Mlm shenanigans (18+)

Diary, Essays, Relationship stuff, Life Lessons. 24.

[one-whole-lifetime]

Sup!

⚠️ Under construction - Blog rebranding in progress ⚠️

I post about gay things, kinky things, trans things. And a little about mental health, politics, sociology, relationship advice and whatever else catches my fancy. A colourful mixture.

Owner of this blog is trans, queer, autistic and kinky.

About the political posts: I'm firmly leftist. If you feel the need to debate me, send me an ask, I may or may not respond. (I don't bother with queerphobes, racists, the usual scum.)

Minors dni please. 18+ posts ahead.

[g0blin-mlm]

Want a boyfriend so me, him, and my partner can all three cuddle up together. Them on either side of me, me cozied up in the middle safe and warm knowing nothing can touch me while I’m with my people. My safe people. I want to hide away for a while. I’m exhausted

[softlyasadist2430]

Asking because you could tell them to do whatever you want.

[antlered-vixen]

I am so tired of short-attention-span, trim-the-fat culture. All writing advice these days is for how to write like Chuck Palahniuk. "Cut 'think', cut 'feel', cut 'wonder' - only action, only pushing forward, show and move and move and move." What if I could emulate this style, and still don't want to? What if I want to write like Henry James, with three paragraphs of introspective musings between each dialogue line? The music advice is, "make it shortform, make it Tik-Tok compatible, make it punchy, hit the refrain as soon as possible." What if I want that 10-minute prog rock piece? What if I want that symphony? What if I want it slow and luxurious and lazy? Movies. Series. Poetry. Bodies. Everything is "trimmed trimmed trimmed trimmed, stripped bare, you have three seconds to win me over, make it airport chic." I don't want to win you over, then, I guess. I want the fat left it. I want the pleasure and the indolence and the indulgence. Fuck this art-advice that's always "your art needs Ozempic."

[catchymemes]

[skrib-for-writers]

i need to ask writeblr something and i want genuine answers

has anyone accused you of using AI when you didn't?

because it is happening more. to novelists. to fanfic writers. to screenwriters who have been writing in their specific weird voice for fifteen years. someone runs their work through a detector, gets a percentage, and suddenly the conversation shifts from "is this good" to "did you even write this"

and there's no receipt. you can't prove a negative. you can't hand someone the seventeen drafts of that one paragraph. you can't show them the four hours you spent cutting a scene you loved because the story needed it gone. you can't make them feel the way the sentence changed three times before it landed right

so we built something

it's called HAAS. Human Authorship Authentication System. and here's what it does not do: it does not read your words and decide if they sound human. it does not scan your prose for "AI tells." it does not punish you for using the word delve

what it actually does is watch how you write. the pauses between thoughts. the rhythm of your revisions. the pattern of your backspacing and rebuilding. those things are yours in a way no AI can replicate, because they come from the specific way your brain moves through language, the hesitations, the second-guessing, the burst of words that comes when something finally clicks

over time, it builds an authorship profile. a 0 to 100 score. proof that doesn't depend on someone else's algorithm deciding if your voice sounds "human enough"

you shouldn't need to prove you wrote your own work. we know that. but we also know the world is asking for it anyway, and we wanted writers to have an answer

has this happened to you? someone accusing you or a writer you know of AI when there was no AI? i want to know how widespread this is

[unseenmonstermuse]

People who lack empathy are devils. There’s no way you can see someone in pain and still contribute to their suffering. That’s evil.

[vitamindeeznutz]

people should stop saying you get ugly on T. guys this is the most attractive ive ever been. i have long hair with bleached bits and i still look androgynous. i could pass as cis easily if i cut my hair. this girl thought i was a pretty cis guy. my friend has been on it for a few years and he pulls left and right. i was an okay girl but im a pretty boy instead. everyone take testosterone right now

[one-whole-lifetime]

"Pull yourself up by your bootstraps"

Bitch I don't even have shoes!

[g0ldandgr1t]

[tboy-cock]

one of the biggest issues trans men face is hyperinvisibility and erasure however people dont realize by those words alone how violent this is to trans men. i can't name a single trans man in acting besides elliot page, let alone who plays a canonically trans man. transmasculine undertones in cartoon characters are deliberately written out of the plot. when there are transmasculine coded characters they are immediately claimed as transfem by the fandom. trans men are at a higher risk of forced pregnancy (and by extension, forced detransition, because PREGNANCY FORCES YOU TO DETRANSITION) and we are claimed as women if we point it out or god forbid experience it ourselves. trans women are seen as a higher risk group of reproductive violence than trans men. even "trans affirming" reproductive health providers and clinics never go beyond "some women identify as men❤️" and trans men are turned away from reproductive care for being trans men. trans men face the highest risk of sexual assault in the trans community at 50%. 50%, ONE IN TWO trans men will be sexually abused at some point in his life, and when we are, our abuse statistics arent listed under trans men, theyre listed under women. when we talk about being sexually abused we are misgendered by terfs and trfs alike and our experiences of sexual violence on account of us being trans men are chalked up to womens violence. theres an entire joke on the internet about forcibly impregnating men and the primary group of men that forced pregnancy affects are called hysterical and that this isnt about trans men. theres another one about transmasculine music artists but all yall know is cavetown.

at some point, you have to understand, that the erasure and hyperinvisibility of trans men isnt a consequence of trans womens hypervisibility. it is a DELIBERATE EFFORT to silence and oppress trans men, often done by the trans community itself

[letsbelonelytogetherr]

as simple as that

[moldedover]

ughhhh men with soft tummies and thick thighs, i love you. thighs thick enough they could be used as pillows, chests warm and squishy and perfect for hiding your face in. arms that’ll envelop you in a big strong hug and make you feel safe. i hope you all love your bodies like they deserve to be loved <3

[cavalecavale]

don't you dare use the word "pegging" when there's a trans man and silicone dick involved. he's fucking you in the ass honey, stop being scared of words and come around his fat cock like the faggot you are <3

[bottomgrowthbitch]

pros to not having a cis dick: nobody can tell when i'm horny in public

cons to not having a cis dick: can't press a boner against someone's ass to let them know i want them :(

[one-whole-lifetime]

Rue by Girl in Red - Antithesis (evil version)

[Verse 1] I remember I couldn't stop crying I found you when I thought I was dying Believe me when I say I tried so hard to change All the crazy shit you made me do The long nights I held you through Believe me when I say You could never be saved Be saved

[Chorus] Yeah, I tried To get you off my mind To leave it all behind Just wanna make it worse I'm gonna make it hurt Yeah, I tried To get you off my mind To leave it all behind Just wanna make it worse I'm gonna make it hurt

[Verse 2] I remember I stayed up all night To make sure you were alright Believe me when I say You should have done the same I hate the way my brain is wired Can't trust my mind, it's such a liar Believe me when I say I won't carry the weight The weight

[Chorus] Yeah, I tried To get you off my mind To leave it all behind Just wanna make it worse I'm gonna make it hurt Yeah, I tried To get it off my mind To leave it all behind Just wanna make it worse I'm gonna make it hurt

[Bridge] Oh, I will make it hurt, I'll make it hurt I'll make it hurt Oh, I will make it worse, I'll make it worse I'll make it worse Oh, I brush off the dirt, get off the curb I'll do you worse, oh, I I'm so disturbed, can't fix the hurt Can't fix the hurt

[Chorus] Yeah, I tried To get you off my mind To leave it all behind Just wanna make it worse I'm gonna make it hurt

[Outro] Yeah, I tried Yeah, I tried Yeah, I tried Yeah, I tried

[vitamindeeznutz]

people should stop saying you get ugly on T. guys this is the most attractive ive ever been. i have long hair with bleached bits and i still look androgynous. i could pass as cis easily if i cut my hair. this girl thought i was a pretty cis guy. my friend has been on it for a few years and he pulls left and right. i was an okay girl but im a pretty boy instead. everyone take testosterone right now