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Quick tag system!
I post all my original posts under the "coffee time" tag
Ask box tag is "chatting over coffee"
I add trigger warnings as "TW _" and if you need anything tagged that I seemingly don't, let me know
I tag blog related things (such as this post) with "pinned post"
I'm gonna try to use "coffees peak moments" for posts that specifically hit it for me
I tag my cats as "my cats" on the rare occasion I post them
I also talk in tags so beware of that I guess?
hi terf. algorithm put you on my dash so i just wanna let you know: every character in steven universe hates you
oh my.
We have a lot of voices on the gender critical side who have done extraordinarily well with bringing attention to how young people with autism and same sex attraction are disproportionately at risk of falling victim to trans medicalization. We rarely hear about how foster kids are disproportionately more likely to identify as trans.
According to the Cass Report, foster kids made up 25 % of gender clinic referrals yet foster kids only make up 0.67% of the general population.
This means foster kids are 37 times more likely to identify as trans than other children.
Foster kids often experience severe trauma, including neglect, abuse, and instability. Trauma can lead to dissociation, identity confusion, and a desire to escape one’s past, which might make some more vulnerable to seeing gender transition as a way to start over.
Foster children run a huge risk of specifically being sexually abused. Either before or after removal from their home. And we know SA alienates people from their bodies.
Talking any sort of feminism on here is exhausting because every time you try to understand why a man acts the way he does, some idiot who only wants to doompost talks about how it's innate to them. You'll be like wow why do guys talk to women this way and someone will reply "men are inherently competitive and want to beat you in conversation" like, friend, I don't think that's true
I know a lot of yall have moral OCD from being autistic and growing up on Tumblr so I just wanna remind you that just because you're a radfem doesn't mean you have to ascribe to some screed of rules. This isn't an ideology or cult the same way genderism is, and I think it is very pertinent for all of us, especially detransitioners, to focus time and energy on dismantling this framework lest we burn ourselves out and just repeat the same toxic cycles on ourselves and eachother.
You don't have to suddenly become vegan and celibate and 4B and all this stuff if that's not something you already were. Live your life girl, be happy. Read and talk to other women, feed your mind and your soul. Don't hold yourself to impossible standards; anyone who is serious about being an activist is in it for the long haul, not just short bursts. Above all things, find peace in yourself, there's no way to help other people if you can't do that. Much love xo
And heres the other thing; we do not all agree on everything and that's healthy as fuck! I intentionally follow women who I think would very much disagree with some of the things I believe. We are fostering a community of learning, literacy, and good-faith conversation here on radblr dot tunglr dot gov.
And one last thing- NEVER forget that the internet was an invention of the US military. Your opps are in the walls lol like..algorithms incentivise us entering into cult-like mentality because it prevents human beings from attaining class consciousness and striking/rebelling. So as much as it is an amazing technology, take a look at the ground yr feet are on and remember that you're above all else a damn human being and you deserve to be treated like one. When we foster environments that allow for questioning and dissidence, we make it safe for learning. It becomes safe to be wrong. Think about how liberating that is? We are blessed actually to have this little corner of the web so let's make it into a garden ❤️
there was a trans march in mexico city days ago where this man, after lifting his skirt and flashing his underwear, yelled "hope your daughter gets raped, b*tch!" at a female cop.
TRAs and their obsession with sending rape threats to anyone that dares to disagree with them... nothing new.
Fascinating how they:
1. Knew which officer was a woman by looking at them (did they just ASSUME the officer’s gender? What if they misgendered the officer? Isn’t misgendering a form of violence?)
2. Used a gendered insult (bitch/perra) against said officer
3. Threatened to rape their daughter specifically
When it comes down to it, they know exactly who is a woman, what gender of slurs to use, and who they should threaten with rape.
TRAs threaten rape like grannies offer cookies and wonder why women don't want them in our spaces
Exhibit 2742
Let them speak for themselves....
(Btw: that woman doesn't even "disagree with them". We do not know. She's just doing her job. She even keeps these male-supremacists safe. But still - her sheer existence as a woman makes her a target for them, for their hate, their narcicissm, their (sexual) colonialism & other "phantasies" of power and dehumanization. Let that sit for a bit.)
"Just doing their job" is not an appropriate descriptor of any cop. While it's true in this instance, it's also pro-cop propaganda. Don't use the catchphrases of the right. We're called conservatives by TRAs enough as is
The TLDR made me laugh out loud JKLSDFLK
i think the reason why liberal homophobia feels so much worse is bc when the right wing homophobes come to protest pride you know exactly where they stand but the liberal homophobes who beat up an elderly gay man and call the police on lesbians are marching in the same parade beside you
Homophobic conservatives are at least honest about their homophobia. Homophobic liberals say stuff like "yay gay rights hashtag love is love" and then in the same breath go condescendingly "did you know it is oppression to not fuck the opposite sex? :)"
Homophobic conservatives tend to at least stay in their own spaces. Homophobic liberals insert themselves into others' hard-won movements and organisations, appropriate themselves a homophobic slur, and then use the voice of these authorities to go condescendingly "did you know penis in the vagina sex is gay? :)"
Getting my conservative religious father to become less homophobic has been relatively easy. Straight up basic exposure to real gay people instead of stereotypes does a lot.
What’s worrying about leftist homophobes is that they already have all that exposure and proper education and they still don’t care.
spoken like a true rapist male 👏👏
What exactly could make things "better for people" while ignoring justice, I can't even imagine it
I hate talking about my detransition I wish I could just pretend the whole thing never happened. I was literally a child when I transitioned it’s a sore memory for me and I want to ignore it. but it’s really hard when everyone constantly wants to tell me I “look like a trans guy” and should “take T” or “wear a binder” LEAVE ME ALONE!!! I shouldn’t have tell you I’ve detransitioned for you to accept that I’m not interested in transitioning???? Why can you not comprehend a woman having short hair and wearing pants
I think rape would help you.
Proof I wasn’t making this shit up ^^^
what's this puppygirl essay that's got everyone worked up on here
I somehow got the wayback article to stop disappearing, so here's the full bonkers article in full. May it never be deleted from the internet.
and part 2...
man taken advantage of by other man, thinks of being taken advantage of as "being feminized" 🧐
How is accepting my sexuality but refusing to date men because men have been nothing but horrific to me and other women for my entire life ‘internalised biophobia’?
that’s not what i said. you can accept your sexuality and refuse to date men without having to call yourself a febfem. “febfem” is a label used to virtue-signal you’re not male-centerd like those other bisexuals.
it is biphobic. full stop. a lot of bisexual women agree on this. you should listen to your fellow bisexuals when we speak about this virtue-signaling and how it does, in fact, hurt us.
i am not a TRA, by the way. i’m a radfem same as you.
What fucking harm is coming to bisexual women because some bisexual women use a label to say they don’t date men?
What a stupid point.
If you want to defend it, come off anon.
This may surprise you, but I actually don’t give a shit about how other people interpret the labels that I use. I am a bisexual woman who doesn’t date men. I am a febfem. If that makes other people uncomfortable because it means I’m signalling that I’m not male-centred or because THEY think I believe that I’m better than them because of it then they can get the fuck over themselves.
i see two anime girls kissing and i feel nothing, this isnt a win for wlw, these things are barely human and they represent women as much as green M&M does
which says something about why autogynephiles relate to them so much
THIIIISSS omg. I really don't get the appeal.
When you look into this topic, you repeatedly see themes of dissociation and disembodiment; fetishizing lesbians, Asian women, and little girls; and paraphilias like autopedophilia. It’s very much a transracial Buffalo Bill situation in which men wish to escape themselves and project onto a fantasized version of the submissive racial-sexual Other. Asian women have discussed white men’s “Yellow Fever” issue for years, and the AGP-anime connection is just one of its more recent variations.
Sources:
Japanese Cartoon Porn Helped Me Understand My Trans Identity by Samantha Riedel
Masculinity, anime, and gender dysphoria by SocialJusticeWizard
The Year When My Husband Started to Act Like a Tsundere Teenage Girl to Get My Attention by Anonymous
Just How Damaging Is Hentai?: A response to "The Year When My Husband Started to Act Like a Tsundere Teenage Girl to Get My Attention." by Katharine Dee
When Sons Become Daughters, Part V: The Links Between Trans Identity, Gifted Minds, Categorical Thinking—And Anime by Angus Fox
Hentai and the Pornification of Childhood by Gail Dines and Mandy Sanchez
White Sexual Imperialism by Sunny Woan
Why Guys Like Asian Girls by Anna Akana
Seeking Refuge in Idiosyncratic Sexual Identities (And Yaoi) by Eliza Mondegreen (yaoi/autoandrophilia)
Some of you sound #divinefeminine when you say that women living longer than men and surviving famine better than men means we are superior
Correct, male socialization is something that happens *to* you, you don't get to choose it. Just like no one chose to be born in the United States, or be born straight or white or rich. You were born into a system that wants you to act in ways that affirm the system, and you must understand it lest you perpetuate it.
If you made this post about any other oppression system on Tumblr it would be shot dead by leftists on sight.
"White privilege is such an evil rhetoric. Yeah I guess being born white and being taught I'm better than Black people at the age of 5 is my fault and I'm evil for it. Yeah I guess having a white childhood I never asked for means I'm a danger and I should perpetually apologize for it." -> immediately recognizable as bullshit racists say
"Straight privilege is such an evil rhetoric. Yeah I guess being straight is my fault and I'm evil for it. Yeah I guess having a straight childhood I never asked for means I'm a danger and I should perpetually apologize for it." -> immediately recognizable as bullshit homophobes say
But stuff like this gets posted and acquires 2k likes.
Male socialization is not even specifically attacking MTFs but they have successfully guilted everyone into being scared to believe in it.
it is so extremely easy to send yourself anon hate filled with slurs and rape threats and claim the nazi TERFs did it. and of course people will believe these males because you must NEVER question a precious male trans woman.
like, is it so hard to believe that a group of people who despise women so much they depict us being hanged irl for saying no to them, wouldn't simply log out of tumblr and send fake anons to their own blog to support their "TERFs are nazis" agenda?
You don't even need to log out to send yourself anons too
