Please help me while I'm at risk of unemployment and currently dealing with a severe back injury due to chronic disability. Thanks. ($150/$500)
Hiiiiii my name's Melia, or Mel or Melly for short, welcome to my blog. My pinned will probably be quite long so I'm putting it under a read more.
Please note: I am not ignoring any asks or messages regarding fundraisers, I do see them and try to share them when I can, I just receive too many for me to reply to! I also cannot "adopt" any individual fundraisers at this time.
I am:
White
TME
Polyamorous
Bisexual
A woman (pronouns: she/her, kit/kits, and oar/oars)
FAT BITCH!!!
Engaged to @nico-verde
A Marxist-Leninist
A feminist
A foxgirl in real life, yip yip!~ =^.^=
I enjoy:
Xenoseries; Xenogears, Xenosaga, and Xenoblade. I like alllll of them, admittedly favoring Xenoblade, you will find however that I am in equal parts annoyingly positive and annoyingly negative about one controversial Xenoblade 2, you've been warned.
Touhou Project, especially the games, especially especially fangames.
Undertale and Deltarune.
The Mother series.
The Sims but especially The Sims 2 because Lore.
Vocaloid and related vocal synths.
Pokemon.
Fire Emblem.
Gundam.
Symphogear.
Honestly I enjoy a lot, too much to list, and primarily video games and TV shows.
DNIs are ultimately useless but I do want to establish a couple of boundaries and such before you follow me, just to make some of my stances clear also:
Only close friends may call me Kat.
I support kink and porn's existence, sorry not sorry!
Transmisogynists, TERFs, and SWERFs fuck off forever. My feminism is aligned with transfeminism forever and always.
On that note, "transmisandry" / "transandrophobia" is not real as misandry is not a real axis of oppression that can intersect with transphobia.
RACISTS FUCK OFF FOREVER!!!!!!! BLACK LIVES MATTER!!!
I cannot fucking stand the terms "pro-ship" "anti-ship," and "anti-anti." These terms are annoying as fandom terms and absolutely dogshit and reductive as terms used for media analysis and discussion around kink. Get back to your annual rewatch of Voltron instead of annoying me.
DO NOT SEND ME CALLOUT POSTS! You can DM me if I've unknowingly reblogged from a cryptofash or cryptoterf account, and in general I'd prefer to be sent a DM instead of an ask about these things. If it's an anonymous ask I will not take it much seriously; if you're gonna make bold accusations do it without hiding your face, coward.
I would really prefer that people 20 and older follow me due to the fact I frequently talk about sensitive and/or sexual subject matter. If you're below 20 and/or a minor, you have been warned; choose responsibly whether or not you will follow me.
My kinks don't come up very often, but for full transparency in case these are a dealbreaker for following me, I like hypnosis, somno, BDSM, and piss, among many other things. Don't be shy to ask about what I do and don't like. :3c
My limits are scat, fauxcest to a certain extent (in particular, brother/sister is a HARD limit), ABDL, farts, sucking toes/smelling feet (but not footjobs; I know I know VERY specific sorry aghsgf), feeder to a certain extent, and vore. Again, these are my limits, they are not moral judgments. You do you, it just ain't for me. I've got other limits if you, again, wanna ask.
If you do that misogynistic "I'm just a girl" "girl math" "girl dinner" shit you can fuck off forever, unless you're using "girl dinner" to describe a Girl who is Dinner, I find this funny.
If you act like Asian media is in any way uniquely predatory compared to Western media I will beat your ass.
I believe in and support a FREE PALESTINE. Zionists fuck off forever!
Thanks for taking your time to read all this.
@perfectworx so that I can reblog this for any additions.
ohhhh fuuuuuck it's golden weeeeeeek bro time for me to draw skinny girls from video games and cartoons in very basic bikinis but like they're Gold this time so it's Different fuuuuuck yessss i'm gonna cum
Help out a disabled latina trans woman stay afloat?
Hi everyone, my name is Vi and I'm a trans woman from south america with a disabling neurological condition. I've had extensive nerve damage and years of underemployment has only make it worse to the point where my mobility is heavily compromised and my grip strength is barely nonexistent. Holding on to objects is an ordeal and moving around is extremely difficult.
To make matters worse, the price of groceries gets hiked up ridiculously month to month were i live, sometimes 20% or more, and minimum wage only covers about 1/4th of it, not even taking into account the prices of the medicine me and my mom need, since i struggle with diabetes and she's a cancer patient, and taking even less into account the costs of housing and constant trips to doctor's appointments.
I know things are tough for everyone but please, if you could help us out in any way possible I would be grateful from the bottom of my heart. Thank you for reading so far and I hope you have a good day.
i was debating on adding this to the post but the situation took a turn for the worse and is very complicated now. i was on an accident recently and we need lots of help to cover the expenses of it. anything helps now more than ever
bills are due tomorrow and i've been dealing with the worst of my illness for the past few days, i'm immensely grateful for all the help you've given me and i apologize for having to ask you all again for one last push
People outside Gaza think that the war against us is over, and that we are living in peace and tranquility, but they do not know that the war is still ongoing.
The bombing, death, hunger, and displacement do not stop for a single moment. What has actually stopped is the world's interest, questions, and follow-up. We do not know if they have grown tired of us and become accustomed to our tragedy, or if the media has deceived them and contributed to misleading them!
Be the alternative media, do not forget Gaza, do not get tired of it, and do not stop talking about it, for whoever does not care about the affairs of people is not one of them!!
My friends Mahmoud and Mahrah are siblings from Gaza. I have been friends with Mahrah since early 2025. She introduced me to her brother later that year, and I introduced both of them to my wife. We have a group chat together. My wife (@cannilyuncanny) now hosts their family's fundraiser (vetted by 90-ghost and shared by fairuzfan) and wires transfers of donations directly to Mahrah.
I am texting with Mahmoud right now as I write this, and I want to assure anyone who needs the assurance that @freepaleatine955 is the shared blog of Mahmoud and Mahrah. They previously posted from palestinian95, and before that from mahrahpalestine. Recently, tumblr staff have been aggressively targeting Palestinian blogs and deleting them. Many people are having to recreate blogs and rebuild their networks.
what is it btw with the sims 4 and like, retroactively canonizing that dudes who died actually just faked their deaths because they were gay and it embittered their evil bitch wives????
it's also just soooooo fucking evil in both cases but like, in different ways and it's infuriating.
So first off, Roberto Crinkletop... oh okay so he was unhappy with that Evil Bitch Agnes so faked his death? And that's why Agnes is such an Evil Prudish Bitch now? And ok he's bisexual not strictly gay but like, still...
...this is so much LESS interesting than what TS3 did with Agnes, having it be that her husband died during their honeymoon, and this embittered her towards seeing happy couples living the life she was robbed of. There's an unfinished nursery in her house. It's so deeply tragic, and most importantly adds so much characterization to AGNES HERSELF, making one stop to sympathize with her, recognizing that she's not just some prudish old lady who hates PDA, and is instead traumatized and still depressed about the life she never got to have.
And ohhh boy Skip Broke... god, where do I begin? Genuinely the idea that there were two Skip Brokes for realsies the whole time would've been more interesting. Gotta love that this is also the Deadbeat Gay Dad trope! /s They could've done so MUCH with Brandi and instead they made Skip a Deadbeat Gay Dad it's just... sooooooooo homophobic and misogynistic and makes EA's insistence on The Sims being wholesome and inclusive look fake.
what is it btw with the sims 4 and like, retroactively canonizing that dudes who died actually just faked their deaths because they were gay and it embittered their evil bitch wives????
what is it btw with the sims 4 and like, retroactively canonizing that dudes who died actually just faked their deaths because they were gay and it embittered their evil bitch wives????
what is it btw with the sims 4 and like, retroactively canonizing that dudes who died actually just faked their deaths because they were gay and it embittered their evil bitch wives????
im not joking btw im talking about how it used to be pretty common for communist writers to use she/her to refer to a generic worker/person/etc as a #feminist thing. it's more common to use gender-neutral language now but the problem is people are still constantly assuming that the default person is male, even when non-gendered language is used. she/her at least has the effect on the reader of like, giving them a stern look and saying "remember women exist". anyway i want us to bring this back
and before anyone gets silly, no it's not misgendering people who don't use she/her, unless you believe all the cis male writers who did/do this also believe that Everyone On Earth Is A Woman. it's a political writing choice
regularly have the urge to play sims anf regularly stop myself from doing so everytime i remember how badly it lags. the isms ignore my actions. time doesnt pass correctly. sleep isnt restored correctly. generally weird nbehaviour from various sims. the crashes. i wish i could actuallhy play the game cuz it looks so fun and it is until the first bullshit.
ya like most of this stuff isnât as bad for me because i have a beefy computer but like for how it looks and plays you shouldnât need that and secondarily so many features are just. fully broken. my sim has the âgave birth to a descendent of grimâ trait despite 1. that not being true 2. she had twins and only has the trait once for one of them 3. they were science babies? 4. the kid sim in question doesnât have the âdescendent of deathâ trait. broken game
And yet people still have the audacity to talk shit about The Sims 2's supposed "spaghetti code" even though most if not all of that shit was debunked nearly 4 years ago now.
You also really should not even need a beefy computer for TS4 given that it was made to be more barebones than TS3 for performance, and yet... here we are.
asking for the blue version because you cannot possibly just relate to women once in your life
usually transmisogynistic
even when talking about something like art, and even if not done in an explicitly transmisogynistic manner, self-evidently derivative and i've yet to see somewhere where it didn't become instantly less interesting than the original concept
there is absolutely nothing barring you from engaging with transfem culture as a non-transmisogynized person btw. i read countless books and articles from trans women and transfeminized people, follow multiple comedians, go to events where non-transmisogynized ppl are allowed, etc etc etc. they're neat. and turns out when you don't go around whining about the poor forgotten men nobody has a problem with it
#a lot of this impulse is just because of bullying#like the idea that trans womens art/memes/culture are âcoolâ#and trans mens are lame and cringe#well i hate to say trans men do have culture lol you just find it embarassing#maybe look inward.
maybe there's something to it (tags by @bottom-growth) because there is a certain brand of tboy edgelord who's all about Punk But With Frogs or whatever who, anecdotally, i'd say is overrepresented here. thing is, mainstream culture also finds transfem-associated things "cringe" (just look at how people will talk about puppygirls to name one), they just take whatever they feel like from it all the same and get to be "cool" once they are the ones doing them. the girls just seem better at not giving a shit (generally speaking, of course)
ive heard so many arguments about what the "transmasc version of Celeste" is and boys you can just like Celeste. its a good fucking game. liking Madeline doesnt make you less of a man it just makes you a man who likes a transfem character.
Something I feel is also worth pointing out is that transfems make things for themselves because no one wants to make things for transfems. When they rarely do, it's often loaded with unexamined transmisoginistic bias.
So it's very irksome when you see something made by transfems for transfems and someone is demanding "but what about the boy version :(" instead of just making it. Even more so when it keeps happening over and over.
okay, we managed to get through the âyou can be gay and not have sexâ part, and im feeling charitable and i wanna talk about the âdo crimeâ part
so many responses of âits nice that youâre privileged enough to be able to steal from Target willy nilly!â and thatâs not at all what this is about. like, yeah, shoplifting and loitering and graffiti and breaking the rules is, obviously, part of âdo crimeâ. but theyâre not parts you have to do.
would you help someone get an abortion where it was illegal?
would you help a trans friend get healthcare that had been criminalized?
would you shelter someone fleeing persecution, even if the law said not to?
would you help a gay couple stay together when the state decided their relationship was unlawful?
instead, would you report someone else for breaking the law? will you snitch on your hungry neighbors for stealing food? on your homeless neighbors for sleeping where theyâre able?
would you break laws to protect someone you love? a community you love? yourself?
