Lisa, I'm a BIG fan of yours, and I wanted your advice. I'm 19, in college, and I've begun dating an amazing girl. The problem or challenge is, I should admit that I'm a submissive guy. Very much a little bitch, as you might say, and a cuckold. I'm the kind of guy most girls cheat on. I know that I've never been able to keep a girl satisfied...sexually or otherwise. I don't think I would've been able to admit that prior to reading your blog, but it's true. Anyway, with this girl, sure enough, she was less than impressed with our sex, when we hooked up the first time. She ghosted me, but when we met up next, I was direct and admitted that I suck in bed. That broke the ice. We had an honest talk, and she said that she was actually curious about having a cuckold boyfriend. She identifies as a slut, and enjoys being sexually active and non-monogamous. The thing is, I know I'm just 19, and I've never been in a "cuckold relationship," and neither has she. She's AMAZING, but we're kind of like "the blind leading the blind." I don't want to fuck this up...but I know that I'm very likely to. She's never dated a guy like me, never cuckolded a guy intentionally, and I've never intentionally been a cuckold. So, the odds are high I'll screw this up. I know your husband is a stag, not a cuckold, but you've chatted and role-played with cuckolds, I believe, and you now have two real-life subs. You seem like the perfect person to ask advice from. If, hypothetically, you were unmarried and began dating a little bitch cuckold: 1. What might you hope for or expect of him? 2. What would frustrate or disappoint you? 3. What would you expect from your little bitch cuckold? 4. What would excite you most about having a little bitch cuckold as your boyfriend/partner? 5. What should I prepare myself for? 6. What should I avoid doing, or be sure to do? 7. What should I anticipate? (for example, I don't imagine I can be prudish. If she's excited to date a cuckold, she's probably not looking for a prude.) I realize you married your stag husband for a reason, so it might be tough to imagine romantically dating a sub. In my case, I feel VERY lucky to have met a girl I like who WANTS to date a little bitch. I can finally just be me. I feel like this is rare, and an opportunity I really need to cherish for how precious it is. So, I don't want to fuck it up. Anyway, thanks for considering my questions. You're someone I admire SO much. And you're literally THE template for what I look for in a girl/woman these days. 99.999% of girls my age don't hold a candle to you in ANY regard. It's really a privilege to see and read your blog every day.
You say you are worried about screwing this up and you two are blind leading the blind. I'm not sure how you would screw this up unless you started to get jealous and try to change the relationship. You both only need to communicate with each other on what you like and don't like, expectations, and never lie to each other. Then enjoy what gives you two the most pleasure out of this.
I know my answer is going to disappoint you, but if I was unmarried, I doubt seriously I would have started doing all of the things I do now with Mr. C. I also know that I would never date or be married to a little bitch cuckold. I couldn't be. I couldn't be with someone I don't respect, and I would think it's weird to do that. With that being said, I am married, and I do have two real life subs and it is very entertaining for me to have them. I push the envelope with them, and I will test the limits on making them do things. I recently learned they are both great at giving massages and so I will get a four-hand massage and yes, it includes every inch of my body stimulating me to a climax. Sometimes, I will let them mount me and not let them cum until I tell them to do so. I have really gotten lucky with these two subs as they will literally do anything I want. Unfortunately, I can't have them clean my house now since my family is here and they would wonder why two young men wearing next to nothing are cleaning my house, lol.
Anyway, the best thing for you to do is to communicate with your girlfriend and figure out what the expectations are. They can be fluid and change as you go along. I don't understand how a cuckold can be prudish as they usually are too eager to please which is why a lot of them will eat the cum of another guy out of his woman's pussy or mouth. They will usually do anything without expecting any help from her on making him cum. A lot of times they end up just masturbating while other men get to enjoy the fruits of their woman.
I don't think there is any preparation other than you should be prepared for her to like fucking others more than you and letting you know that but of course, that's what turns you on. You should be prepared that she may not always treat you well either because she won't respect you and by your own admission, you have shortcomings when it comes to sex and size with her. Again, things that turn you on. As a cuckold, you are there for her without question and anything she wants, she gets, and you will be enthusiastic about it. That's pretty much the gist of things as I understand it.
Hopefully that is helpful, and it's based on what I know from conversations with cuckolds. Maybe some of them will be happy to add more advice in the comments section of this post.
Sounds like you may have the right girl to explore this with and don't put too much pressure on yourself or try to overdo or overthink things. This is pretty simple. She is interested in dating and fucking others with your knowledge and blessing while you two are in a relationship. She is interested in telling you how lame you are compared to whomever she is getting what she really needs from. You guys will be fine as long as you communicate with each other. Have fun with it and I wish you luck. Please let me know how it goes. 😊😊😊🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘
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