Transmasc joy forever

He/Him, nearly thirty, call me Yote. A positivity and maybe some trans politics blog cuz the state of being a trans man online was making me sad.

[positively-manly]

PINNED POAST

Hi ^^ WHAT THIS BLOG IS FOR:

For reposting and making positive trans masculinity focused posts to try and spread positivity, because personally I have felt terrible being a trans man online lately and i want to make a safe space to feel not as terrible!!! There may also be other general trans or queer positive posts on here, in fact i can guarantee there will be!

SOME INFO:

I dont really make DNI's i just block freely, but general rule of thumbs are:

I'm not comfortable with people who use words like "theyfab" and "TMRA" and argue against trans people talking about their own individual oppression, i will block you for that! Same as doing any seperationist shit in general, If you don't love and protect ALL trans people of ALL varieties I will block you!!!! Love your trans sisters, brothers and siblings!!!!

I mean bigotry in general will get you a block no duh but y'know. Seemed worth saying. Also queer discourse is right out! Everyone is entitled to whatever identity they feel comfortable in, whatever flag they feel right with and whatever pronouns make them feel like them! If you're against that you're also gonna get the ol' block button!

THERE MAY BE DISCUSSIONS THAT ARE INAPPROPRIATE FOR MINORS, SUCH AS TOPICS SURROUNDING SEX; I would prefer to keep my following to adults only please just alleviate this being a future problem ^^

MORE INFO:

I'm not an outlet for venting to!! This is a positivy blog for a reason, I can't cope with more than i already am OTL

I don't do callout posts nor harrassement campaigns, do not try to get me to partake in them nor discourse in general; If you have a problem with someone please block them yourself.

I don't repost fundraisers unless they are from people i personally know and trust, sorry; I do charity work as and when i can off my own back but this means i am already at capacity when it comes to how much i have to give, please do not send me fundraisers.

I am not really a fandom-y guy, I'm not interested in discussions around headcanons or fandom stuff, pleeeeeeeeeeeeeease do not bring fandom discourse to my door.

I'm not from America!! I'm from England, sorry if i can't help with American specific things!

Also on that note I'm not really an advice blog sorry, I've not transitioned physically nor started the steps to do that and am not in a position to give good advice on it other than stuff I've learned second hand; I hope one day i can help more though!!

TAG SYSTEM:

I tag my original posts with #MANLY YOTE YAPS

I'll try to tag content warnings for mentions of transphobia or other such things if they should come up ^^

[isuggestforcemasc]

I will continue posting in favour of there being fewer people like that

[godfrey-the-chaos-duck]

god my heart is fucking breaking for all these people THERE IS STILL TIME DO YOU HEAR ME

IT ISN'T TOO LATE AS LONG AS YOU'RE ALIVE

[boyslit]

hi everybody i started HRT at 35 so like don't even despair

being in ur twenties makes u feel like 30 is a brick wall u either fly over or crash into but i promise u it's a door and it opens up into the rest of ur life like getting past the prologue of an open world game

[boyslit]

very important addition from @thatsladyfaggottoyou ty <3

[doberbutts]

I started HRT at approximately 30 and top surgery at 32 just 4.5 months prior to this photo. It's never too late.

[esoanem]

[asterosian]

It is a WONDERFUL thing to be a trans man, always!

[esynk]

i love men and i love loving men and i hope every man and boy and guy who sees this post has a great day!!!

[professionalbitch]

YOU DON'T NEED TO BE A SKINNY WHITE TWINK TO BE ATTRACTIVE AS A TRANS GUY. BE FAT. BE CHUBBY. HAVE SCARS AND STRETCH MARKS AND SPOTS AND CYSTS AND DRY SKIN AND DANDRUFF AND ECZEMA. HAVE MOHAWKS AND LOCS AND AFROS AND CURLS AND PIN-STRAIGHT HAIR. BE A POC. GET DARKER IN THE SUMMER. WEAR FEMININE CLOTHES, WEAR MASCULINE CLOTHES, WEAR A MIX OF EVERYTHING. GET SURGERIES, DON'T GET SURGERIES, GET HORMONES, DON'T GET HORMONES, MEDICALLY TRANSITION OR CHOOSE NOT TO OR CHOOSE TO ONLY DO CERTAIN PARTS OF IT BUT NOT OTHERS. USE WHATEVER PRONOUNS YOU WANT. HE, SHE, THEY, XEY, ZIR, OTHER NEOPRONOUNS, WHO CARES! BE WHOEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT TO BE, HOWEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT TO DO SO, BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT TRANSITIONING IS SUPPOSED TO BE. DO NOT LET YOURSELF BE CONTAINED IN ANOTHER MOULD RIGHT AFTER YOU JUST BROKE OUT OF THE LAST ONE.

#And please STOP trying to contain your trans siblings

#we should never be enforcing imaginary rules on each other

#part of community is helping each other stand tall

#SO STAND TALL

[positively-manly]

Hey real quick i wanna shout out snd say happy pride to the straight trans men and transmascs! I see yall struggling to feel like places have space for you and accept you as if your straightness is some sort of dealbreaker when it comes to inclusion and that makes me sad!! So just know people who exclude you or make you feel bad for being straight? Not worth your time!!!!

You have ALWAYS through history had a place in the trans community and overall queer community, the right people, those who care and who are kind, they love you- the internet is a terrible megaphone for the worst most annoying and pedantic exclusionists, i'm sorry you have to put up with their reductive, binaristic and discriminatory opinions! If romantic relationships is something you strive for i hope you meet the girl of your dreams someday soon- several even!! And i will always stand by your side, solidarity and love forever <3

And if people give you shit i will use all my faggy strenght to explode them 💥💥💥💥💥

[asterosian]

The world needs more trans men living their best lives to the fullest 🏳️‍⚧️

And it needs them more than it needs sad “girls” pretending to be someone they’re not to make everyone else happy

[yourlocalbadgerscales]

happy pride month to all my transmasc brothers and siblings out there. remember, now is a good time to practice not making yourself any smaller than you are if that's what you usually do. you're allowed to take up space and raise your voice, it doesn't make you a threat to anyone... choosing silence, however, won't do you any good in the long run. so here's me telling you that i believe in you and your ability to be unapologetically and unashamedly yourself this and all pride months to come! i wish y'all all the best. happy pride <3

[werewolf-wizard]

Don’t listen to the fearmongering!! Testosterone is beautiful! Testosterone is great! It gives you a beard isn’t that so cool! And you get a deeper voice! If you work out regularly you can get really nice muscles!

I love people taking testosterone!!

If you’re scared to take testosterone because you’ve heard people say it makes you angrier, ugly, that testosterone is a dangerous hormone. Don’t listen to them. They just don’t want people taking T.

Let this be your sign to be who you want to be, go on hormones if you want to.

[tboy-cock]

happy pride to trans men btw🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

[asterosian]

It is a WONDERFUL thing to be a trans man, always!

[transmascposi]

this is for all the gay trans men: there are gay/bi/pan/queer men who will be attracted to you. there are probably queer men who are attracted to you right now. i know the gay community might feel hostile towards us, but there are those who will see you as a real man and find you attractive. trans AND cis. and those who are kind of in between. you are wonderful, you are beautiful, you are attractive and you're infinitely worthy of love. don't give up on yourself.

[fagpunkqueer]

i love you bears i love you butches i love you trans men i love you transmascs i love you drag kings i love you masc queers of all persuasions the world is so much better and brighter for the existence of queer masculinity

[this-is-trans-joy]

Innocent women are taking T and turning into fat, hairy men? omg do you promise?? 🥺🥺

[lycandrophile]

if you’re young and transmasc and the people in your life haven’t been great about the whole thing and you’re starting to feel like it might be easier to just give up and pretend to be the person they want you to be, i need you to hold on. because the thing is, one second you’re 16 and a future where you get to make decisions about your own body and life feels so impossibly far away and you can’t imagine living like this for that long, but then you blink and it’s been six years and you’re in your car with the music blasting and your voice is lower than the guy in the song’s and your hair is long for the first time in a decade because you’re finally confident enough to grow it out again on your own terms and your chest hasn’t been weighed down in months and it’s the freest you’ve ever felt in your life and i promise it will be worth the wait. don’t give up on yourself.

[get-more-transmasc]

Happy pride month to all trans men & mascs!

[Plain text: Happy pride month to all trans men and mascs! /end PT]

Happy pride month to gay trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to lesbian trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, and omnisexual trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to straight trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to aromantic, asexual, and aspec trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to loveless trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to intersex trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to trans men & mascs who are also transfem.

Happy pride month to disabled trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to neurodivergent trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to plural trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to black trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to asian trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to latino trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to indigenous trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to religious trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to muslim trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to jewish trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to pagan trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to atheist & agnostic trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to fat trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to gender-nonconforming trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to feminine trans men & mascs.

Happy pride month to trans men & mascs who use neopronouns.

Happy pride month to any trans men & mascs I didn't mention here.

Thanks for being here, stay proud, keep going!

[Plain text: Thanks for being here, stay proud, keep going! /end PT]

[positively-manly]

This is maybe very specific for a very american centric site but MY RURAL UK BROTHERS!!!!!! MY NORTHERN COUNTRY LADS!!!! MY BLACK COUNTRY BOYS!!!!!!!!!! MY MIDDLE OF NOWHERE NOWT BUT FIELDS MEN!!!!! EY UP LADS HOW WE DOIN TODAY!!!!!!

It can feel lonely being queer and very far from a big ol' gay city but you are loved and you are never alone! We may be spread far apart, we may have to be quieter than thise who live in queerer spaces, but us trans lads are OUT HERE!!!!!! And we can thrive just as well!! I hope you meet more people like you soon, but never forget you never know how many you've passed already in your life because we are EVERYWHERE AND ANYWHERE: you're not as alone as it feels sometimes! AND YER LOVED!!!!