Borderline Personality Disorder
Diagnostic Criteria for Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) from the DSM-IV are:
Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in (5).
A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation. This is called "splitting."
Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
Impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self-damaging (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating). Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in (5).
Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures, or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.
Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days).
Chronic feelings of emptiness.
Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms."
Statistics: About 2% of the general population is estimated to have this disorder, and it is much higher among clinical populations with Personality Disorders (30-60%) and among psychiatric inpatients (20%) and psychiatric outpatients (10%).
People with this disorder are very clingy in their relationships with other people and become attached very early (the first or second meeting, even). However, because they are plagued by the irrational fear of rejection and abandonment, they will push people away at any, real or imagined, hint of the other person leaving them or loving them too little. This causes the characteristic instability in relationships.
Causes of this disorder are like that of any mental disorder: Nature via Nurture. When a child has the appropriate heritability and environmental factors, it will cause the disorder.
As always I tried to find the best of sources which gave information directly from the DSM.
http://allpsych.com/disorders/personality/borderline.html
http://bpdresourcecenter.org/DSM-IV.html
http://www.borderlinepersonalitytoday.com/main/dsmiv.htm
http://www.borderlinepersonalitydisorder.com/understading-bpd/a-bpd-brief/