this site sucks,
tl;dr: i'm logging off of tumblr for the foreseeable future after today. catch me on pillowfort, or, less actively, on bluesky. im also on discord @ owlsong74. rambling below the cut
ive been on this hellsite since 2012, very nearly half of my time on earth, including all of my high school and adult years, and across several major changes in my life. i've made a bunch of friends here, laughed at silly posts, was introduced to many new ideas, pieces of media, cool facts, and different viewpoints i may not have encountered otherwise, and had my idiolect irreversibly altered. the site and the people on it had a major part in making me who i am. it's also still by far the best social media in terms of it's features and format
but man!!! i cant trust this place! the bad changes outpace the good (and to be clear, there have been good changes: more options for search, tags in notes, etc), and time after time staff has shown to be incompetent and bigoted in it's selective use of TOS against particularly trans women. between monday's changes and today's bans, the past few days in particular have been a disaster.
(and im not a main target of their bans, but ever since my blog was deleted by staff a couple years ago for no reason, ive just been quietly waiting for it to happen again and this time stick for good)
there are other places i can find cool posts and memes, and honestly, there are better uses of my time than endlessly refreshing a major social media site anyway.
i have a lot of attachment to this place, so i'm not going to leave completely forever -- i'll probably still poke my head in now and then to check on things and find ancient posts for archival/nostalgia purposes -- but i'm logging out for the immediate future and i dont plan on actively posting anymore. i'm keeping my blogs up so the posts don't disappear into the ether, but i want to give this place the least amount of my time as possible
see you o7

















