WEIRD ABNORMAL GAY PERSON @raizeprime - Tumblr Blog

hi, i'm kai/raize/dusk/gloves/various other names and i use mainly he/him but friends/mutuals can use it/its for me. i am also an adult (20+). mutuals can ask for my discord.

my interests shift around a ton in terms of intensity, but my main ones will always be splatoon/coroika, yugioh (mostly gx, zexal and arcv), pokemon, sonic, disgaea, and probably others i'm forgetting about.

i have autism and adhd, so please keep that in mind when interacting with me. i also have memory issues.

i try to tag my posts with at least the fandom and/or subject matter and if you need something tagged, please send me a message or an ask.

i do not have a strict dni, but i block freely. if you are blocked, please do not ask why using an alt account or a friend. this will result in those accounts getting blocked as well.

i will probably edit this post if i need to add something later but i will make a post if i do.

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maemaybe

I don't know who my intended audience is here, so whoever needs to hear this, I am begging you to learn to participate in conversations that are about things you aren't interested in.

Part of socializing and having friends is being a good listener even when you don't actually give a shit about the subject.

Your are hurting other people's feelings when you bluntly respond with "Anyway..." and then change the topic.

It can not always be about your preferred topic.

You are being rude. Yes, even if you are neurodivergent. You can be both autistic and rude.

takemeapartputmebacktogether

Hey! Hi! Howdy!

Autistic mom of two autistic kiddos here. I do something with my kids called playing the good friend game. I have them ask me a question like “what did you do this weekend” and then I respond with something they don’t like ie: “I ate some sushi for dinner on Saturday! It was delicious!” Their job is to not make a gross face and not to yuck my yum. They have to ask me a follow up question! Minimum one about what I liked about the sushi or who I went with or what I ordered etc. and they have to be kind. I change up what I answer with for the initial question and for all follow ups. It’s incredible!

You can learn how to chit chat about things because you care about the people around you. Small talk is banal and boring but the people in your life are real and lovely and nuanced. Get to know them. You can do it. You’ll build relationships that last. Don’t do it for the sake of small talk. Do it because you’re deeply invested in learning how to see the people around you as whole pictures.

To be seen is to be know. And to be known is to be loved. Love the people around you and that love with come back to you.

#queue #this exact thing is why i had to leave my old friend group #i would just be talking about stuff i liked and literally no one would respond #it was so disheartening to see people i considered friends just #ignore me because i wasn't talking about something they were interested in #even if it was just. me saying good morning #i'd get maybe one or two responses if i was LUCKY

kxbo99

THE DISASTEROUS LIFE

#saiki k #queue

considering not tagging things and going full lawless......... much to ponder

#kai time

i know the queue is empty, i got a job so i've been busy.

will try to queue some stuff this weekend

#pokemon #gti #this is gates if i think really hard #queue

poketcg-art

Vaporeon -- kodama

#pokemon #queue

youngerfrankenstein

To put it very bluntly.

You will always make a better impact helping people who need it than trying to hurt people you think deserve it.

#queue

balaclava-trismegistus

It's so cool to make friends in the computer (forgets to respond to everyone forgets to talk to anyone)

#queue

rikitiki-infinity

ganon if nintendo let him be awesome and powerful

#loz #queue

david-goldrock

I find the fact that the closest mountain point on earth to the moon, the highest mountain and the tallest mountain are 3 different mountains to be a tiny bit disturbing

deez-no-relation

Explain

david-goldrock

The world's highest mountain is the most beloved, it is mount everest, the mountain that's farthest from sea level. If you connected the other two to everest by a slide and put a ball on everest, it will slide down to the other two (in a frictionless perfect world)

The world's tallest mountain is mauna kea, it's almost 4000 feet taller than everest if you measure from base to top, most of it is underwater though

The world's closest mountain to the stars is mount Chimborazo, it is both shorter and less high than the other two, but it is closer to the equator, so the bulge of earth makes it ever so slightly farther from the center, so it is closer to the stars

So yeah, 3 ways to measure, 3 results