Watching Physical 100 for motivation >>> Watching my 600lb Life for motivation

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Watching Physical 100 for motivation >>> Watching my 600lb Life for motivation
You have to let people love you. You have to let people get to know you. You have to let people help you. Being so completely selfless that you try to erase yourself off the face of the planet and never ask for anything and reject everybody's offers of support makes you very hard to love! Unfortunately. Emptying yourself out of everything that makes you, you is not actually what your loved ones want from you, generally. They want to make you happy! They will be so so sad if you don't give them the chance. It's not all selfish. I promise.
The goal isn't to "eat perfectly," it's to eat in a way that regulates inflammation, stabilizes the nervous system, protects emotional digestion, supports steady energy, avoids overstimulation, & keeps the body grounded.
ādo i deserve this?ā āam i good enough for this?ā ādo i want thisā
You wouldn't have to start over so much if you didn't keep giving up so much.
if you kept learning that language from Covid youd be a speaker by now. if you kept that tiktok hobby youd be monetized by now. if you kept with that calorie counting from 2023 youd be kgs down by now. if you kept-
If you started five weeks ago you'd be five weeks better by now.
literally just stop giving up thats it.
Please for the love of fuck eat fiber. I was diagnosed stage 4 colorectal cancer at 43. Forty fucking three! That's two years before the begrudgingly updated recommendation to get screened starting at 45.
And make sure you're getting enough vitamin D. There's recent research linking insufficient vitamin D to colorectal cancer, especially in women. (I'm not sure if they meant only cisgender women. If you are a trans woman or were AFAB please make note as well.)
And in case this turns into a conversation about how no one who eats right needs supplements,
Lab results showed my vitamin D was one third the minimum.
Taking proton pump inhibitors long term (which I was, on doctor's orders) severely curtails your body's ability to absorb nutrients. Studies show that the body only absorbs one third of the vitamin D you ingest if you're on proton pump inhibitors. Interesting, in light of #1.
Being fat, which I am, also reduces the vitamin D in your blood, because vitamin D is fat soluble, so your fat absorbs a lot of it.
So, please eat fiber. Please eat veggies. Please eat probiotic foods and yes, probiotic supplements. Please make sure you're getting enough vitamin D.
And, interesting results from cancer studies, eating watermelon and okra regularly, as in once a week, reduces colorectal cancer risk.
And mushrooms have anticancer benefits. In Japan they use a mushroom extract in conjunction with chemo and it reduces the rate of recurrence.
Oh! And exercise activates the body's repair function. They think that's why exercise is associated with decreased cancer risk. Also a recent medical finding.
Thus ends my rant.
(I recently completed my course of treatment and had my colostomy reversal. I'm still waiting on the all-clear from my doctors but I'm hopeful. It was caught very late so. I'm scared for the future. But I'm still here.)
you know whatās wild is that all these crazy standards we hold ourselves to are things that we donāt even value in another person? like iāve never been likeĀ āwow I love that this friend of mine is too proud to ask for help and never complains about their feelingsā orĀ āmy favorite quality about this friend is that they get straight Aās and never get overwhelmed and has never told me about a problemā or āi love that this friend has never been wrong about anything or slipped up and said something embarrassing once in their lifeā and yet here we are, pushing ourselves past our limits for and beating ourselves up over slipups of things that our friends probably wouldnāt even rank in the top 50 reasons they like us
Actually, you are enough. Even if you donāt work. Or study. Or go out. Or have friends. Or have family. Youāre enough because you exist and your existence is enough to be enough because you are not a product. You are not a sum of output. You are not a task to complete. But because you are something the universe wanted and put here even if youāll never understand why. Somewhere in the cosmos your existence makes a difference, even if itās not the way others existences do.
as a night owl with an aversion to made up rules and hustle culture, i truly hate to admit this but maybe the elders chewed with their daily routine. getting their day started early, drinking coffee or tea, going shopping and running errands before noon, with a little nap as a sweet treat⦠cause now i have time to lollygag without rushing myself and frying my nervous system. is thisā¦slow intentional living? like, life isnāt meant to be rushed? wow
To put it very bluntly.
You will always make a better impact helping people who need it than trying to hurt people you think deserve it.
if ever someone tries to convince you that there is only one path to success just remind yourself that miuccia prada earned a PhD in political science then became a mime then a member of the italian communist party then a womenās rights activist then became one of the worldās most iconic designers then opened an art gallery and is now the ninth richest woman in the world
Ladies make your own money and instantly your self esteem and standards will increase.
I can't put into words the high and immediate self-esteem elevation that comes from knowing that you are financial free, intellectually capacitated through higher education, and building a top-tier reputation. It gives you something that your nervous system can't argue against: proof that your competency and capabilities have real impact in your life and the world around you. Understanding that you have options and agency will make your self-concept evolve much more than any form of affirmations or visualizations will, and as result, everything else begins to fall into place because desperation, inferiority complexes, and other forms of mental roadblocks become automatically lifted.
things to not dwell on:
people who treated you badly
things you canāt change
comparing yourself to others
things to think about more:
baby animals
people who love u unconditionally
good things in your life that make you happy
days and times to look forward to
Don't let a person's weird behavior turn you into a person with weird behavior.
Human relationships are not transactional but they are reciprocal, which I think many of you with your āi donāt owe anyone anythingā shtick are too happy to forget
Transactional: everything has to be exactly 50/50 all the time, pay me back for the Ā£5 sandwich or buy me something worth exactly Ā£5, I refuse to make an effort for you if thereās nothing in it for me
Reciprocal: you were there for me when I needed help, and Iām going to do the same for you, it doesnāt matter if one of us needs more or is capable of less, because the point is not equivalent exchange but mutual care
"As a woman, the only things that you should be preoccupied within your mind is:
1) How can I make more money?
2) How can I eat healthier? How can I be healthier?
3) How can I be more educated?
4) How can I be a better person?
That's it." ~ Kendra Fleming (TikTok)
i recommend telling yourself āthis isnāt an experience i want to keep havingā and stop entertaining things that are really detrimental to your health and donāt benefit you in anyway.
Healing is realizing you deserve better and losing attraction to what disrespected you