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[puddingpawprints]

READ ME

hi! you can call me peter or pom. this is my kink blog, here’s some quick info about me- i’m 21, a he/him butch lesbian, and happily taken.

minors, ageless blogs, and people i don’t like will be blocked.

kinks and hard limits under cut!

in order of how much i enjoy the following, here i will post about…

~ tickling(my main fetish, though its also fun in a non-sexual way for me!)

~ light petplay

~ intoxication kink

~ edging/orgasm denial

~ bondage

~ light cnc

~ monsterfucking

more may be added in the future!

these are my hard limits…

~ scat + diaperplay(not including piss)

~ ageplay

~ raceplay

~ ddlg

~ feederism

~ detrans + orientation play, especially dykebreaking

~ fauxcest of all kinds

~ rape + hard cnc

more may be added in the future. if you like these things, that’s ok! this is not a dni list, these kinks are just what i’m not participating in.

thank you for reading! you get a cookie 🍪

[cholerascum]

"erm! actually! I'm not comfortable calling people it/its! it just makes me uncomfortable I feel dirty and icky and mean! why not just use they/them? sending love!" doesn't feel good reading once. reading it 12000 times on 4 different posts? fucking explode. leave it/it's users alone. you really don't have to share that someones chosen pronouns makes you uncomfortable. you sound like a transphobe.

[cutecipher]

I hope the samsung workers striking get everything they want especially given they're key to the huge profits samsung is raking in for memory

[kosmogrl]

well let’s see if I care

[kosmogrl]

I DO

[bisexualdimitri]

bear, butch, and genderfluid pompompurin icons for @awsteb!

[halogalopaghost]

My favorite job interview question to ask is "what do you do during downtime?"

If they say things like "cleaning, restocking" etc, that's a green flag. Normal busywork that's unavoidable and reasonable to expect during downtime.

If they say "we don't have down time" that's a yellow flag. That means they want you to look busy all the time, even when there's nothing to do. This will drive me insane as I dust the same shelf for the fourth time in a week

If they say "there's always something to do" but don't SPECIFY, that's a red flag hard stop. They're understaffed on fucking purpose and you are about to have your soul sucked from your body by this company. do not walk, RUN for the exit. Every time I get this answer, I've ended up with the "watch you like a hawk" type manager that annoys the hell outta me.

Also interviewers really like when you ask questions at the end of the interview. It makes them think and engage with the process more, which makes you more memorable in general. My go-tos are 1: how long have you been here? and 2: what's your favorite thing about this job?

[glumshoe]

do not go to Dr. Kenneth Wolf for top surgery

[glumshoe]

I went to him because he was 1.) the cheapest possible option and since I needed crowdfunding that seemed best 2.) within driving distance of my friends who’d be able to host me. I didn’t have any complications and I don’t hate my results, so the fact that he stopped offering free revisions after COVID (including for people who had their surgeries before the pandemic) and ghosts everyone isn’t a huge deal personally. I do have moderate to severe dog-earring right in the middle my chest which limits what clothing I can wear and have inquired about possible revisions with other surgeons (so far no one has been willing to operate on other dr’s work and have told me I’d need to pay the price of a full secondary top surgery). Dr. Wolf famously ghosts all his patients after surgery and has strict weight limits.

HOWEVER I accompanied my friend to their top surgery at the University of Michigan last year that made Dr. Wolf’s entire process seem back alley and sketchy by comparison. My friend had extensive pre- and post-surgical monitoring and extreme sanitary precautions. Dr. Wolf just had me take off my shirt and slapped me on the operation table still wearing my street clothes and then scraped me up and sent me home the moment I regained consciousness. His bedside manner was offputting and uncomfortable. It has been impossible to contact him ever since, even to ask politely why my stitches look so different from his other results. Other people with much worse results have also been ghosted.

[glumshoe]

OH AND ALSO when I asked if he could swap my left and right nipples just for the hell of it he said “yeah sure lol” but apparently you’re not supposed to do that because there is the risk of like, manually metastasizing cancer cells. lol. I did ask for it and I think I am at very low risk for breast cancer but I do think a responsible surgeon should at least know about and warn you of that possibility before agreeing to it.

[glumshoe]

my friends and my ex were great caretakers who made the recovery process easy and kind of fun but knowing what I know now makes the whole experience retroactively a little bit traumatic

[traumasurvivors]

Even if I didn’t have a solid plan, in the back of my head, I always assumed I’d kill myself.

Now I’m an adult and people my age have their lives in order and I’m stuck here, confused, because I never planned to be alive and I’m so far behind.

I feel like I’ll never catch up.

[traumasurvivors]

Hey all.

I want to make an addition to this. I made this post a long time ago.

I’m currently back in university, and I’ve made so much progress with my trauma. I’m in a loving relationship.

Things can and will get better. It’s not too late.

Nothing is perfect by any means. But I’m happy I’m still here and didn’t kill myself. I hope you get to that point, too 💕

[traumasurvivors]

The addition is important! I see the original post circulating a lot, but the addition is important!

[traumasurvivors]

New addition two years later. I’m still going strong!

I’m getting married. I’m still in that loving relationship.

I’ve learned that there’s no real timeline. It’s okay. And while it sucks that I lost time, there’s still so much for me to experience and enjoy.

[traumasurvivors]

Newest addition. 7 years after the original post!

I got married last month! My dog is laying on me snoring. I’ve learned to have healthy friendships and relationships. I’ve learned that I’m not alone and that even when things are hard, I’m going to be okay.

[traumasurvivors]

This showed up in my notes again. And here we are. 2026.

I’ve been married a little over two years. I just got home from friendships that feel like home and family. My husband and I have our own place. I have a full ass book ready to be published.

I don’t know. I’m still in a good place and I can’t believe how far I’ve come from my original post.

[achillesinhighheels]

Pam Grier circa (1973)

[alluralater]

blackmail is an underrated kink

[alluralater]

okay lemme break it down like this. let’s say i see you watching a vid of two girls kissing and now you have to kiss me or i’m telling everyone we know that you watch girls kissing. and then after i kiss you i say you have to take off your top so i can play with your tits or i’ll tell everyone you kissed me. do you see where i’m going with this?? do you see how deliciously fucked up it is??

[alluralater]

like take off your clothes or i’ll tell everyone about your perverted blog on tumblr

[orteil42]

given the current climate this pride especially i feel i must mention that i love my trans friends, i stand with trans people in the fight against transphobic legislation and those who would enforce it, and this blog is not a good place for you to be if you do not vibe with that

[pinkcarabiner]

as difficult as it may be at times, i love being a lesbian. i am so beyond proud to call myself a lesbian. lesbian love, lesbian joy, and lesbian community have been some of the greatest gifts i have ever experienced. to be a lesbian is to be home.

[a-lee-en]

Uhhh, I think someone in radfem/TERF circles just interacted with one of my posts so here’s your reminder this Pride month:

If you don't unapologetically support trans people and your feminism isn't intersectional, get off my blog!

Also, if you forgot, I'm a transmasculine lesbian! Happy Pride! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[Plain text: If you don't unapologetically support trans people and your feminism isn't intersectional, get off my blog!

Also, if you forgot, I'm a transmasculine lesbian! Happy Pride! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️]

[catchymemes]

[yorkshirearthurdent]

They should block chatgpt on uni WiFi the way they used to block coolmathgames

[makingculturepop]

[muchsofter]

ohmygod I could do so much complaining about this kink and it's obsession with paper-thin women being the standard but I shan't!!! I have restraint!!! ignore the teeth marks on the bars of my enclosure those are decorative-