Trans and Tired

Icon made in @Sangled 's picrew Milly/27/she|her Definitely into girls/feminine aligned enbies, I'm flipping around on other genders. This blog is just me screaming into the void and reblogging funny/important stuff

[thepromiscuousfinger]

[purplesaline]

Melon collies

[sahonithereadwolf]

I can no longer feel the infinite sadness

[penumbraphantasm]

ordering a pup cup for my chikorita in lumiose

[penumbraphantasm]

happy birthday to my thing

[radicalgraff]

“If you promise to stay alive just a little bit longer I promise that we are going to make this world a place worth living in by any means necessary. I ain’t giving up. I swear.” 

Spotted in Clackamas, Oregon

[anarchopuppy]

I can’t stop thinking about this message, so I spent a while trying to isolate just the writing and make it transparent. I might order a shirt with it

Whoever in Clackamas wrote this message on their bus stop, I love you

[kaylmao]

idk i would personally rather give up access to certain products seasonally or locally than have people enslaved to give me the ability to have any product any place any time. i think i can go without tomatoes in january.

[avakynx]

[killerqueenmp3]

[laura-the-swarming]

My mans unlocked a higher level of synesthesia

[snuppysnail]

puppy chores~ made 4 @wagsandswishes

[puppygirllaika]

*white knuckling my way through the dishes with a thousand yard stare* never puppy bores... do my puppy chores... never puppy bores... do my puppy chores... never puppy bores... do my puppy chores...

[grimeclown]

 “hi welcome to mcdonalds what can i get for you?”

“yeah can i get a deluxe quarter pounder with cheese?”

“absolutely, do you want the meal or just the sandwich?’

“uuuuuh hold on”

*fishes something out of my pocket*

“mikey what do i do?”

“get the fries. youll need the energy in the coming days”

*stuffs it back in my pocket*

“uhh yes please  the meal would be great”

[texcritterspizzajamboree]

serious question: can anyone else see this post? am I hallucinating?

[meme-loving-stuck]

this is like Schrodinger’s fucking meme because half the time the pic is deleted and the other half it’s visible

[kaban-bang]

[genderoutlaws]

two of my trans friends from the US who applied for and got refugee status in canada have informational PDFs they wanted me to share for anyone interested in applying for refugee status as well, since there's been a lot of misinformation around online suggesting it's an impossibility. it's not effortless and they've had to work with a lawyer, but 245 people from the US successfully got refugee status last year, which was an increase from the year before.

i can put ppl in contact with said refugee friends and or answer questions through them to the best of my ability, but the basics they wanted me to pass around are the claims process flowchart and the refugee claim orientation guide. (please let me know if either link isnt functioning) and the general info that you're more likely to get approved working with a lawyer in your province of choice and slowly building a case than doing an at border crossing application.

[gigglesister]

correction here:

every single source when googling anything related to the number 245 and refugees from the us last year explicitly refers to it being the number of people from the us who applied for refugee status in canada in the first half of the year. that is a very different thing from the number who got accepted, and its misrepresenting the situation hugely to claim its the latter.

[genderoutlaws]

i adjusted the original post and i apologize ! i wasnt trying to misrepresent on purpose i just heard this part through a verbal conversation with said friends and obviously misunderstood and should have fact checked before repeating

but yes, that is 245 people who applied at all from the US, and i can't find a number on who has been accepted, bc we won't really know for awhile since it takes 1 to 3 years to process those claims

i should also specify my friends began this process well over a year ago, are just now close to getting their work permits, and have been in various temporary housing situations across the province for a few months and it has been draining financially and emotionally, and just difficult to find housing for 2 ppl and 2 cats. so i rlly dont mean to like oversell the accessability or ease of doing it at all.

im tryna think what else. they also said they personally were willing to stay and appeal as long as they needed to if necessary, even if it just got them to the other side of a trump presidency. (im not so sure trans rights are a guarantee post trump but, thats a whole other thing) and also it does mean you can't return to the US without essentially nullifying your claim that you are unsafe there.

[psipudding]

uma musume anime director to his underpaid and overworked animators: "no, you see, it is absolutely critical that we have a rotoscope shot of super creek with an emphasis on her super creeks

[jay-rayart]

In honor of Pride month I want to share this comic I made about growing up queer. We live in a world that tries to cut us down, I am so glad I stayed around long enough to write stories about finding the light. If your looking for more Black, Queer, and Magical storytelling consider backing FLY on kickstarter

FLY : A Magical Black Boy Series - Pilot

A coming of age story about Black kids who finally have power to fight back against systems designed against them.

[girlballs]

Going to the nondescript tgirl fast food restaurant and asking for extra sauce for the chicken nuggets and holding up the line for 21 minutes while the girl in the kitchen jacks off into a little paper cup.

[girlballs]

Sitting my ass down and #listening to the Cum Nuggets Experts

[homoquartz]

i’ve warmed up significantly towards the concept of small talk ever since i learned that its sole purpose is to make friendly noises.

as long as you smile and nod, people are satisfied. it’s just to show that you are nice and there with good intentions. we’re small in a big world and have to rely on other people to be decent to us. so we do our little human dance to each other to say, “i’m not here to hurt you. here’s something we have in common, like the weather or sports or itchy sweaters, so we both know we’re on the same team. we both agree on a basic fact, like that it is rainy or that being itchy is uncomfortable, and this proves we can get along. i’m being light-hearted and non-threatening right now.”

small talk isn’t to get to know a person. it’s just a greeting to affirm you’re buddies in the universe.

i am motivated by wanting the other person to know i am friendly, so i have gotten pretty decent at small talk when i used to hate it.

[piratedgender]

[themisally]

[k-wame]

[sasuke-offical]

i wish this was one frame then text paragraph but whatever this low-key went hard asf

[swordshapedleaves]

"'I remember' is more romantic than 'I love you.'"

"Why?"

"I was in a relationship for five years and he loved me in all the ways I was supposed to be loved. He had the motivation. The patience, the consistency. I convinced my self that should've been enough, but what I was missing was the fluency.

"He didn't remember things about me the way I remembered things about him. And I know it sounds silly but I'd buy him his favorite mouthwash at CVS because I remembered he liked the taste. I wouldn't cook with oranges because I remembered he hated them. And I didn't realize how much I needed that reciprocated until a year ago when I reconnected with this guy on hinge.

"There was absolutely no foundation for a relationship but after we met he caught me off guard with 'let me make you dinner' and I said, 'just reminding you I'm celiac.' And even though we hadn't spoken in a year he said 'Dont worry. I already got your favorite chickpea pasta.'

"And I just stood there in his kitchen because I have never been in love with this man and he has never been in love with me, but in that moment, I felt strangely seen and loved, because it wasn't just 'oh he remembered I have an allergy.'

"It's that after a year of silence, there were details about me that felt worth holding onto and that felt more intimate than any partner saying 'I love you' to me becuse declarations of love are just words, but remembering is the action of it. Because you can fake loving someone but you cannot fake remembering.

"And most importantly it implies that I think of you in your absence, whether it's convenient or not. Like when you're going about your day and suddenly there thet are. I find you in the mouthwash aisle. I find you in the fruit bowl. I find you in a thousand small choices I make without thinking. Because even though I don't want to, for the rest of my life I will remember my ex hated oranges."

"What was your name?"

"Sophie."

"Preston. Nice to meet you."

[shukitanukiffxiv]

D'Bridget! Bridge-uki!

art by @khemorrhoids

[yamada-ryo]

why is halimede running the scp twitter account