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➤ General Info

Hi, I'm Kinsei/Venus/Shida!

I'm agender transmascfem, aegosexual nebularomantic, negro-African, I use any pronouns (star/starself if you want to use xenopronouns), I am an adult.

This is my main blog where I rant about my fandoms, opinions and beliefs.

I believe that DNIs are dumb so no DNI, I'll just block anybody I dislike.

Asks and messages are open, hmu anytime but beware because I'm socially awkward and use a lot of tone tags.

More info under the cut

#intro template inspired by @/god-of-incest #intro post #blog intro #pinned intro #onesillystar #gif #proship #profiction #profic #darkship #anti anti #proship safe #op is a proshipper #pro para #star.txt

spidergxtz

Goodnight To:

• Trans men/mascs who are allies to trans women/femmes by fighting transmisogyny

• Trans women/femmes who are allies to trans men/mascs by fighting transandrophobia

• Binary trans folks who are allies to nonbinary people by fighting exorsexism

• Nonbinary folks who are allies to binary trans people by fighting transmisogyny and transandrophobia

• Perisex folks who are allies to intersex people by fighting intersexism

• Cisgender folks who are allies to trans and intersex people by fighting all of the above

gendercensus

The 2026 Gender Census is now open!

[ survey.gendercensus.com ]

The 13th annual international gender census, collecting information about the language we use to refer to ourselves and each other, is now open until 13th August 2026.

It’s short and easy, for most participants it takes 5 minutes or less.

After the survey is closed I’ll process the results and publish a spreadsheet of the data and a report summarising the main findings. Then anyone can use them for academic or business purposes, self-advocacy, tracking the popularity of language over time, and just feeling like we’re part of a huge and diverse community.

If you think you might have friends and followers who’d be interested, please do reblog this blog post, and share the survey URL by email or at AFK social groups or on other social networks. Every share is extremely helpful!

Survey URL: https://survey.gendercensus.com

The survey is open to anyone anywhere who speaks English and feels that the gender binary doesn’t fully describe their experience of themselves and their gender(s) or lack thereof.

Thank you so much!

[ Link to survey ]

PS: You can see some regularly-updated statistics about incoming data here, with lots of demography and graphs to peruse!

PPS: Image credits, bark and grass.

thebeautyofblackneutrality

i made a flag for black transneus. i’ve been dealin’ with hella gender shit lately, and i want to start makin’ more creative/aesthetic stuff related to gender. specifically, transneutrality.

this flag is called the “neu black” flag, fittingly labelled after my tag of the same name. i think of it as bein’ very sophisticated, it definitely look it lol.

what the colors represent:

brown: our skin

gold: our neutrality and our culture

green: our relation to the earth

these colors all wave into each other in harmony, green bein’ at the center to represent that community is in our core. gold and brown are a very deliberate choices:

gold is huge in the african diaspora because of its luxury and beauty. it’s also very neutral as it’s unisex. there’s an inherent beauty in our culture, and so i’m sure there’s an inherent beauty in our neutrality. here, blackness and neutrality cannot be separated.

brown is to represent our skin. whatever (neutral) presentations we choose for ourselves, it shall be based on a deep appreciation for the color of our skin. i chose a darker shade of brown to honor our darkskin siblin’s first and foremost, and it was the definin’ factor in how i adjusted the hue and shades of colors. i think it’s what made the flag so beautiful in the first place.

i believe we deserve something nice, something based off of earthy, soothin’ colors that appear in many black aesthetics across the diaspora.

i want all three of these factors to be a big component of how i present black neutrality, and anyone may use it.

ace-of-hearts-and-spades

Happy fuckin pride month. I'm tired of seeing other aces mindlessly regurgitating conservative rhetoric and siding with censors. Feel free to use with credit.

newporters

koiagain

"I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy" You are weak as Fuck boy

mashpotatoe

im nonbinary in a way that doesnt really matter

allthingswhumpyandangsty

“sorry I can’t go out tonight. I have therapy.”

the therapy:

astronaut-offical

Sorry, ✨️ but I ✨️✨️ think ✨️ I'm ✨️✨️ going to have ✨️ to leave ✨️✨️ shortly ✨️ because there ✨️✨️ are ✨️sparkles✨️ coming out of my mouth *cough*✨️✨️ *cough* ✨️✨️✨️*cough*✨️✨️✨️✨️ *coughcoughcough*✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️

#aoyama yuuga

koiagain

it should be illegal for people to be in the kitchen at the same time as me

autistobrat

I'm delusional but also self aware. I'm delaware from now on.

frownyalfred

Because ao3’s tagging system explicitly allows romantic pairings in Gen fics as long as the relationship is not the focus of the fic.

(But real talk: this comes up a lot on Tumblr and on r/ao3 and while most people know the Gen fic rules, there’s always a portion of people who don’t and get extremely frustrated when they can’t find a fic devoid of romantic relationships. Which is valid! But definitely not a reason to blame authors or their fics.

What concerns me is the growing amount of people who acknowledge ao3’s correct tagging rules and then say “well I don’t like/believe in it” and proceed to ignore the rules and continue to be upset because they don’t want it to be a rule and they think they can apply their own “beliefs” to the system and others should too.

That’s not how rules work.

If you want to change ao3, join the OTW. Run for one of their elected seats. Petition for a rule change, etc. Help wrangle the “no relationships” tags and encourage use of one others might want too.

But stop treating every relationship like it’s icky and that others are morally inferior because they’re okay with the Gen rules. You don’t make the rules, and that’s a good thing!

Also, an ao3 without relationships in gen fics? There would be so many batfamily fics disappearing because of a 200 word section buried in one chapter of 34 where Bruce and Clark interact and are presumably together!)

allthingswhumpyandangsty

this is true and all. but also never stop talking about your ship because if it’s what makes you happy then you can and should talk about it for yourself and your own enjoyment too.

there’s nothing wrong with the tweet in the screenshot, but I feel like we’ve forgotten that shipping and fandom are first and foremost for ourselves and our own enjoyment, not if the ship is popular or if there’re enough people shipping it.

just have fun. fandom and shipping is about yourself and your own enjoyment.