still, the louvre

hang me down the back. pretty please.

[onthemerits]

kelz || they/them || 20’s

ao3 * project masterlist

marauders // queer theory // taylor // buffy // hozier // trans history // fantasy books // my other hyper-fixations

you can find me in the jeggyverse

[lovbun-deactivated20180210]

Ok so this post is extremely long and I put it all together for my blogs Feeling sad page but as I don’t have a huge amount of followers I realize so many people are not seeing this information so I’m posting it here too!

alternatives without harming yourself:

holding/squeezing ice.

splashing your face with water.

getting a rubber band and snapping it against your skin (this could hurt, though it’s better than other ways that people usually choose to self-harm).

take a hot shower or bath.

eat something sour. it will take your mind of the urge. (lemon, sour lollies)

massage where you want to self-harm.

get a red pen or red paint and draw/paint over where you usually self-harm.

remind yourself as to why you shouldn’t do it. (scars, harms organs, leave memories etc…)

describe what you are feeling. (is the urge/pain in your chest, fists, legs, arms, head).

killing yourself will not help. it is not a solution.

you have your whole life ahead of you. you have so many more years that you can accomplish things in. for example;

having a family.

getting married.

to watch the sun rise.

to watch the sun set.

to save someone else’s life.

finish school.

get your dream job.

to laugh.

to smile.

to go camping.

travel to new places.

to wake up every morning to the person you love.

friends.

family.

to keep that promise you made.

to accomplish a goal.

to meet your idol.

to listen to new music.

theme parks.

video games.

chocolate.

to be able to look back and say “i made it”.

what you’re going through is temporary.

in case you need to hear this:

you are loved.

you are wanted.

you are needed.

you are beautiful.

you are handsome.

you are important.

you are not alone.

you are okay.

you are strong.

you are worth it.

you are smart.

you are not a failure.

you are useful.

you are going to be okay.

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suicide

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50 signs of good therapy

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things to do when you feel bad

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trans lifeline: 877-565-8860

depression hotline: [phone]

suicide hotline: [phone]

lifeline: 1-800-273-8255

trevor project: 1-866-488-7386

sexuality support: 1-800-246-7743

eating disorders hotline: [phone]

rape and sexual assault: 1-800-656-4673

grief support: 1-650-321-5272

runaway: 1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000

exhale: after abortion hotline/pro-voice: 1-866-439-4253

[synodicsean]

Dont forget about Crisis Text Line! 

Text HOME to 741-741

[bristlee1]

for those who might need it

[groupthinker]

the one that stuck out to me was “save someone’s life”

[agathokakolog1cal-deactivated20]

<333

[themadpen]

Reblog to literally save a life

[miss-holloways]

Buffy the Vampire Slayer 4.04 | Fear Itself

[ofswordsandpens]

Thalia's point of view must be so surreal because imagine the horror, the tragedy, and the cruelty, of dying... but then not. but you're not alive either. At least, not in the way you used to be. You're more or less caught, trapped, in this liminal state of being. You're still growing... but when you wake up you're not the age you should be. And suddenly, the little seven year old girl you helped protect and cared for and treated as your little sister is practically your age now. And your best friend, a boy that was a mere two years older than you is now a grown man, hardened and distorted by the very hate you saw the beginnings of. that you commiserated with.

[ofswordsandpens]

and then thinking more about Luke's point of view because for him, Thalia did die. And not just that but, she died for him, for Annabeth. And Luke mourned her. He carried anger for her, grief for her. Her death was a defining moment for him, molded him, was more evidence of the gods' callousness and disregard... but then, just like that, she's not dead. And suddenly, that girl who understood you better than anyone, the girl who cursed the gods with you, who fought side by side with you, is now looking at you like you're the monster.

[dellaray-deactivated20251231]

Sirius in a Pinterest inspired fit 🥀

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In conclusion, bro can dress

[5bi5]

So much of the horror in Buffy comes from struggling to achieve bodily autonomy in a world where everyone else is trying to take ownership over your body. What if you were forced to be a soldier against your will and your body was changed to be a better weapon? What if someone could build an exact lifelike replica of you so they didn’t have to get your consent? What if someone wanted to kill you so they could repurpose your body parts? What if your body periodically transformed and you blacked out and couldn't remember what you did in that form? What if you were captured? What if you were chained up? What if your body wasn’t yours even in death? What if your body was forcibly changed again and again in a myriad of ways and you knew your enemies were going through the same thing but you still had to fight them anyway?

[petday]

No one is wholesome. No one is "pure." Such expectation wears away at a person's soul. It is like handing someone a magnifying glass, and with that glass, they look at their life. The previous actions in their life. Sorting such actions into pure (precious, worth protecting) or evil (wrong, worth eliminating), and after measuring the weight of the actions, they decide if they themselves are good or bad. "Am I still pure? After looking at these actions, am I still wholesome enough to receive care and love?"

I've seen it and felt it. I recoil when I see others call people wholesome as a result. (Actions can be in good faith. That is 'wholesome'. But an entire person...?) It is a comforting word for some, however.

[deathnguts]

Even non endgame Bartylus is still a soul deep bond. Yes they were each other’s first kiss, and no they will never regret it even if they grow up to be with other people. Yes they will always feel most at home in each other’s arms, even if they marry other people. And no, it’s not in an infidelity way, they just mean literally eveyrthing to each other. They just are soul bound. *vomits and dies on the ground with a foaming mouth and rolled back teary eyes*

[mylovelyprongs]

it’s canon that Regulus Black doesn’t kiss James to shut him up when he’s yapping because Regulus actually likes to hear him talking, but he does kisses him when James is nervous talking or freaking over something but it’s not to shut him up it’s to calm him down

[sehaniine]

“I can offer you nothing,” he said. “Only a song in the shadows.”

“Sing it to me,” I whispered back.

[alexsays-no]

Todo lo que fue de los dos son ecos de amor

(Everything left between you and me are echos of love)

[maladaptivewriting]

regulus black is so me (tries to make things better, dies in the process, and actually makes things so much harder)

[deathnguts]

I could talk for hours about the sweet spot between regulus being a softie as a child and a teen/adult grew into someone with practically unbreakable walls that are simply part of him now and how that softie still shines through liek a ghost haunting a house. BUT my favorite example is Regulus being someone who has a visceral reaction to things he finds cute and precious, liek small animals or moths or toys no one cares about. He obviously knows how to keep that reaction to a minimum when around other people so none of his closest friends see him genuinely geek out over something adorable even when they know he is still softer to cute things, but he’s got that bubbling urge still that he keeps under wraps with like a twitch in his eye. That is, until he sees Barty in his raccoon animagus form for the first time and he just stops because he’s never seen a raccoon before but then he just melts and the next thing anyone knows he’s cradles Barty like a baby while he just goes insane about how adorable he is and he can’t stop smiling and gushing and the rest of the skittles are just watching with a prideful ‘huh. That’s new.’ sort of thought because it’s nice to see the traces of genuine sweetness left in their friend sometimes. And Barty is absolutely cheezed after, he’s just a complete dope high on the joy of being fawned over and pampered so much by his favorite boy. It’s a good day for everyone.

[onthemerits]

i personally think that the loyal, loving sirius black we know could never have truly hated his little brother, regardless of how much he would have claimed to, regardless of how disappointed and angry he got—especially considering they were both kids when shit hit the fan… but what do i know i’m just an older sibling

[onthemerits]

i’m reblogging this to add that even if you think he did in canon… consider that i want to write a dynamic where sibling love runs deep in the very fabric of who the black brothers are as people… even if they both have to bury it deep for different reasons

[onthemerits]

i personally think that the loyal, loving sirius black we know could never have truly hated his little brother, regardless of how much he would have claimed to, regardless of how disappointed and angry he got—especially considering they were both kids when shit hit the fan… but what do i know i’m just an older sibling

[dorlilymylovesss]

You know the ship is good when you receive death threats for shipping it

[courfee]

oby jeggy is a different kind of dsfkdsf so here is them from the first fic in that series, i will touch you with my mind by my love @itsjaywalkers