We are the Anon System. We would rather keep this account away from our main blog as well as people we know in real life, but our names and text styles are just so distinct— if you know us… no you don’t.
WE ARE NOT VOCAL ON OUR OPINIONS OF SYSCOURSE. Obviously, we think things such as homophobia and racism are terrible and evil. But for syscourse, we would like to keep our opinions to ourself.
Where are your DNIs?
We will not share our triggers, phobias, or anything of the sort. If we don’t like something, we will block it. We do not want things that could upset us to be public, as someone could use that to try to hurt us. Again, if we do not like something you do, you will be blocked.
We are a C-DID system, formed from trauma.
We’ll all be posting different things. We’re not really sure yet. But for now, here’s a few intros. This will be updated occasionally.
Intros \/
Tyn - I’m Tyn, I use he/him pronouns. I’m decently frequent and like interacting with others. Acting host (temporarily), fictive, and caretaker.
Tiffany - heyyyy! I’m Tiffany! Some people call me Toffee. Whichever is fine! I use she/her/hers. I’m our long term co-host
Moonali - she/beam pronouns! Hi-hi!!!! I’m one of the co-hosts
romy - hello, i am romy! i do not use caps. i use he/him, it/its, and she/her (sparingly) as my pronouns. soother.
Allium - hi! I’m Allium! I’ll be posting some! he/him. SNP
Merri - she/they. of course I get the white. I’m good at filling in for the others. Protector.
Decoy - any pronouns! I will be very occasional, but I want to be part of this account. Adapter.
Where’s your host?
As a C-DID system, have a lot of alters. Many did not want to participate in this account! Our main host is one of them.
This list is missing many members, and it will likely stay that way. If someone you don’t recognize signs off on a post, you are welcome to put in an ask, but there’s no guarantee they’ll want to answer.
The best feeling ever is when you have been dreading doing a project for work/school and when you finally open it up, you find that a headmate already did it.
In contrast, the worst feeling ever is when you try to grab your sweet treat from the fridge and find that someone already ate it.
I’ve found that when many systems hear the term, it is assumed that source separation means a fictive has to change everything about themself until you can’t even tell what their source is anymore. This is false.
All a fictive needs to be healthily source separated is to understand that they are not their source— that’s it!
No matter how similar someone is to their source, if they are able to understand and separate themselves from their source— if they can look at their source and know that they are a separate person, they are healthily source separated.
Don’t get me wrong, some fictives prefer to change everything and try to make sure they are completely unrecognizable in comparison to the media they are based on.
Both examples are okay.
What isn’t okay is when a fictive believes that they are their source material. Not only is this untrue and a delusion, but the more attached this person is to the idea, the bigger the mental breakdown when they inevitably have a crisis on the fact that they are not their source. I’ve seen it happen many times, and it is upsetting to see.
All of this is to say that source separation is really the bare minimum and it’s not a big, scary, and difficult thing.
NOTE:
NEVER, and I mean NEVER, judge a fictive based on their source or their level of separation. Everyone is out there doing their best. Fictives are people, not their source, not accessories, not characters, not objects, people.
Treat everyone with respect.
Stay safe out there lovelies, I’m cheering you on!
Moon and Merri, signing off.
(personal experience from two of our fictives below cut)
Hello, I should introduce myself! I’m Hot Guy! Btw this is the only time I will be helping out with a post cos I’m not comfortable with people interacting with me! Partially because I am an obvious fictive— I have been sought after because of my source and I don’t feel like doing that again—
I am source separated. I use my source as a profile picture, I kept the name and pronouns (despite them being a little unconventional!) of my source!
But I can look at the comic I am based on and understand that Hot Guy (the character) is not me. I can look at him and not feel weird. I’m just a guy in the real world. And that’s pretty cool! It’s a little like sharing a name with a celebrity haha! I can see other fictives that happen to have the same source and know that I don’t know them.
I have a purpose in this system, I’m here for a reason. This is my home <3
Stay swaggy out there— peace! -HG
— And I’m Tyn. I will be posting more on this account. I am also a fictive. My source is slightly less obvious than Hot Guy’s, but it’s quite guessable based on context.
I have changed a bit of my appearance in the headspace, I am thinking about changing my pronouns, and I’ve detached from my source’s name. Kind of. In certain circles.
I can view my source and I know that it is not me. This means I have a healthy relationship with my source. That’s all that matters, but I’ve been shifting away anyways.
It’s up to the fictive to decide what is best for them.
Tyn out, stay safe out there.
Anonymous guest:
I will not name myself, as I don’t want to have anything to do with this sort of thing! But I am a 100% fully source separated fictive. To the point where if we didn’t have the logs, no one would know or even remember that I was a fictive. My state is not a holy goal that MUST be reached for. But if someone does want that, they are also allowed to pursue it.
Final notes:
Tyn: Basically the same thing as above the cut, as long as a fictive is able to recognize the difference between themself and their source media, they’re all set. There are different levels one can pursue. It’s up to the system or even down to the alter to decide what is best for them.
Something I very commonly see in system spaces, especially with newer systems and singlets in said spaces, is a lack of fictive etiquette.
So what does it entail? A few simple things that are pretty easy to remember if you start with one specific detail: fictives are not their source material.
This means that reaching out to a system solely because they have a fictive of a character you like is not okay nor is it safe. The concept of sourcemates can be dangerous— you do not know the system! They could have bad intentions, you don’t even know how old they are until you ask. I’ve seen many younger systems get into relationships with adult systems on this mistake. As tempting as it can be to seek comfort in people that are ‘from’ the same place, one’s ficto-memories are just that; fictitious. Plus, anyone could lie about being a system, or having a certain alter. And trauma survivors can be fragile and easy to manipulate, so it’s something you keep in mind. ‘Sourcecalls’ are a damaging concept as a whole.
That being said, do not treat a fictive like they are their source. If you see a fictive whose source is a problematic media, or the character they are based on is problematic or evil, do not assume that they are exactly like their source. One of the nicest people I have ever met was a fictive of the main villain of a violent video game. She is very sweet, and we are lucky to know her. Again, fictives are not their source. It’s impossible to say this too much. Don’t judge a fictive on their source.
If you or someone close to you believes themself to be their source, it can be extremely unhealthy. The solution: source seperation. (Moonali is making a post on that soon.)
All in all:
Fictives are their own people. You don’t know them until you get to know them properly. Treat them with respect and do not act like you know them simply because of their source.
Basic respect is easy, and for that, there is no excuse.
Nuance:
Not all systems feel this way. We are not ones to tell systems that they’re wrong for not doing something. Our word is not god, and no one should be harassed for not agreeing with anything we say. Further, we should not be attacked unless we have said something truly damaging.
