My mom and I were talking about this today after hearing about a woman who was molested on a plane who said nothing until she was picked up at the airport by her parents. My mom looked at me and asked what I would do in that situation and I looked her dead in the eye and I told her âit would take me .02 seconds to realize what was going on and yell angrily, and then I would be straight on to bitch slapping him so hard he wouldnât be able to see the punch Iâd throw with the opposite handâ.
She nodded and accepted my salty language like a seasoned sailor.
Iâve had experience with this before, in Prague a group of five girls and I were followed by three men at night. After a while they started yelling at us, the most common being âhow much?â Meaning how much we âcostâ as prostitutes. Seeing as they werenât going to stop, I turned on my heel, faced them (which surprised them), spat at their feet and responded with âYou couldnât afford me.â This prompted the other girls to start yelling back at them as well, starting with our spitfire Czech friend to start slinging curses in Czech as she and the rest of the girls came up beside me. Needless to say the men backed off and pretty much fled. They werenât expecting a fight. It empowered me and encouraged the rest of the girls to yell back too.
Iâve heard that a lot of people donât know what to do in this situation because theyâve been taught all their lives to be polite and non-aggressive. Keep your heads down or whatever.
Keep in mind that studies have shown that rapists look for victims who wonât fight back.
Remember that nobody has the right to touch you without your consent or harass you, and you have all the right to make the biggest fuss about it that you can possibly make.
Get angry. Be in command.
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