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[failing-lungs]

# Urgent Help #

Hello, my name is All and I have been a victim of a huge scam on Tumblr where I have lost over $1100. This has taken a huge toll on my mental health where I have considered doing things that would harm me greatly.

I’m asking you for compassion for sharing or helping me to regain this money by donating or commissioning me on the following link

$0/$1100

P@yPal: typhlosionsir@gmail

My commission Info bellow:

Through your preferred form of contact I will send you

the draft drawing as it develops, up to the point when the lineart is 75% complete. After this milestone, no changes can be requested

My payment method is 50%/50%, i.e. I receive 50% of the initial amount before starting the commission and 50% after finishing, the commission will have a watermark before the final payment.

Artwork for commercial purposes

may have an additional 130% added to the final value, without the need for credits (Although Highly appreciated)

Payment is made by PayPal, as explained above

CONTACT ME

E-MAIL: [email protected]

Discord: diabetesmellitus

Or Tumblr

Please contact me if you have any questions

Lady All’s Infernal Cafe

A simple site for commissions and work consultations

[failing-lungs]

!!! EMERGENCY COMISSIONS !!!

[ Hello I need $175 to pay my credit card tomorrow, please commission me or help me through my PayPal! ]

$ 0/ $175

P@yPal: [email protected]

Hello, I’m All, a Latina Queer Artist who just recently lost my job and now I have no source of income to sustain my medication and therapy. Since Im in a difficult situation I can adapt prices if you are short on money but willing to commission me, if you still are out of money please share my post!

[PROMO: A Character sheet for only $100 Front Back and Expressions Rendered! ]

Will Draw

➜ Humans

➜ NSFW

➜ Furries

➜ Mecha

➜ Simple Backgrounds

➜ Logos

WON'T DRAW

➜ Complex Backgrounds

➜ Drawings without Reference

➜ Ultra Realism

➜ Offensive or illegal art

Through your preferred form of contact I will send you

the draft drawing as it develops, up to the point when the lineart is 75% complete. After this milestone, no changes can be requested

My payment method is 50%/50%, i.e. I receive 50% of the initial amount before starting the commission and 50% after finishing, the commission will have a watermark before the final payment.

CONTACT ME

E-MAIL: [email protected]

Discord: diabetesmellitus

Please contact me if you have any questions

https://ladyallscommissions.carrd.co/

[depsidase]

[one-pink-heart]

It's been a while since I used this place sorry friends.

[tonysopranobignaturals-deactiva]

obsessed with this tag

[filmnoirsbian]

Actually, hating kids is actively harmful whether you think you're subtle about it or not. I was one of those annoying, loud, attention-seeking kids, and I knew instinctively when adults/teenagers hated me (and kids in general), and all it did was convince me that I couldn't tell any adults about the abuse I was experiencing at home because they wouldn't care or listen to me. Once again I am saying there is no good reason to hate all children, and if you do then you need to actively work on that because you share society and public spaces with children so the odds of you having to interact with them at some point are very high, and they don't need to internalize your weird hang-ups just because you refuse to get over yourself. Kids are at the mercy of adults and the adult world around them. You do not have to make growing up any harder than it already is.

[filmnoirsbian]

How do the people this post is about keep missing the point this badly

[yekkes]

"How did bullies in school know I was gay/neurodivergent before I did?"

[gr33n-w1tch]

Shadow work 🤍

@thewitchoftheforest on instagram

@thewitchoftheforest

[crushing-on-nico-di-angelo]

Time, time, time is slipping away, and this time I fear I've lost myself for good...

Two, Sleeping at Last // unknown // Alien Blues, Vundabar // Masks, @small-but-mightyy // Bojack Horseman, Season 3 Episode 10 // I Thought By Now I'd Feel Better, @missingvibrance // Clouds, Icarus // Nicola Samori

[dj-maemae-bpd-bimbo-deactivated]

If I send you 13 things I wanna hear back, and you only send back 12, I’m taking that personally, just try and stop me

[memefuckery]

[dor3-deactivated20220605]

[lacefuneral]

the word empathy is WIDELY misused, even in mental health spaces. 

empathy:

is responding to a person’s emotions by experiencing the same emotion as them (i.e. feeling sad when something sad happens to that person, or happy when something happy happens to that person.)

is an automatic response that cannot be controlled

cannot be learned

sympathy:

is recognizing that another person is in pain, even if you do not experience that pain, and offering comfort to that person

is something a person must actively choose to do

can be learned

compassion:

is showcasing care and support via words and actions

is something a person must actively choose to do

can be learned

if you need an example of a person with no empathy who practices sympathy and compassion, look no further than data from star trek: the next generation. he doesn’t have emotions at all, but he’s still kind to people and wants to help them.

stop telling people that they’re evil because they don’t experience empathy. stop equating empathy with morality. stop equating empathy with caring. stop saying that cruel people “lack empathy.” stop throwing neurodivergent and mentally ill people under the bus. 

[theegosystem-deactivated2024012]

Getting Psychoanalyzed By A Stranger

This is a fun little video I edited, exaggerating what it feels like to have a complete stranger try to prove that they know how your disorder affects you better than you do! People with NPD also tend to think of every day interactions like a video game or movie, so I thought the video game vibes fit the situation 😁

Little advice, I suggest blocking these people rather than engaging with them! Stay safe, everyone!

[shitborderlinesdo]

May 6

If you have BPD, you may feel you are more emotionally sensitive than your peers. You may feel you are able to read people better. You may spot “red flags” in someone’s behavior much faster than your friends do. You may judge others quickly because you feel you are able to read them so well.

Well, guess what! There are studies to prove that people with BPD actually are more sensitive to the words, actions, body language, and tone of other people.

In one study, researchers took 20 individuals with BPD and 20 individuals without BPD and had the try to accurately define emotional expressions. The borderline patients consistently scored higher in recognizing the emotions in the faces they saw, and when the faces morphed and became a different emotion, the borderline participants were able to pinpoint the second emotion more quickly and more accurately than non-borderline participants. Because of this, it is believed emotional sensitivity is a core feature of BPD.

One emotion the borderline participants seemed to interpret inaccurately, however, was neutral or bored faces. Neutral expressed were often interpreted as a negative emotion, namely anger or fear. Even outside of studies, borderline individuals tend to read neutrality in their loved ones as anger. One conclusion drawn from these studies is that people with BPD tend to see other people as a threat, and they also see the world as dangerous.

People with BPD also tend to assume the anger (real or imagined) is directed at them rather than an anger or annoyance at something unrelated. For example, someone can be irritated with a work day, but someone with BPD may interpret that as anger which is directed at them and assume they have done something wrong, despite having nothing to do with what happened to irritate the other person.

Sources: here and here

[firechildslytherin5]

Writers: Need to Improve?

Here is some youtube links that i think everyone who is writer should look up. Im not a good fanfiction writer and i never finished anything yet to make it into a published book but here is some youtube videos that i been using to share with others. I may add more later. 

iWriterly is a book publishing resource for genre fiction with how-to videos on traditional publishing and self-publishing.

On Writing a playlist i use a lot. plus so much Avatar the Last Airbender references. 

Movie Reviews something to look through as sometimes its good to look on movies reviews that would help with writng.

25 Mistakes that Peg You as an Amateur Writer all of videos are good too.  Ellen Brock

Pop Culture Detective  A series of critical video essays

Authors

Alexa Donne

Hello Future Me

Creative Writing advice from Stephen King

Creative Writing Advice from Neil Gaiman

More Writing Advice from Neil Gaiman

C.S. Lewis - His Practical Advice for Writers

How to Write a Book: 13 Steps from  Jerry B. Jenkins

playlist of author Interviews. one of my friend’s is in this list too! she is #20 in the playlist if anyone is curious 

Can’t write smut? How i do it is read awful ones so i know what not to write. look up  Bad Sex Award (year) by the guardian

[furiousgoldfish]

I don’t know if this information is commonly shared, but trauma will mess up your digestion. If you’re re-living traumatic stuff, you can slip into fight-or-flight response, which will make your body cancel digestion as low-importance process that isn’t to be done while survival is in question. That means you wont be able to digest anything until you calm down and your body believes it’s safe to start digesting again. If you’re running or moving a lot to cope with fight-or-flight (it works sometimes, makes your body believe you’re getting away from danger), it can cause you to vomit (so you’d be able to keep moving).

It can also slow your digestion and make it very painful, to the point where you can feel pain exactly where the food is currently stuck in your body. Being tense and stressed and anxious can also make your stomach rigid and unwilling to move its muscles to get food to come thru. So if you’re currently struggling with horrible digestion or stomach pain, and have to watch very closely what you eat in order not to trigger some major pain, it might be due to trauma.

I had horrible stomach pain for a full year before coming down with full blown ptsd, and didn’t know why. The pain would get so bad I practically gave up eating, because I couldn’t deal with the aftermath.