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Isn't it actually hilarious how much we try to fit into boxes and structures that are 💯 not necessary? 😭

This third category of my blogging challenge is literally challenging me 😂 While the first prompts were so inspiring to me that I couldn't wait to write about it all, the third category doesn't inspire me at all... And I noticed that these are really only prompts and I just turned them into a challenge 🤷🏼‍♀️

But what if I don't have to be so strict about it? That's not school!! So today I'm not talking about how Pinterest changed my blog traffic (because I don't even post there 😭). I'm reminding us all together that life is not like school and strict parents. We are sooo free. And sometimes it takes a lot of courage to act on it. But I think it'll be worth it 🤔 What about you?

Let's get out of the boxes 🩷

#blog challenge #day 24 #becoming her #that girl #becoming that girl #self love #recovery #healing #productivity #it girl #soft girl #soft girl era #level up

creativepromptsforwriting

I don't need AI to write. I can create fake scenarios in my head perfectly fine myself.

traumasurvivors

Sometimes, the hardest time to convince yourself that an abusive situation really is bad can be when things are temporarily okay.

When you're actively being hurt, you might feel certain that you need to leave. But then the situation calms down. They're nice to you again. Nothing bad is happening right now. And suddenly your brain starts telling you that maybe you exaggerated it. Maybe it wasn't that bad. Maybe leaving would be an overreaction.

The absence of abuse in this particular moment doesn't erase the abuse that happened before it.

The good moments don't balance out the bad ones on some imaginary scale. Being treated well sometimes doesn't cancel out the times you're being harmed.

#this!!!!!

Things I learned from posting online

That people read it 😂🤷🏼‍♀️

When I was about 15 years old, there was a day when I was sooo mad at a girl from school. And I don't know why but I talked about this on my Twitter account 🙈 The next day, it turned out that everyone had seen it 🤦🏼‍♀️

This was definitely not my intention and I didn't mention any names (which lead to everyone thinking it was about them 🤦🏼‍♀️). But when I think about this story now, I may feel a little bit of shame, but tbh I also feel super popular... That happened during a time when I felt very alone and unworthy. And I thought people gossiping about me made it worse. But thinking about it now, people from school didn't even follow me which means they actually made an active attempt to look at my account...??? Thank you for being that interested in my tweets???

The thing is, people look at your stuff. And when you're young you may talk about things online that should maybe not talked about publicly. And it's okay. Because we learn what we want to share publicly and what we want to share only with our friends. And it's okay to try. And it's okay to be scared of attention. And it's okay to want attention 🩷

#blog challenge #day 23 #that girl #becoming that girl #becoming her #self love #recovery #healing #blogging #girlblogging #soft girl #soft girl era #content creation

aranzi-aronzo-wisdom

wetheurban

Sending love to everyone who is just… tired. Life is a lot right now. Whether it’s decision fatigue, anxiety fatigue, information fatigue, career fatigue, social fatigue, financial fatigue, or the exhaustion of getting your life back together, give yourself space and grace. Be still for a bit. You deserve to recharge.

kosmogrl

you can begin again and again and again for the rest of your life

vintagehomecollection

The back of this gazebo is mirrored to screen off a view of the tool shed and a neighbor's house. Having the reflected view of the house and garden as a backdrop fosters a sense of privacy as well as spaciousness.

Meditations on Design: Reinventing Your Home with Style and Simplicity, 2000

princess-in-recovery

So interesting?? 😮 And the house looks so beautiful 😍