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suicidememes

iused-tolove-her

duelling

Kristen Stewart as Sabina Wilson in Charlie’s Angels (2019).

#im! gay!!

johnnyjoestarrelatable

how’d they make capri sun thinner than water

theweirdwideweb

tharenia

sora and kairi say that it’s riku loving hours every hour

#good for them!!!!!!#kingdom hearts #cinnamon roll #cool person wannabe #bubblegum princess #sorikai

ceevee5

shuravf

Xion from the KH 358/2 days ending T_T

Another old sketch that is finally completed.

#ooh... OH #ooohhhh #kingdom hearts #cinnamon roll #forget me not child

uglyloki

me: *trying to fish in animal crossing new horizons*

the fish:

#okay so its not just me #animal crossing

incaseyouart

Little watercolour terrariums! I want all of these and more in my house <3<3

pancakeke

me: *pulls into gas station* just a quick stop :)

GPS: what the FUCK did you do

apolloendymion

tbh it doesn't rly hurt teenagers to incorrectly id as ace like... what's the worst than could happen? they don't have sex till they're older?? lol

apolloendymion

"ohh but it'll take them longer to realize they're actually gay" i know my experiences aren't universal but like. if i wasn't ready to face my lesbianism then i was Not Ready, you could've eliminated every other label in existence and i still wouldn't have accepted it. if anything, the ability to try out different labels helped me learn about myself, explore the community, and accept that maybe not being straight wasn't so bad.

apolloendymion

also lots of people identify as bi before realizing they are gay, lots of people identify as gay before realizing they're bi, lots of people identify as gay before realizing they're trans, etc etc etc!!! exploring and getting it wrong is a necessary part of the process!!! why is it so different for aroace identities?????

apple-dandy

As someone who ID'd incorrectly as ace when I was younger, it was a very important part of my aging process. I was kept safe until my circumstances allowed me to explore. The ace community encouraged me to seek out resources to help myself in many ways, even when I wasn't allowed to get therapy or talk to anyone about my sexuality or gender.

I'm just one person, and others may have different experiences, but so long as you understand that it's okay to be wrong - your mistaken identity will not hurt you. It may be who you are forever, and that's awesome! And it may be that you misunderstood yourself, but that just means you've learned something about yourself.