Why are you so bad at being Leo?!

Yona | 1998 | ♐ | she/her

[moniquill]

[dogpuppy]

[nineteenyearoldmeblog]

im fucking crying

[moon111111]

[zal-cryptid]

I think you guys will like Maria's old friends ❤️

[vile-corvid]

Can't wait to see him for 0.5 seconds in the new movie

[essemortalis]

I hope all 8 of the kusuriuri are perverts. Right now we're 2/8, and I count Kun because LOOK at the way he uses his hands bro SOMETHING IS THERE

[kaicantry]

i miss my wife tails /ref

[primsheep]

Pretty ppl..

[pangur-and-grim]

my house is scary at night

[storyweavingspider]

Interpreted this initially not as shelves, but as your cat having erected defensive fortifications

[dawdledproof]

quick king kiva sketch for a friend

[catchymemes]

[urie]

fucking the text man for texts one of society's most influential works

[urie]

just a work of pure art

[angel-derangement]

“we live in an uncaring universe” yeah dude and I live in an uncaring house. and I shit in an uncaring toilet. but do you touch an uncaring lover? do you comfort an uncaring child? do you guide to sleep each night a cold and uncaring self?

[angel-derangement]

please hurry up in reblogging this I wanna jorts it before someone puts it in one of those heartwarming tiktok slideshows

[ablubluh]

i was like 'what could jorts it possibly mean' but as with many things clicking the original post immediately clarified the situation

[serpent-corse]

God forbid I make normal fanart

[cosmicanger]

18 east x earth studies (2024)

[epicsause-official]

i think we are long overdue for a game that does the reverse of 90s first person shooters and actively makes fun of the player for picking the hard difficulty

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

some thoughts about breakups

I think we put too much emphasis on worth when it comes to breakups, like the only reason a relationship ever ends is because one person decided the other wasn’t good enough. It can obviously feel that way regardless of the actual reasons, but there are many reasons that can cause a relationship to just not work anymore.

Sometimes people’s priorities change, or it’s discovered that they never lined up very well in the first place.

Sometimes circumstances, like distance or time availability, make maintaining a relationship too difficult.

Sometimes people realise that they don’t have the emotional resources to handle both the relationship and what’s going on in their life right now (be that work, grief, healing from trauma, dealing with illness or disability, etc.).

Sometimes people’s relationship styles/emotional needs just don’t line up – one person needs a lot of alone time and the other needs a lot of time with a partner, for example.

Sometimes people try very hard to interact in a healthy way, but they trigger each other’s past traumas or have conflicting access needs and find themselves falling into dysfunctional patterns.

Sometimes love is not enough to make a healthy relationship possible. You can care deeply about each other and try to make things work, but discover that a relationship is still not possible. Ending a relationship with someone you love can be very difficult, but sometime’s it’s necessary – it’s not healthy for anyone to ignore their own needs in order to maintain a relationship.

When a good relationship ends, that doesn’t mean it was a failure. It means that it’s over; it doesn’t erase the love that you shared. Whether or not you can transition to a different kind of relationship with them, the person you cared about will still be part of your universe, and the memories you share with them will still be part of who you are. The time that you had together can still be meaningful.

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

One thing I didn’t mention when I made this post, but should have, is that sometimes relationships end because the feelings you or they want to have in a relationship just aren’t there. That doesn’t change your worth or theirs either.

There are so many different factors that cause people to love you, and so many of them are not things you can control. Love isn’t just about who the loved person is, but who the loving person is, and their circumstances.

It’s a complicated chemistry experiment requiring thousands of small ingredents and if that reaction doesn’t happen, it doesn’t mean you don’t have value. It doesn’t mean you can’t be loved. It just means that with this particular person at this particular time, that particular thing didn’t happen. 

Maybe you need different ingredients to get that chemical reaction. And while that can hurt, it’s an opportunity to find ingredients that work better.

It might even be an opportunity to have a different kind of chemical reaction you weren’t looking for with the ingredients you have. Romantic relationships aren’t the only kind of relationship you can have with someone, even if it’s the first kind of relationship you tried with them.