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mostly use dumblr for appreciating art and socializing

[yubrich]

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Omma let you finish but shimeji simulation is peak

[rockrwuff]

osha!!!

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Fluffy oshawat 🥹

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And also the usual moment

[neurodivergentaf]

it's so wild when your parent changes when you become an adult. my dad is very cordial and non confrontational - he regularly helps me with adult stuff like changing the oil or providing insurance tips. he's always smiling when i call him on video and providing jokes when i complain about college

when i was a kid, i would have to tiptoe around his anger issues often, sometimes running quietly past his work table until he got his own place completely separate from our family, locked away for days. every so often he would start screaming in the car and trying to hit me or my brother for talking too loud while my mom attempted to calm him down as he swerved on the road. and now he, smiling, helps me with car insurance.

like oh, this is just who you are when you have power over someone, and this is who you are when you dont have power over someone. no wonder you can have a normal life, friends, work while scaring the shit out of your kids and wife. i see it now. i see why no one would have believed me. that, i think, is one of the core fears of trauma - seeing the outside of it from the perspective of other adults that brushed you aside, and understanding. of course, that understanding gives the opposite of solace; it just gives you more grief with nowhere for it to go

[porkpotpi]

Methinks that's the basis for generational trauma, when they were children they saw the same nasty side of their parents and decided(couldn't help but?) to act the same way when they were parents. Transference is situational

[tpwrtrmnky]

It's really quite bizarre how much work in trans healthcare bases itself on the idea that a patient who deliberately seeks out the Penis Removal Doctor and says "Yes, Penis Removal Doctor, I am certain that I would like to have my penis removed" might be lying to the Penis Removal Doctor, so that they can have their penis removed without actually wanting that.

What's even more bizarre is that the most common "solution" to this is a months-to-years long hazing ritual that has nothing to do with ensuring the patient knows what they're doing, and if you complain about how ridiculously abnormal this is for any kind of healthcare you summon a legion of "um actually" types who insist you're fighting against basic pre-surgical consultations.

[porkpotpi]

There's no end to the fascist belief that you must suffer and be denied for not being fascist or fascist adjacent

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Wuh... I didn't expect ANYONE should still want to buy/advertise this crap. But on Dumblr!?!?!?! The whole world is spiraling and there are several forces pushing us down.

[kyuubiskeeper]

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I am a big fan of Dorohedoro! And guillotines

[kaijuno]

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It'll be back, it always comes back

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Finally felt like dumping some pics from Sakura con

[s-lycopersicum]

kitten🥺…… by 启用 (@qimeng322)

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New favorite thing

[guldaastan]

they passed the trans bill 2026 in the parliament.

[guldaastan]

An Analysis Of The Transgender Persons Act And The 2026 Amendment Bill

Legislative changes and constitutional protections are crucial in the context of the Transgender Persons Act and the 2026 Amendment Bill. Th

you should read this btw.

[bpdnchill]

The progressive legal system that has grown over the past 10 years, based on self-determination, privacy, and equality, is being attacked directly. The 2026 Amendment Bill deletes names, puts people under strict medical surveillance, and might make the community's most important support networks illegal. The Bharatiya Nyaya Sanhita's obvious omissions make the situation worse, and the state is intentionally pushing away the people it says it is protecting. To protect the Constitution's spirit, the legislature must immediately take back the 2026 Bill, put in place broad horizontal reservations, and change the BNS to make sure that rape laws apply to both men and women. Human dignity cannot be dichotomous. https://www.livelaw.in/articles/legislative-metamorphosis-constitutional-guarantees-transgender-persons-act-527509

[porkpotpi]

They intend to keep taking until they're stopped, and they're waiting for anyone to try. Guns in hand

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A side quest! Genius advertising!

[fairydropart]

Awake, but at what cost? 🫠

[purr-in-ink]

A tiny flower of hope for you 🐈‍⬛🌼

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