trust a doctor before I’ll trust someone without the official training to make a diagnosis. It’s not an official diagnosis unless a professional gives it the thumbs up, plain and simple.

[obliviousroadie-blog]

jojo

part 1: steroid-filled angel who punches with the power of the sun combats his pasty-ass vampire brother and his army of mutant zombies

part 2: the aztec gods of fitness want to be the gods of everything. local brit with a plan for literally everything and his bubble buddy think otherwise

part 3: teenager in a perpetual state of grouch and his friends of questionable heterosexuality hospitalize a lot of people to save his dying mom, including a pasty-ass man who can't stay dead

part 4: japanese high schooler with the power of friendship and healing must defeat hand-fetishistic serial killer david bowie by kinkshaming him to death

part 5: flamboyant white-passing japanese kid joins the italian fashion mafia in order to overthrow their flamboyant boss, to prove that drugs are bad, m'kay

part 6: rag-tag team of prisoners and a little boy must see to it that gay priest does not destroy the universe itself in worship of a pasty-ass man

part 7: the president wants the corpse of jesus christ, and only a paraplegic, a man with steel balls, a dinosaur, a woman with a can of meat spray, and a 14yr old girl who's wed to a 52yr old man can stop him from getting it

part 8: amnesiac sailor with four testicles must solve the mystery behind his four testicles by stealing things

[sandsvendor100]

beautiful babyboy, has anyone ever broken your heart?

There Is Only One Man Who’rm Can Destroy Tapir. And He Is Oulld Tapir Cosign Himself… But No Longer Walcome In Ou’re Sands… He Wanders The Space Above, Below, And Between World’s. Hungry. Ever-Hunting. He Will Not Stop Until The Crunch. He Is The Beast Of The Stars.

Æthelric The Traitor

[fruitsoftheape100]

Fuck And Shit

[spaceeyes-deactivated20181114]

you’ve been visited by the ✨grandma of prosperity✨🍻 reblog for good fortune and mad cash 💰💸💥🔫💸💰

[bang]

[negusnigga]

You damn right

[blackfemmejeanvaljean]

you best believe

[magicinhermadness]

This is the truest statement he’s ever made

[izzydoodledump]

Glad we cleared that up :)

[unvine-blog]

PSA

So I know many people on Tumblr have financial struggles and need to pay for bills/college etc. Recently I have found a website where you take surveys and get rewards for it! You can get Paypal giftcards which is not a lot of money a week but it definitely helps! I normally do a few surveys before I go to bed or just while I am watching Netflix and it adds up. I believe you can sign up if you are from the USA or Canada! If you want to give it a try you can sign up here! You can join easily even with Facebook if you want! (It asks for your address etc, I only put my road name not number and it has worked fine if you want to feel more protected you don’t need to be truthful but it helps find relevant surveys to answer) If you have any questions about it don’t hesitate to ask me I am more than happy to help!

[ughgeek]

Thanks for this I have got $20-30 worth of Paypal giftcards weekly so far! 

[itsagifnotagif]

Originally posted by bunnifed

[justbadpuns]

After “surveying” this site it looks like it could really help in making money..

[brianttran-deactivated20120224]

Reblog or your mom will die in 928 seconds.

[ovod0se]

I love my mom.

I am risking nothing

I AM SORRY FOLLOWERS, I LOVE MY MOMMY

Will not risk.

sorry followers :(

[whatgracelikes-deactivated20190]

omg im so glad to se so many people love their mummy

[ameriagrae]

Why’re you being mean to my mum?

[larryismyhallelujah-blog]

goddamn it

[lollie-pond-deactivated20150728]

Nope. Googled it. 15 minuets. Nope. Not taking any chances

[steampoweredplayer]

Koop

[twirliest]

This has 1.2 million reblogs … Ps not riskin it

[nathanvj]

1.4 almost ps not risking it

[queenprotein-deactivated2016012]

Fuck this post

[irosefromthedead-deactivated201]

I am sorry…

[sjaxoo-deactivated20210115]

fuck u man

[inc]

oh boy.. hope my followers sleepin

[fuck-renan]

yup…. not risking lmao

[anjehlikah-deactivated20151227]

Who tf made this? Go to hell

[down-poison]

I hate this person who made it :(

[threeofsevens]

UGHHHH GTFO YO

[bomtrack]

i have a weird feeling that the suicide squad movie will somehow be responsible for the rebirth of scene kid culture and its something i knew would happen eventually but i never thought it would be so soon

[sassking-trevor]

Later this year high schools will be filled w/ guys trying to act like the joker in that “edgy on purpose lol u mad” kinda way and scene girls w/ pink n blue dyed pigtails giggling about how “lol im SO CRAZY LAWL X3″

[peppapigvevo]

i cant believe you two made me read this on my own dash

[bomtrack]

look at this shit. we’re gonna have to relive some dark times. myspace is aboutta make a comeback. preps will have to hide in fear once again. the hot topic CEO is rubbing his hands together as i’m typing this. get ready for thousands of deviant art suicide squad ocs complete with scene hair and too many belts.

[peppapigvevo]

if someone does that “rawr means i love u in dinosaur” think im holding you personally responsible

[nick-nellson]

[hmpreusse-deactivated20160705]

headcanon

[fuckyeahilike]

The most compelling headcanon I’ve ever seen

[fazikku]

this post makes me angry because that’s a headcannon with two Ns and sometimes people spell their headcanons as headcannons and now i can’t decide if op spelled the headline wrong on purpose or not or is this just an ironical meta shitpost

[deansass]

YOUR DRAGON NAME

last two letters of your first name

middle two letters of your last name

first two letters of your mother’s name

last letter of your father’s name

mine would be Urlelan. Reblog and tag this with yours!

[deansass]

I love this because half of the people are getting amazing, fantasy names and the other half are getting unpronounceable ones. 

[rhube]

I just remembered that this was a thing that was HILARIOUS in 2006 and apparently that was ten years ago now.

Old people: join with me in remembering how funny we found this on LiveJournal.

Young people: look at this lolrus, it’s so happy, it has a bucket.

And then they stealed away the bucket and we realised we had fucked up a perfectly good elephant seal and given it anxiety.

[pipistrellus]

listen this vintage meme is high quality and i will hear nothing said against it

[terlian-wanderer]

THIS IS MY FAVOURITE REDDIT COMMENT EVER

[outofcontextelderscrolls]

This is the hero we deserve!!