[prettyboy-chewtoy]

[Ever-updating pinned post]

main kinks:

- sadomasochism

- puppyplay and forcepuppy (forcepuppy my beloved)

- edging + denial

- overstim

- bondage

- cnc

- vampires (not really a kink but just live in my beautiful world for a moment)

I'll occasionally reblog some other kinks but am a lot more picky about them

- intox

- somno

- dumbification

- breeding (very picky about this. I know I'll love pretending once I've got a hysterectomy but for now I don't wanna go anywhere NEAR the concept of pregnancy. Breeding or being bred would be fun but only when it's not actually possible.)

- anal (also very picky about this one but in ways I don't understand.)

Kinks I am not into

- fauxcest

- piss

- scat

- pregnancy

- religious kinks

If you're into those idc if you interact, I might already interact with you for other things you post! Just don't expect them here.

Though I will sometimes reblog posts with kinks I'm not into if I really like other aspects of it

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I'm a vers switch, so there's a good chance anything I reblog I wanna be on either side of (and anything I post too, even if it's written from one perspective or the other) and everything is with prior consent in mind (or strictly fantasy). Stay safe, sane, and consensual!

And, of course, although it should go without saying, minors Do Not Interact, I don't want you here

[sweetheartbf-deactivated2024090]

“sweet boy” okay can i grind on your lap while you grope me however you’d like

[bongbun]

(flirting) haha i’m so pliant and suggestible. malleable, honestly. like so weak willed it’s crazy

[princettie]

wanna get rough housed and pinned down and jerked off and bitten and pulled around and bent over and and and …….

[colbyskennel]

ooo you wanna call me a good boy so badly… you wanna tell me i’m such a pretty puppy and deserve all the treats in the world… you wanna clip my collar around my neck and tell me it fits perfectly before pulling it so tight i can hardly breathe… fuck i’m drooling

[radrush]

[muttmedley]

someone teaching me to suck their dick and starting off gentle but slowly losing composure and eventually just fucking my mouth when???

[sluttystranger-deactivated20260]

making a boy admit how badly he craves being submissive and obedient for me is the hottest thing ever. the way his cheeks flush and his voice gets a little quieter and he starts avoiding eye contact...

[sleepytiggy]

putting your fingers in my mouth turns my brain off

[dykeferatu]

i’m not even that much of a pervert i can just find the eroticism in anything. doesn’t get me bricked up necessarily i just like to appreciate it.

[misscammiedawn]

It took me a long time to get comfortable with partners bratting during play. As someone who is putting herself out there and using all her confidence and bravado to run a scene it felt a little disrespectful to have the other person shut down the momentum of a scene by no-selling.

But I've discovered that bratting comes in different flavors and different kinds of bratting usher in different responses.

A brat could rise to meet the challenge with a fierce tone and make me attitude about the affair. This is when the one running the scene needs to physically or mentally overpower. To make the brat know, not believe-- but know; that they are helpless in this moment and have abandoned their desire to fight back.

But they may take an approach of teasing. When offered a suggestion/command they may approach with an air of Oh, will I? that indicates less of a desire to be shut down and more a desire to escalate. To raise the stakes. To up the ante of a scene. This kind of bratting should be met with teasing in return. A reminder of why this dynamic exists and what this scene is leading to. I find when you say something and their eyes flash or they offer a whimper that's when you have them.

Another approach is that coy and inviting tone. This one carries more of a maaaaaybe... tone that may be seem have the language of rejection but the tone of pure invitation. It's an offer. A request for a roadmap, a desire to know where this is going so the offer can be accepted. It's saying 'I am not going to come to you, why don't you come to me?' and the correct response is to tenderly do so. At least in my experience, meeting coy tones with harsh tones doesn't work out.

Bratting is just another kind of communication in the language of a scene. Learning to listen and engage in kind is the key to a good pacing.

Essentially the tones boil down to Conflict, Teasing and Invitation. Each should be met in kind. The bold harshness of conflict should be shut down firmly. The smirking mischief of teasing should be rewarded with more fun and the invite should be met with promise.

At least this is how it has been in my experience.

[daja-the-hypnokitten]

Bratting is, at its best, a "please escalate" request, and can take a scene lovely places. But only when a partner is ok with that flavor of banter. Not everyone is.

But gosh I love being a brat with a partner who's good with that.

[officialmoosezilla]

Mmmmm, yes, I love this framing so much. It's so consistent with my style of bratting.

I love the conflict for the same reason I love resistance play- I don't want to feel like I'm just playing along, I want to know that I am being overpowered/outsmarted.

I like to call the teasing kind of style "mischievous compliance". Obeying in such a way that makes it clear I'm definitely on board with what's happening and also definitely following the letter of the law rather than the spirit of it, and it's exactly as framed here, to up the ante.

But yeah, bratting is one of my absolute favourite kinds of playfulness, and if I've done it right, I'll be a puddle of submission by the end of it, and I'm super super blessed to have partners who are good with that and have the confidence to approach me in a "do what you want, you'll get got regardless" demeanour.

[knownqueerbaiter]

strapjobs r awesome bc u can lowkey chew it a little if u want

[softdomsworld]

“such a pretty little thing” while I’m putting my fingers in your mouth and stretching you out

[chamxmxle]

pressing a younger man into the mattress, my fingers buried inside him to my knuckles, panting in his ear, "you're so cute, you're so fucking cute, god, keep making those cute fucking sounds for me"

[marsinorbit]

”atta boy” hmgggggg it’s alll over the fucking walls like plaster you might as well spank my ass too fuckkkk

[hardwrench]

weed before boner epic stoner

[hatterbby]

i look so pretty on my knees, drooling around your dick while you praise me btw