â ïž These headcanons include: forceful feminisation in the context of detransitioning a FtM, consensual non-consent, and misogynistic themes (explored in roleplay)
A slightly risky post gulp lemme know what you guys think of these more in-depth focuses on specific kinks...
Blanoir forcefem roleplay, but as a way for Blanc to explore the concepts of being societally forced into positions that don't truly fit him (both pre- and post-transition), and not expressing or feeling gender in a binary way, with someone he trusts to never truly treat him in the cruel manner he'd want from the roleplay...
Blanc likes the roleplay to be that Noir somehow finds out he's actually female, so wants to "put him in his place". It starts off with Noir confronting him and forcing him into a dress (though Blanc isn't fighting much to make getting it on easier), then he'd force Blanc into tradwife expectations. The roleplay genuinely tends to involve Blanc cooking and cleaning for a while, with Noir generally being degrading + objectifying (telling him stuff like how he's "much better like this", having a go at him like "do you even know how to do that?", groping him). It tends to end with actual penetrative sex, where Noir is meant to force Blanc into the situation by saying it's his "duty as a woman", then they tend to just have vanilla but very rough sex - usually with Blanc facing Noir, so that Noir can sign things about how he's going to impregnate him, and make him into a mother "like he's meant to be"
Noir doesn't get why Blanc wants this to happen if he identifies as a man, and he was definitely incredibly worried the first few times, because⊠goodness why would he do that :( he's too sweetiepie for this roleplay. He's also not very good at being dominant, so it took him a bit to get into the flow of being so, and then a little longer to get into that abusive husband role. He checks up on Blanc a lot, both during and after - and for the first few times he was "overly concerned"; every wince was met with a check-up, even if Blanc continuously reassured him that that was what he wanted to happen. During aftercare, Noir ensures that he hasn't injured Blanc anywhere, and tends to cuddle with him very gently as he compliments everything that happened before the sex; the cleaning he did, the cooking he made, how he looked lovely in the dress he was wearing...
Due to the fact that this roleplay, and the forcefem kink in general, puts Blanc into a submissive position - it would take quite some time before he actually opened up to Noir about it. Not necessarily because he felt embarrassed or ashamed by the fantasy, but because he would be afraid of losing control over Noir by giving it up to him temporarily. Blanc feels a need to keep control over everything that happens in regards to Noir, so that he will never want to leave him - therefore, it's more likely that these roleplays would happen only in the third ending of their plot, where Noir submits to Blanc's wants and drops his murder cases to settle down with him. This would mean that Blanc already has an incredibly strong show of devotion and submission from Noir, and it would be significantly less likely for him to leave if allowed to be dominant. Prior to this ending, and in the other two endings, Blanc would still hint toward this fantasy, but Noir would never truly catch on to what Blanc wants from these implications alone.
Blanc also, despite preferring to dominate and control Noir, would never want to forcefully feminise him, inside or outside of the bedroom. He finds Noir's masculinity to be highly attractive, and would therefore prefer to amplify that, not take it away.
The thing is that sex scenes actually are incredible ways to explore character. People are at their most vulnerable during sex! The way they have sex says a lot of very interesting things about their desires, obviously, but also their psychology, their vulnerabilities, their hopes and fears, etc. It is completely insane to me to think that sex scenes have no value other than to sexually excite the audience. And even if their only value is to sexual excite the audience - SO WHAT?? A movie is supposed to excite and entertain you! Grow up!!!
always such a struggle when you get to the sex scene part of the fic you're writing and you're not horny at all. i don't know. their things were touching. without ANY underwear. the end.
I feel like a lot of conversations about the porn industry and how it abuses trans people generally neglects to mention trans men, which isnât surprising but itâs disappointing nonetheless.
I feel like itâs worth talking about how the vast majority of transmasc porn is detrans kink and how trans men are forced to market themselves as âfakeboisâ or âpussyboysâ and do mostly detrans kink content. Please include trans men in these conversations.
Despite the fact that Tumblr told me *all* my posts were automatically marked as 'For Everyone' instead of 'Mature' when they rolled out their age verification, I found out that a lot of my content was still marked as mature due to sexual themes?
Assuming that this is due to the fact I intentionally marked them that way prior to age verification, and not due to Tumblr doing that itself, I've gone into every post and edited them to no longer be marked as mature. I want my posts to actually be accessible to adults who don't want to give their face or ID away to a company that doesn't need either of those, especially as it actually makes my own posts harder to access *for me*, as I refuse to do either of those things myself.
So, TLDR, you should all be able to view all of my posts now, as none of them should be marked as mature.
In an attempt to make my account more accessible for those using screen readers, I've begun adding alt text to all the images in my posts... though it's going to take me a long time to get around to all of them, especially as I am inexperienced in writing these kinds of descriptions. If you think there is any way that I can improve the alt text on any post you can see with it, feel free to let me know.
I've also done this on this account! The only difference is that there's so few posts on this account, that I've been able to complete it already, lmao. Every image on this account's posts should now have alt text!
Scrolling through the forcefem tags and wishing I could just enjoy the kink without seeing people arguing about whether or not it's valid for people who identity as masculine / outside the binary to be into it because "this is a trans girl thing"
I'm genuinely so glad that forcefem has helped so many transgender women discover and affirm their identities, as well as find an accepting and understanding community of people who have had similar / the same experiences as them. I never thought about how forcefem could be beneficial in that way, so it was beautiful to see so many people trans women talk about how it was helpful for them
... but that doesn't mean cis men, trans men, and people outside the gender binary can't also be into forcefem...? Especially in a world where ofab people who identify as masc / enby are put under the lens as confused girls who *obviously* just need to be taught how great it is to be a woman through degrading sex! I wonder why the group of people being called things like CUNTBOYS might be into forcefem
Anyway. Forcefem and forcemasc enjoyers I love you
EDIT: Late addition. Being into forcefem doesn't inherently make you a misogynist either. You can understand that femininity is not inherently degrading and that that idea should be abolished, while also using that idea for your own sexual pleasure because it's a fantasy that doesn't directly harm anyone. Before that dumb idea gets thrown into the mix too.
