i was born from your desires

gin | 24 | venezuela | dyke he/him | español/english permanently possesed by the yaoi gamer demon carrd in pinned

[paraemu]

me 🤝 parad

carrd

kamen rider translations

[hotvampireadjacent]

[fadeintoyou1993]

[jenny-holzer]

[sinkdraws]

fighting inner demons

[krasnoarmeyets]

can we please start killing people

[badassdemonsword]

Heated rivalry shouldve been about 2 ugly old guys that play mahjong then maybe id consider watching it

[krownest]

i don't remember them playing mahjong but they do other old man things like going to the wet market together and drinking soup and taking walks. anyway go watch suk suk / twilight's kiss

[krownest]

"ok but where's the old chinese lesbians" go watch all shall be well. it's by the same director and the old chinese lesbians are also at the market

[flyingcorpseinthesky]

For TV shows, there's What Did You Eat Yesterday? which is about a middle aged gay couple

And when it comes to films, there's actually quite a lot about older queer people! In addition to what was listed above, off the top of my head there are films like Cloudburst, Supernova, Turtles, Salut Victor

[senatortedcruz]

I am in fucking tears

[xiemas-little-drawing-corner]

[zettatoad]

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ME, ALSO CAN'T FIGURE OUT HOW IT'S POSSIBLE: battler you are so fucking stupid get it together man

[hazemsuhail]

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[hazemsuhail]

I feel completely shattered and deeply ashamed begging strangers for help every single day. This endless nightmare has stripped us of everything, forcing me to sacrifice even my own dignity just to keep my brother and my family alive.

[hazemsuhail]

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[hazemsuhail]

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[madamepestilence]

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[hazemsuhail]

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[mollyjames]

I think a lot of transmisogyny stems from this idea that people are really scared to see a dick. The reason bathrooms and locker rooms and hot springs keep being flash points is because these are all places where if a trans woman is using them, it's possible you might see her dick. A lot of transmisogynistic humor revolves around being traumatized because the subject saw a woman with a penis. And look, to a certain extent I sympathize. I'm not a fan of dick; I dont want this thing either. But if you want to be an ally to trans women, I think a big important step you can take personally is to examine your own reaction to the scenarios I described above, and recognize that a dick is just a body part a girl has sometimes. Seeing it as inherently sexual and/or traumatizing is a major wedge conservatives use to justify their rhetoric

[lady-of-vitreous-sight]

ok i reblogged that post because i mostly agree with it but i don't entirely agree with it. in particular, two things.

first of all the problem with "teach young gays what top and bottom and dom and sub mean" is that there is actual disagreement on what they mean and not just in the trivial way.

in particular, i see both "top and bottom mean penetrator vs penetratee, dom and sub mean guiding vs following" (fandom definition) and "top and bottom mean guiding vs following, dom and sub mean d/s power dynamic" (bdsm definition) and both groups have strong arguments (the prior says "using top and bottom for other things is heteronormative", the latter not wanting to collapse all of bdsm into d/s). (you could argue for top/bottom from A and sub/dom from B but then you lose the ability to compare disparate dynamics which is the entire fucking point of this terminology.)

further, we made that shit up. exactly who the dom/top and who the sub/bottom is is arbitrary in plenty of scenes and frequently a matter of interpretation. it's a label that is broadly useful to compare and categorize dynamics but not truly universal even though it *frequently* espouses itself to be.

like. the reason people are confused is in fact because this shit is confusing. language is evil and we need to kill everyone who uses it. i'd love if we had better kink education in our spaces, but i simply do not believe that we would be able to agree on a curriculum.

second, i think the problem of people overidentifying as sub/bottom is *entirely* orthogonal to the problem of kink education.

frankly, i think it's a problem of alienation. it's a problem of young queers not knowing how to navigate queer culture, and wanting to perform "queer sexuality". it's a problem of trauma and identity construction.

identifying as a sub/bottom means "i wish to be 'used' and i do not wish to take agency in it". it means "I feel that I am an object in the world". it means "I externalize my sexuality as an act of others upon me". and various other things.

i think all these problems would exist regardless of kink education. i think that some of these problems are fundamental *to* the shape of queer-kink-as-it-exists. i think that presenting this as a problem of language is cruel to these subjects.

and anyway that's about it. i do find it really annoying when ppl try to collapse all eroticism into d/s though, yes.

[whineosaur]

There is no greater bond on this earth than when you all despise and carry untold righteous anger about one person and then when you’re all together someone is like “so about that dead horse” and everyone starts sounding like Michael Jackson with the way they’re chanting beat it

[gunsandfireandshit]

[stackslip]

we're moving to an internet where children would be banned from reaching out for help and friendship online but abusive parents can post their children's every second online to humiliate and expose them for money with no pushback

[ot3]

i just think 9/10 times "what if these characters settled down into a comfortable domestic situation" is one of the least interesting ways to examine a dynamic. but i understand that, and i mean this in the most neutral way possible, being interesting is not the actual point of most people's fanworks and media interpretation. i will still be complaining about it though.