I think universities should use Love Island as research for like case studies on certain things like race, class, morals, relationships, etc.
Like I want to read case studies on why each season is so jarring and insanely different. I want to know why it causes so much drama and stan wars. This show needs to be dissected on an educational level.
On this PAC we will go over what makes your future spouse jealous & how they behave under the influence of their jealousy.
Pile 1
What makes them jealous?
Your future husband appears in the reading as someone mentally insecure in the realm of romantic relationships, who feels a deep sense of ownership over their partner. This need stems from personal insecurity and does not reflect a sexist or toxic mindset.
It’s possible that this person experiences jealousy when you're in the presence of someone they perceive as more intelligent than them. Perhaps you are attracted to individuals with sharp intellects, who are witty, self-assured, and able to navigate any environment or area with ease.
For this reason, this person feels a strong urge to embrace you and keep you in their arms, especially when they feel threatened by the possibility of losing you to a man who is more established in his life and professional career.
Moreover, as a general rule, this person feels jealous when they see someone trying to win you over, not necessarily through direct flirting, but by showcasing their physicality or adopting a servile, seductive attitude. They are likely someone who expresses their love through acts of service and help; thus, they fear that another person may take their place or diminish the value of their gestures of affection.
How do they behave under the influence of their jealousy?
In contrast to the mental unrest they may feel when they are jealous or see someone flirting with you, the way they express those jealous feelings is very gentle and mature, and as a result, they exhibit balanced and fair behavior. Instead of creating a confrontation or keeping their feelings locked away until they explode, they will want to talk to you directly. When they do, they will maintain a gentle and soft tone of voice; at no point will they raise their voice or get angry with you, as, strangely, even though they are insecure about themselves, they have a lot of confidence in your feelings and understand that you only want them. They will talk to you about their insecurities or doubts from an adult and mature perspective, always being fair with you. The goal of the conversation will not be to reprimand behaviors or attempt to control each other’s actions, but rather to present and explain their feelings, with an effort to collaborate and grow together in the relationship.
Still, on a material level, I believe they would try to soothe their insecurity and secure the relationship by gifting you something like jewelry or high-value products/experiences. These gifts have two purposes: the first, to show they are capable of providing for you, and the second, to reassure themselves and ensure you, within their possibilities, that there is no better partner for you.
Pile 2
What makes them jealous?
This person has a very clear definition of what they want to offer you as a partner. They want to offer you the stars and the entire universe. This person will be extremely protective of you, meaning they won’t let you feel emotionally insecure in the relationship. Secondly, they will do everything in their power to give you what you need on a professional and personal level (such as seeing the Northern Lights, traveling to a certain place, or securing a specific job). Because of this, they feel extremely jealous when anyone else gives you what they cannot.
In this relationship, it is possible that you work together or in the same field; therefore, they may feel jealous if your supervisor gets a raise for you, while they, who would have liked to move the pieces to get it for you, could not achieve it (ethics aside).
Other couples may live in different parts of the world for a time and have cultural differences. Because of this, they may also feel jealous when, due to these differences, they cannot fully see you as a person and lose parts of your being and soul because they still don’t understand parts of your culture that others can share with you. Additionally, when you are physically separated, they will feel jealous of those who can see and enjoy with you the different museums, beaches, experiences...
All these feelings come from a need to get to know you more and love you with greater intensity and depth; they do not come from a need to prevent others from doing so, and I believe this is very profound and very healthy.
How do they behave under the influence of their jealousy?
When this person gets jealous, they’ll increase their efforts to win you over in a pretty intense way, trying to position themselves as the best option. Among the things they might do, and considering you’ll be separated at these moments, they’ll send you provocative photos to show you their best physical and sexual version (not just nudes, but also pictures of their best outfits or after working out... stuff like that). The goal is to reaffirm their attractiveness and make sure they keep your attention, especially when they feel insecure or distant from you.
Additionally, they’ll position themselves as the best option and try to show you their best qualities. I believe they are in a position of power and want to show their best version, though sometimes they might idealize things a bit & exaggerate others. All of this is driven by their desire and to make sure there’s no better alternative for you, especially during moments of insecurity or jealousy.
They may also make incursions into your daily life, especially if you live in different places. They might take a flight just to see you. In other cases, they’ll wait for you outside your work with flowers or make time where they have none to see you. This reflects their desire to be close to you, show their commitment, and make sure you feel special and appreciated. Their efforts to connect with you physically, even in complicated situations or with tight schedules, are a way to reaffirm their interest and make sure you are not forgetting them, especially when there are physical or emotional distances involved.
Pile 3 -
What makes them jealous?
First of all, your future spouse is emotionally reserved and doesn’t express his feelings easily. He feels jealous when others make gestures toward you that involve financial generosity — for example, if someone invites you for coffee or lunch, even if it’s just a friendly meeting between colleagues. He doesn’t like it when you share your burdens or responsibilities with others but not with him. As your partner, he believes it’s his role to help you lighten that load, and when he’s not given the chance, he feels frustrated and lacking in his role as a partner.
Also, he feels hurt when you show patience and understanding toward others but don’t offer him the same gentleness or time to process certain topics. Furthermore — and in a somewhat toxic way — he struggles with this because he deeply enjoys your nurturing and caring nature. When he sees you extending that warmth to others, it makes him feel insecure, as if they might also become enchanted by you.
He feels possessive because he’s afraid someone else might take you away from him.
How do he behaves under the influence of their jealousy?
He becomes clingy and affectionate, like a sly cat seeking a treat. He kisses you gently while hugging you from behind, leaving soft, quick kisses on your neck and shoulders.
If someone gives you a present or invites you to lunch, he’ll respond by showering you with gifts and gestures worth twice as much — as if trying to outdo the original gesture.
He doesn’t express his jealousy through resentment or bitterness, but rather through a quiet ambition to prove he’s the best partner you could have. For some of you, this period of jealousy may feel like a rollercoaster — one day he gives you everything, and the next he’s emotionally distant, busy licking his own emotional wounds.
In general, he is likely to feel jealous during the first few months of dating. However, there will come a moment when he grows tired of being jealous all the time and experiences personal growth. He will mature into a reliable partner who always has the best resources for you and becomes a dependable companion you can always turn to for advice.
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♇ a ruler in astrology is a planetary ruler, a planet that rules over the sign that takes over a house, for example, someone with capricorn in their second house, will have saturn as their second house ruler.
♇ my second house is ruled by saturn, and saturn is placed in my seventh house in astrology.
♇ 2H RULER IN THE 1H ⟶ self value means a lot to them. distinct/nice voice can become famous for that. family-oriented or known as the most selfish family member. beauty and money oriented. very stubborn but beautiful, can imply that romance and communication is important to native.
♇ 2H RULER IN THE 2H ⟶ can be self-centred, being someone who is vocal. can be someone who is frugal as well. might like to sing, cook and create are. stubborn. could be obsessed with future spouse and can be someone who likes to many money. can be very sensual/sexual.
♇ 2H RULER IN THE 3H ⟶ very communicative. slow speakers or likes to take time to make their point. can be someone who likes to make quick money. pretty hands and hand writing. can be manipulative. values intelligent and siblings and cousins. spends money on food and travelling. beautiful relatives and pretty/loud neighbourhood.
♇ 2H RULER IN THE 4H ⟶ values family and order. very emotionally distant and private. very secretive and easily hurt. can be someone who is protective, and might become the money-maker of the family. being someone who has a nice aesthetic, and might sound like your mother, or a prominent female figure in the family.
♇ 2H RULER IN THE 5H ⟶ very creative people. superstars and values talent. could value children and be very protective over them. or could value healing the inner child. very intelligent and educated. very sexual and can value romance and sex. could moan loud during sex or could like listening to hot audios.
♇ 2H RULER IN THE 6H ⟶ troubles with eating. gym/health freak. can value order and good health. might like to speak on the phone a lot and can be someone who could love pets or animals in general. being someone who likes to win as well, very competitive souls. but can be critical or someone who fishes for compliments to other people.
♱ 2H RULER IN THE 7H ⟶ money from partners or business partnerships. can value connections with friends, family and people in general. can have a nice/airy voice, family relationship might've impacted how you behave in relationships. might love to buy aesthetically pleasing stuff and can be known to be pretty.
♱ 2H RULER IN THE 8H ⟶ very private and guarded people. family secrets can change them. gaining finances through spouse or a will. can be be intimate and values intimacy. secret siblings/family members. sensual voices, known for voice acting or even singing. could also be mean if they wanted to.
♱ 2H RULER IN THE 9H ⟶ values intelligence and travelling. could like to be flattered. being someone who could like to trade with other people. can be someone who values philosophy or having faith in something. people believing in them helps them become more confident, another placement where someone fishes for compliments all the time. can gain money through creative writing or directing. can have a big ego as well.
♱ 2H RULER IN THE 10H ⟶ popular business moguls. can be a famous vocal actress or actor. up-front person. nice deep/commanding voice. authoritative person, someone who values career, discipline and reputation. can be very self-involved and controlling. prominent financial life. coming from a respectable or known family.
♱ 2H RULER IN THE 11H ⟶ popular friends, values friendship and being independent. gaining money from the internet or through networking. distinct voices might sound animated. can be a humanitarian. weird food taste, found family core. being someone who loves privacy and charity. people are curious about your family, how you earn money. could have a wealthy future, or wealthy friends.
♱ 2H RULER IN THE 12H ⟶ drains through money. retail therapy. struggles with food. might be paranoid. light voices but shady people. unexpected talent, people are surprised whenever they're good at something. a family member might've gone to prison/been behind bars. manifestors. could be interested in the fae, could have dreamy beauty. might disappear a lot, and can be delusional.
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