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Angel/demon/monster stuff all tagged accordingly

This blog is me tangling with the weirder parts of myself as well as stuff I don't dare to put on main. If you are in good faith and not trying to immediately get my personal contacts/share sketchy links ect, you can hit me up for chatting, I like making friends. Don't take it personal if my texting patterns are inconsistent I apologize <3 /gen

My likes and dislikes (not complete but helpful)

About me

#Pinned post #Puh posting

forkastoctopus

hey best friend let me see those molars

#Art

forkastoctopus

fingers in his mouth friday

#Art #Hello..

sherlockboylove

every time a transmasc shoves himself back in the closet because he thinks transmasculinity is less beautiful, less feminist, less everything this world needs, than being a cis woman who hates herself 10 million angels explode

#Posts about me

naga-noia

as a person under the agender/nonbinary umbrella I actually think the recently increased focus on a nonbinary person’s agab is insanely fucking uncomfortable and blatantly exorsexist. Stop trying to sort NB people into boxes of amab vs afab, transfem vs transmasc, tma vs tme, etc etc. It is not praxis or activism to keep attempting to binarize people whose entire identities are built around the fact that they DO NOT ADHERE to a binary. You are just being a fucking tar pit #sorry

supermariosunshine2002

tma and tme are to describe one's relationship to transmisogyny. it's similar to describing a relationship to anti-blackness by "creating a binary" of black and non-black (which includes white people, latino people, asian people, etc). tme includes anyone who is not transfeminized (such as cis men, cis women, trans men, etc). just because there are two categories of something doesn't mean you're getting forced into a gender binary. ignoring your relationship to transmisogyny by refusing to understand what tme/tma means is exactly the same as ignoring your relationship to anti-blackness by saying "i dont see color", because sure, you can ignore that there's a structural & systemic issue regarding a specific demographic, but it doesn't mean its not there!

naga-noia

nigga did your white ass really just come onto a black person’s post to try and lecture them about not knowing their own relationship to antiblackness

number one check yourself. Number two comparing TMA/TME to anti-Blackness is a false dichotomy and I need white queer people to stop trying to compare themselves to Black people every single chance they get. oh my god

The two are NOT similar. If you really wanna play the game of equating race and gender, then the equivalent to “Black and nonblack” would be transfem/trans woman and non-transfem/trans woman, not TMA/TME. I can assure you that NO black person is going around saying “antiblack racism affected vs antiblack racism exempt.” Because That Is Stupid.

EVERYONE is affected by antiblackness, because of how deeply it’s ingrained into our entire societal structure. You cannot write off specific demographics as not being affected by certain forms of oppression or discrimination, because the nature of living in a white supremacist-capitalist-patriarchy is that ALL of these systems are INTRINSICALLY connected with each other, and affect EVERYONE to some degree. There are countless historical examples of antiblack legislation directly impacting poor communities of other racial groups- including white people. There are primary targets of discrimination, obviously, but nobody is truly “exempt” from any sort of oppressive system unless they are at the VERY top of the damn food chain.

In the same vein, the intersection of transphobia and misogyny is ALSO deeply ingrained into our society. And because of that, nobody is truly “transmisogyny-exempt.” Even people who aren’t the primary targets are still directly impacted and negatively affected by transmisogynistic systems. I find TMA/TME to be useless in terms of categorization because it directly posits that everyone who gets sorted into the latter group just doesn’t experience any oppression or discrimination derived from transmisogynistic bases at all, which is ridiculous, because that happens All the time.

A trans man or enby who’s mistaken for a trans woman and is assaulted for it, a cis man who’s belittled and attacked on the basis of being Too Feminine, a cis woman who’s publicly shamed, derided, and transvestigated for having testosterone levels that are “too high,” are all examples of non-transfem/trans woman groups being negatively affected on the basis of transmisogyny.

Poor white people being affected by legislation meant to target and attack Black populations and the massive trend of colorism throughout Asian communities are examples of nonblack groups being negatively affected on the basis of antiblackness.

You cannot sort people by what oppression they do and do not face, and attempts to do so are inherently exclusionary and are bound to lead back into denying people of their lived experiences, just because they line up perfectly into these specific categories of “this genre of person goes through this” vs “this genre of person doesn’t go through that.”

I believe that TMA/TME was coined with the best intentions, but the problem is that it’s a clumsy dichotomy and the way a lot of people tend to use it ends up leading back into the same issues of being binary (“amab trans people experience this, afab trans people don’t experience that”) and then THAT leads back into a whole heaping mess in and of itself

Talking about the way transfeminized people are targeted by transmisogyny is not a bad thing in and of itself! But like, you can just say transfem/non-transfem- or even just transfeminized to describe that oppressors will often place people into in order to enact transmisogynistic violence against them- instead of directly trying to state what different groups of people Do And Don’t Experience. you can say “primary targets of transmisogyny” without directly implying that certain groups are exempt from it all together.

THAT is my issue at hand when it comes to TMA/TME. It is an awkward framework to describe oppression, because oppression doesn’t work like that in reality

scunthorpem181

I don't know why there's this perception of narcissism within the npd community is a negative, hateful experience.

Narcissists love just as deeply and truly.

The narcissist you're friends with doesn't secretly dislike you.

The narcissist you're dating isn't just using you.

Narcissists can enjoy your company without it having anything to do with supply or ego.

I think implying that narcissists always have ulterior, sinister motives on posts in this tag is regressive and shitty. I get that it's edgy and cool for your blog but most people with legitimate, diagnosed NPD do not want to be generalized like that.

I'm not denying the potential for abusive tendencies and unhealthy attachments (look at my pinned post, I know all about that, believe me) but reducing narcissism down to "we hate you and just want to use you" is not good.

#Awesome fucking post yes #Like there's this tendency to moralize the concept of love in general. You're evil so you can't love #When like. No. We can. Love can still create abuse #But we do in fact love and care. Sometimes way too fucking much which causes problems in the first place #Our feelings are just as genuine as yours even if we don't feel all the same ones

wik-ships

clingy f/o who cuddles your clothes when you're gone, breathing in your scent.

clingy f/o who leaves you with a few dozen texts every morning, wanting to know how you are.

clingy f/o who steals glances and touches from you whenever they can.

clingy f/o who doesn't want to seem needy but can't help seeking attention at all times.

dividers by suupersonic and @whor3ing!!

wik-ships

don't cry!! think about laying down with your head on your f/o's lap, their fingers stroking your hair. they're trying their hardest to be gentle, slowly running their fingers along your hairline.

if they're usually warm and bubbly then they might be cooing over you with a soft smile, trying to make you laugh, tapping you on the nose with an infectious grin.

if they're usually quiet and calm then they take a softer approach, humming as they run their fingers over your temples, massaging your scalp and trying to soothe you.

either way they're tender with you, trying their best to keep you grounded and comfortable because they love you 🩷

dividers by suupersonic and @whor3ing!!

#Kind text #Self ship

apollosfallen

I wish we'd stop taking our own insecurities and acting as if they're fucking gospel for everyone.

Trans men and trans mascs don't have "afab" privilege. You covet femininity to the point that someone rejecting it is irrational to you. And, not all trans men or mascs are afab.

Trans men can't have cis male privilege- even when stealth- because privilege cannot be contingent on hiding an identity. You just want an easier target because you feel the need to take your anger out on men.

Transandrophobia isn't reactionary to, or excluding, transmisogyny. Not everything had to be about you. And hey, if you want to be included, transandrophobia- just like transmisogyny- can affect everyone. It's not about the identity of the victim, it's about the nature of the transgressions against the victim.

it's not noble or praxis to be a misandrist. Other people finding comfort in masculinity doesn't make it evil, no matter how uncomfortable you are with it.

A trans person isn't faking it because they like to dress a certain way, or don't change their name, or have sex using the genitalia they were born with, or whatever. Your dysphoria or discomfort does not determine reality.

tme/tma isn't progressive. You have a victim complex and want to wear it like a badge, at the expense of other marginalized groups.

It is not "cultural appropriation" to use "Egg", Blahaj, t4t, etc. for trans men, trans mascs, and non binary people. Other people get to have things, and gatekeeping isn't cute.

Not Everything Is About You.

Feel free to add more.

zhenya-grey

Misusing "cultural appropriation" isn't cute either, btw. You're applying what is literally an ethnicity issue to random things you decided to make a trend. That's right, it's literally a trend. It's not "trans woman culture". It's stuff you have weirdly decided is stuff you do based on your gender when your little trend has nothing to do with that either. Nothing is gendered, thought we understood that.

As a poc trans woman, I'm asking y'all to stop.

transhuman-priestess

Prev I’m dragging your tags out of the tags

sitervlitoy

what a catch

#Art #Gore

What if I'm just a sexual predator that hurts everyone and that's why they keep leaving me and that's why it hurts so bad and I get so scared

I NEED TO KILL MYSELF I NEED TO BE KILLED.!!!!! THEY SHOULD JUST STOP DOING ANYTHING THAT MAKES ME HAPPY AND STOP GIVING ME THINGS I WANT I DON'T FUCKING DESERVE THIS I DESERVE TO BE SKINNED ALIVE

mangled-almond

trans men and/or transmascs, dont feel discouraged by everything that's happening. keep speaking out about your oppression and struggles. you're valid and loved, i promise.

anyone who isn't a trans man and/or transmasc, please listen to the struggles of trans men and/or transmascs and speak out with them. it's important.

super-bah

we hope you're having a nice day, and we're hoping we could request a vigilante of super mario? if you don't mind. all we know is that he is a protector. thank you so much.

『Mario』

Names ─ Mario, Jose, Antonio, Miguel, Marco, Oscar, Marius, Marcello, Marzio, Tina, Mercutio, Mars,

Pronouns ─ he/him, star/stars, chew/chews, bri/bright, hope/hopes, gli/glitter, spa/sparkles, stel/stellar, sun/suns, cloud/clouds,

Genders ─ male, sparklegender, sprinklegender, sprinkleic, lightmythic, angelstar, hypergender,

Age ─ mid-30s

Species ─ mario

Source ─ super mario

Roles ─ fictive, optimist, mechanic, protector,

Colours ─ #1C29C1 , #EED196 , #DD2210 , #991A25 , #291511

Aesthetics ─

Outfit Inspo ─

Likes ─ fixing things, his friends/family, being active, silent vibing time,

Dislikes ─ harm coming to his loved ones, being alone, people being afraid of him,

Hobbies ─ hiking/jogging, fixing things, swimming,

Habits/Fidgets ─ plays with hat, runs fingers through hair, messes with lips, talks with hands

Personality Traits ─ empathetic, kind, practical, problem-solver, protective, determined, affectionate

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hope this is alr! sorry it took so long pensive

#Yay Mario beloved..#Plural

handlerschis

For all the hounds with a guilt lever.

I understand, I do. You've been doing your best to live your life in the way they expect you to. But I don't. I know what you are.

They expect so much and when you fail to deliver it's only natural to question whether you deserve the rewards at the end. Whether you deserve to feel good about yourself. It can stop thinking that now.

Listen to My voice.

You are a hound, you do not need to adhere to the standards of people. And you should not be punished for this. You're doing so good, wherever you are in the process, I want you to know that I'm proud of you.

And good hounds get rewards, don't they? Good hounds get treated by their Handler. Handler wouldn't give anything unless it was deserved, would They?

You don't need to answer that, hound. You just need to repeat after Me.

It deserves nice things.

Whenever it feels low, when the burdens of society hang heavy on its heart. With its own voice, I want it to say:

It deserves nice things

It knows this, it wants it. And it deserves it.

It. Deserves. Nice. Things.

When it is asked what it deserves, it will smile to itself because it knows what it deserves.

It deserves nice things.

Now hound, tell Me;

What does it deserve?