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if you believe transandrophobia/transmisandry or misandry in general is real, you're getting blocked

#realized i dont have a pinned post #all info im willing to give abt myself is in my bio so im spending it on smth else #pinned

um-jammer-tranny

swagophile

saddest sentence ever isnt "gay baby shoes never used cus theyre lame as fuck" or whatever george orwell said the saddest sentence in the world is "fat girl pulling the waistband of her pants over her tummy." that's the saddest sentence in the world.

swagophile

they led me to water once and i drank a bunch. i was thristy. it was easy for me. i think horses are just lame

prokopetz

It's always wild to find out that an author of transhuman sci-fi is an outspoken transmisogynist. Like, pump the brakes, buddy – you think personhood is mutable but gender is innate?

wastrelwoods

been sort of obsessively combing through articles and websites and resources about top surgery and recovery more and more as I gear up to My Big Day and while I hate to report I may have gotten through most of the scientifically rigorous and reputable sites I am at least, now, stumbling over some of the funnier AI generated slop images i've ever seen in my quest for Patient Information

brawltogethernow

They missed. 😔

tired-mochii

I desperately need help to pay my rent & bills this month!!

Wednesday, June 17th: Happy Pride, everyone. I’m Gem, a bi, mentally ill, and disabled woman in desperate need of help, as I'm struggling to pay some bills, which are due before I receive my welfare!!

I'm sorry that I have to e-beg again. However, as most of you know from my previous posts, I have been struggling to make ends meet while on welfare. And due to my outstanding bills and ever-increasing debt, it has been difficult for me to make ends meet. With the rising cost of living, I have been relying on my credit cards to pay bills and simply get by on a day-to-day basis.

This has cost me a great deal, and repaying them is more than I can afford. I’ve put off making this post and tried to manage these bills on my own, but I’m really struggling because I'm overdrawn, and I can't cover them with the limited welfare I receive on the 30th.

My birthday is also this Friday, on June 19th, and I’d be very grateful for any help with my bills and getting some groceries.

Again, I know this is a lot to ask, but if anyone could spare any amount to help me, even if it’s just £1/$1/€1, it would mean a lot, and sharing helps just as much.

Thank you ❤️

£0/£150!!

✨️PayPal✨️

morganitism

What does it take to make y'all care and stop making excuses? How many terminations does it take before y'all swallow your pride and admit that it isn't any weird kink or fetish that is getting these girls banned? These girls are getting banned because staff hates trans women, they were running low on niggas to ban so they added trannies to their hitlist as well. I'm sick of those posts made by some fuckass TMEs and pickmes that are like "yes trans women are being banned unfairly but it's important to remember that some of those banned trannies- erm I mean transwomen were gross and evil". Fuck your devil's advocacy, send a trans woman some money right goddamn now.

sol-rust

#deltarune

cozylittleartblog

i miss my WIFE, TOBY !!!!

#deltarune

hylianane

functionally suicidal character saying “I would die for you” to their significant other and its like. I get the sentiment, honey, but if a hot dog vendor told me he’d sell hot dogs for me, I wouldn’t feel very moved now would I

maseratus

Now a functionally suicidal character saying “I will live for you”. Now that’s a dynamic I can sink my teeth into.

mousidy

now how about a functionally suicidal character saying "I will sell hot dogs for you"

firem4ge

The way some of you talk it makes it so clear that you think trans women are men and trans men are women.

I’m sure this is real oppression of “anyone born with a vagina” and not just you getting mad at a trans woman for calling you out on misogyny so you need to bring up sex based oppression.

Trans women love using their agab to give them power over cis women. Obviously leveraging their agab will give them higher social standing, because trans women are treated so much better than cis women.

Stop pushing sex based oppression like it's a real thing, it's not. Trans women are fundamentally women and are treated as such.

mastergir

Checked my bank account and went into a full-blown panic. I absolutely hate resorting to GFM again, but life has gotten significantly harder than I had planned for.

Hello, you may know me as MasterGir. Living costs have deeply sur… Cody Littlefield needs your support for Gir went broke, help pay for food

mastergir

I'm passing this through again because I haven't been able to stream or do much real work for a few weeks now. I've had a lot of stressful events like my mother being hospitalized, my mother-in-law ALSO being hospitalized, my partner Pochi's debit card # being stolen, as well as numerous other personal things I'm not at liberty to publicly discuss.

This has, understandably, made it difficult to find the time & energy to entertain. Things will get stable again eventually, but until then, if you'd like to help me get through this ridiculously rough time, I'd deeply appreciate the relief it would bring.

I look forward to earning my pay doing the things I love, rather than having to ask for help this way yet again.

pochiyaki

It has been an insanely difficult time for us. With one hit after another coming and making everything as difficult as possible. If you could spare it would truly give some relief while we try to keep our life together.

breadshot

hey all, im a disabled trans girl that can barely walk. im pretty socially isolated but there are people irl that wanna be friends with me. the problem is I cant leave my apartment because my parents wont let me get a wheelchair. send me some money so I can leave my home and have fun before my abusive parents make me move back home? 🥺

v*nmo: @Addie-D-

p*yp*l: DM me for it

mothric

thinking about the time a former housemate said to me "hey I put these box fans in the living room because it's hot" while gesturing to the fans that I was actively sitting in front of because it was hot. and I said "okay thanks." and she kept standing there like she was waiting for something else so I said "am I blocking the airflow? do you need me to move?" and she said no I'm just letting you know they're here, in the living room, for circulation. and I said well yes, I did put that together. I am enjoying them. thank you. and she looked confused. so I asked "am I meant to do something with this information or are you just informing me?" and she said no I'm letting you know they're here because It's Hot In Here. she seemed a bit aggravated, and her emphasis seemed deliberate.

it took me asking three more times before she finally told me she wanted me to leave the fans where they are instead of moving them to my room or something. and I said oh! I had no intention of doing so but thank you for letting me know what the expectation is.

about a month later she brought up that conversation as the moment it actually clicked for her that I Am Autistic And Will Not Magically Intuit The Unspoken Request You Didn't Ask Me.

mothric

I have observed enough allistic communication to know that generally, if somebody points something out to you that you can already see or are already clearly interacting with, they are making an indirect request. but as I don't know what the request is, the only way forward is for me to guess (and likely get it wrong), or prompt the allistic to tell me clearly what they need.

however, allistics don't realize they do this, so asking them to say the unspoken surprises and confuses them. this is not their fault. allistics can be quite emotionally fragile and perceive directness as confrontation, so they habitually rely on indirect speech and coded language to preserve others' feelings. this is why they may find it difficult to be direct, even when asked. I have found that with enough gentle encouragement and reassurance that they are actually helping you, you too can achieve successful communication with your allistic friend or loved one. :)