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sycamorality

now i encourage people to play toys and have fun engaging with media. but at some point if all your media engagement is only shipping, and you think everything is shipbait, it starts saying more about you than the source material

smoothbrainstuff

taraxippos

I think this is the single funniest artfight rule. Like....I guess?

taraxippos

WHO DID THIS

papayajuan2019

could really go for 200mg right now. of anything.

probuccalfat

why do so many freaks go right to “there should be exams or tests before you have kids” when the real solution is better social services, robust infant and child development education that is accessible both financially and schedule/distance accommodating, and resources throughout any stage of a child’s life. genuine question like did you think about any social development before going straight to eugenics

rabidbatboy

I would like to invite you to compare the way you treat and think about paraphilias to the way you treat and think about other disorders with me. particularly if you are a member of communities that aren’t as likely to spread stigma surrounding disorders like NPD and ASPD etc like in typical society.

anti paras tend to hold the beliefs of ‘anti para unless anti contact’ in a guilty until proven innocent sense, the conflation of paraphile with predator is so deeply ingrained from decades of social stigma that it provides people with a safety net to acceptably say that we should kill and harm paraphiles.

as someone who has personality disorders, these disorders sometimes compel me or make me desire to harm people. acting upon my desires to hurt people around me would be physically and emotionally traumatic for strangers and even people I care about. why can you rationalise empathy for people like me, when this pertains to BPD, NPD, ASPD, schizophrenia, etc? if someone was to say ‘anti NPD, except anti abuse ones’ why is that unacceptable, but ‘anti para, except anti contact ones’ is acceptable?

do you understand that sexual taboo is affecting the way you treat and think about human beings? do you understand that sex being integrated into the conversation is what’s affecting your mental shift from ‘person with a condition’ to ‘predator’ as soon as the conversation moves to paraphiles? ‘narc abuse’ is a condemned term in these communities for conflating a condition with abuser. but conflate ‘paraphile’ with ‘predator’ and you very wilfully submit to a decades long psyop that has also been historically used to hurt the gay and trans community.

it’s frustrating that I try and keep this blog mogai focussed, but more and more violence and bullying is being incited towards various groups that already suffer from social stigma. you aren’t interested in protecting children if you can’t get over your own internal biases— who is going to protect the children who are paraphiles? who is going to protect the victims who are paraphiles?

consider your own hypocrisy, dont disregard reason and compassion to soothe your personal discomforts

rabidbatboy

I would like to invite you to compare the way you treat and think about paraphilias to the way you treat and think about other disorders with me. particularly if you are a member of communities that aren’t as likely to spread stigma surrounding disorders like NPD and ASPD etc like in typical society.

anti paras tend to hold the beliefs of ‘anti para unless anti contact’ in a guilty until proven innocent sense, the conflation of paraphile with predator is so deeply ingrained from decades of social stigma that it provides people with a safety net to acceptably say that we should kill and harm paraphiles.

as someone who has personality disorders, these disorders sometimes compel me or make me desire to harm people. acting upon my desires to hurt people around me would be physically and emotionally traumatic for strangers and even people I care about. why can you rationalise empathy for people like me, when this pertains to BPD, NPD, ASPD, schizophrenia, etc? if someone was to say ‘anti NPD, except anti abuse ones’ why is that unacceptable, but ‘anti para, except anti contact ones’ is acceptable?

do you understand that sexual taboo is affecting the way you treat and think about human beings? do you understand that sex being integrated into the conversation is what’s affecting your mental shift from ‘person with a condition’ to ‘predator’ as soon as the conversation moves to paraphiles? ‘narc abuse’ is a condemned term in these communities for conflating a condition with abuser. but conflate ‘paraphile’ with ‘predator’ and you very wilfully submit to a decades long psyop that has also been historically used to hurt the gay and trans community.

it’s frustrating that I try and keep this blog mogai focussed, but more and more violence and bullying is being incited towards various groups that already suffer from social stigma. you aren’t interested in protecting children if you can’t get over your own internal biases— who is going to protect the children who are paraphiles? who is going to protect the victims who are paraphiles?

consider your own hypocrisy, dont disregard reason and empathy to soothe your personal discomforts

disseveredfaggot-deactivated202

"Anti NPD except the anti abuse ones" ≠ "anti para except the anti contact ones"

Paraphiles don't always have paraphilic disorders. Paraphilic disorders get diagnosed after a psychiatrist identifies the paraphilia AND the distress caused from it. If there is none, then they don't qualify for the disorder. (Source: Medscape)

On Tumblr, para discourse usually refers to three paraphilias: pedo, necro, and zoophilia. Other paraphilias, such as Transvestic fetishism (arousal from crossdressing), arent usually argued about because acting on those paraphilias wouldn't hurt anyone except maybe the paraphile themselves.

Pro Para means supporting paraphiles, Anti para is the opposite.

That being said, on Tumblr when someone says they're "anti-para minus anti contact" that's a good thing because not everyone who identifies with being a paraphile is acting on good faith. Communities based on NPD don't have a reputation for normalizing abuse, communities based on Paraphilias do (see: radqueer, xenosatanist)

Being "anti NPD except the ones who are anti abuse" doesn't make sense because there's nothing inherently abusive about NPD.

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In other words, sounds like a false equivalence and being wary with people who openly call themselves paraphiles is a good thing and important to making sure you don't let in creeps. Honestly, same thing goes for anyone who openly associates themselves with something negative (I already steer clear of people who openly say they're jackasses)

That being said, I'm willing to bet a good amount of people in the MOGAI community are minors who are pretty isolated (on account if being queer), so discouraging people from being "anti para minus anti contact" isnt something I'd recommended— good intentions aside.

Making sure that pro-contact paraphiles are not welcome is more important than temporary discomfort

rabidbatboy

“That being said, on Tumblr when someone says they're "anti-para minus anti contact" that's a good thing because not everyone who identifies with being a paraphile is acting on good faith.”

I’m pretty sure it’s called prejudice when you base your opinion on a whole varied group of people on the actions of some people within that group. I also don’t consider it a good thing to refer to yourself as ‘anti [group of people]’ in general if that group is not inherently harmful even if you follow that up with a caveat.

“Communities based on NPD don't have a reputation for normalizing abuse, communities based on Paraphilias do (see: radqueer, xenosatanist)”

Radqueer is not a community “based on paraphilias” radqueer is a community (that I believe is flawed and promotes an unsafe environment for minors) that is very supportive of paraphiles and contains a lot of them, because, shockingly, paraphiles who have been constantly demonised online tend to turn to a community that supports them. Don’t you think, granted that many victims and even minors are paraphiles, we should try and prioritise supporting them so that they DON’T have to turn to these communities you speak of that can lead these people to harmful mindsets rather than isolating them by assuming they’ll cause harm by default?

“Being "anti NPD except the ones who are anti abuse" doesn't make sense because there's nothing inherently abusive about NPD.”

And there’s also nothing inherently abusive about being a paraphile or having a paraphilic disorder? These people are not destined to harm people. In fact, many many people who are sexually abusive and offending predators are not in fact paraphiles at all.

“That being said, I'm willing to bet a good amount of people in the MOGAI community are minors who are pretty isolated (on account if being queer), so discouraging people from being "anti para minus anti contact" isnt something I'd recommended— good intentions aside.”

So what about children and vulnerable groups who are paraphiles, have paraphilic attraction? When we talk about protecting children, do we factor in these people who need to be protected from the prejudice of others? Do you think they are safe if they are assumed to be inherently dangerous due to something utterly out of their control? And like I mentioned about, don’t you think that supporting the idea of being ‘anti’ them will push them into harmful communities that do support them no matter what?

The safety of children and victims is fundamentally more important than someone’s hatred of predators. You can be absolutely supportive of paraphiles and still be on top of internet safety and condemning predatory behaviour. These things are not mutually exclusive. I don’t think the dehumanisation of one group of people is necessary for the protection of another. This mindset tends to ignore the fact that things like the death penalty for predators is actually more dangerous for children, it ignores the fact that a lot of sexual abuse stems from a desire to control and not attraction. All these misconceptions limit our ability to protect children and victims. Making sure we don’t dehumanise paraphiles does not.

nociceptrix

finding out you spent most of your life dissociated is a HUGE bummer

nociceptrix

i thought shit didnt stick to me cuz i was slick but its cause i wasnt there #LAME

izhape

klapollo

almost seven years deep into the 2020s this feels less like a retrospective evaluation and more like a prophetic vision

portraitoftheoddity

Seasonal depression?

No.

Seasonal aggression -- if it gets any hotter I'm gonna fuckin cut someone.

I'm not saying my cat is autistic but also bro fits so many criteria

For example she only makes cookies on one specific plushie. Only one. No other

#random clown thoughts

foxpawbz

wear cat ear headbands. go shopping at a pet store. sleep in a dog bed. run on all fours. roll around in the grass. get fang-shaped dental implants. growl and hiss at people. wear a collar. file your nails into claws. get species-affirming tattoos and piercings. eat your food out of a pet bowl. purr when you're happy. be truly yourself, no matter what.

GET MORE NONHUMAN NOW !!!!!!

One could say that fixating on the backrooms as a person who consistently struggles with the unholy trinity of dissociation, depresonalization and derealization is not the smartest idea

But who am I if not really fucking stooopid

Been watching videos on the backrooms for like... a week now every day :D ...this action will have no consequences because my heart is pure

#clown rants #backrooms #dissociation #derealization #depersonalization

Stuck between I WANT A RELATIONSHIP and NO TF I DON'T and it's lowk tearing me apart

Like.. whenever I hear about other ppls relationships I get so jealous but then I think about it and ik I can't keep one anyways... bleh

#clown rants

"whaaaat. how did you know I'd cancel the plans the day before???"

Cuz y'all always do that for some reason???

I had a hangout planned with a diff friend weeks prior and guess what. The DAY OF I'm texting her and she's like "idk I think I'll just go to sleep so..."

And today another friend. Had planned this hangout a while back. And today, the day before, he texts "I don't think I'll be able to come" .......

Are y'all ok??

How's it such a foreign thing to let others know sooner than the day before or day of....

So yes. I unfortunately expected that from you

And then ppl ask me why I don't go out with my friends. I'D LOVE TO 😭😭😭 but these hoes never pull through with any plans... I don't even think I want to make any more irl friends if this is what that means

#clown rants

papayajuan2019

the safest way to split your own head open

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