Certified Dork

heya, call me Bo • 19, he/they/it, transmasc/aroace • author/artist • hyperfixations: Wander Over Yonder, Bungou Stray Dogs, To Be Hero X • special interest: Hollow Knight

[the-irreverend]

I'll say it louder for those in the back:

Healing and accountability are not mutually exclusive!

[alleesaur]

the productivity creatures

[pyxehastoomanyinterests]

weather duo beach day!!

[foxes-in-love]

[gregtom]

[k-simplex-deactivated20241001]

Happy Pride

[pillowspace]

Learning that being 19 is a very weird age to be, socially. I am in quite possibly the most specific age group that none of my neighbours are in

[pillowspace]

Young enough that my neighbours call me a kid, old enough that my older neighbour texts me to hang out. Young enough to be invited to a neighbour’s upstairs to play with the kids, old enough to unsurely decline because I didn’t feel that was my space to be in. Young enough to stumble through the grass looking like I’m 12, old enough to know that I’m a vastly different person from when I was 12. I’ve decided that this is an unpleasant age to be

[cihevirch33z]

the big four in my style woooo wOoo

plus dr screwball and black cube of darkness (theyre fun to draw and i also like them okay)

[grymmoires]

[inexplicably-gaining-followers]

This stupid exchange between friends has become a cultural icon.

[the-haiku-bot]

This stupid exchange

between friends has become a

cultural icon.

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[sailermoon]

this is how new yorkers @ mamdani

[sailermoon]

[dailymanners]

Do not ever be rude or condescending to someone who asks "obvious" questions, no matter how obvious or silly you think the question is.

For one, in some cultures asking an obvious question is just a polite way of acknowledging the situation. So for example, if you just put your jacket on and start clocking out, a co-worker asking "oh, you done for the day and heading out now?" doesn't deserve you sneering at them like an idiot, scoffing, and saying "uh duh, just like I do every day at this time" when it's likely they knew the answer, but were just asking as a polite way of acknowledging the situation.

But even if they were genuinely unsure that you're leaving even though it seems obvious to you from context clues, so what? What does being rude and condescending to them achieve? Maybe they couldn't sleep last night so they're really out of it today, maybe they're dissociating, maybe they're about to pass out from low blood sugar, maybe some other employees sometimes put on their jacket and only clock out briefly but come back.

There's all sorts of reasons they could be confused about whether or not you're leaving, but intentionally making them feel bad achieves nothing except, well, making them feel bad. Either way, they're not hurting you or anyone by asking a "stupid" question, so there's no point in being rude about it. If you still want to make them feel bad about themselves for looking "stupid" when they weren't hurting anyone, that is the mindset of bullies and abusers.

[dailymanners]

Thank you everyone who is pointing out in the notes that this is usually an attempt to connect with someone and/or strike up a conversation. Because honestly in my experience 9 times out of 10 when someone asks an "obvious" question that's what they're trying to do. If someone walks into the kitchen and asks "oh are you cooking?" while you're standing over the stove holding a spatula, they probably already know the answer, but they're just trying to start a conversation with you and connect to you.

All the more reason it's sad and hurtful when these attempts are met with sneering and being treated like an idiot.

[sarcasticmothwrites]

There are no stupid questions, only assholes providing snarky non-answers. Because aside from the bid for connection or genuine confusion, sometimes there are REASONS why you might get an obvious question.

“Oh, are you cooking?” asks person who thought you were going out tonight.

“Are you leaving?” asks time-blind person who’s surprised it’s 5:00.

“Are you going to lunch?” asks person who remembers there’s a meeting in 30 minutes.

This is where I make my occasional reminder that Emily Post said the reason for manners is to make others comfortable and foster kind, thoughtful human interactions.

[the-haiku-bot]

“Oh, are you cooking?”

asks person who thought you were

going out tonight.

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[daily-specilfeacher]

Day 79

[kiwipineappleparasol]

Day 1Billion of my classic Blunders.

It killed me Dead when I realized you added Tenna with the Eyes because of this too. He looks so Silly with those things.

Anyways I absolutely love the way you drew these two... Queen's "eyebrow raise" screen calling him Gay Gay Homosexual Gay ... "Don't worry weird little mosquito thing" LMAO. Your Queen just looks so cool in general...Her awesome lineless collar and cool baggy gloves. How you draw Spamton's head & hair shape here is one of my favorites too. And the last one is so expressive even the glasses are warping in his Rage.

(Also these colors... Sooo nice. The sort of green lineart works surprisingly well with them. Big fan.)

[golongbyjoannanewsom]

obsessed w this person in the replies

[teckmonky]

Age gap height gap HP gap status gap, what a ship 🙏🏻🪺💜

[smudgey-budgey]

[kittywir3]

Me: sighh.. lemme take a break(drawing something else) from everything that I've been doing to take a break from everything

Me: sighhh, lemme take a break from the break of the break of the break of the break of the-

Oh you knoww I'm unthreading my Billies nerves by molecules tonighttt

-very sleep deprived wir3 who's sleepy tears are salty enough to blind 5 people

HUMAN!

long time no see, kiddo

Some scrap I forgot to post from a few dahs ago from a meeting I was in. Gross. I peaked today so much higher.

[whitepeopletwitter]

[dogpuppy]

[shencomix]