unloved

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[sahlesummerhill]

[jupitersmusings]

good things will happen 🧿

things that are meant to be will fall into place 🧿

[hermajestyimher]

There are parts of you that will only come alive around the right people and circumstances. Parts that you had no idea existed within your personality and that can give you a lot of clarity as to the things you truly want out of life and reshuffle what matters most to you.

There’s a thrill to discovering yourself.

[theambitiouswoman]

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[rarestsparkle]

Pay attention to who celebrates your growth. A lot of people love the version of you they can outgrow, outshine and control. The moment you evolve, their support turns into criticism.

[kiwilikethefruittt]

here’s your sign to let go of things you’ve outgrown

[djglory]

i am not finding myself i am creating myself

[kaikartel]

you are worthy of relationships that are reciprocal, considerate and intentional. and that isn’t limited to romantic love

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[javarisx-fightingthosedemons]

[gold-kushkloudz]

[stuckinapril]

[andletliveagain]

It’s kinda cool how someone can just pop into your life all of a sudden and become so important to you within such a small amount of time. I think that’s what makes life so interesting though. There’s always a reason to be hopeful for the future because you never know what good things will come your way next.

[qadarpriestress]

I cannot overstate how important it is for women to possess things, whether material or immaterial. Let it be your favorite dress, bottles of perfume, a piece of jewelry, linen bedsheets, books, knowledge, degrees, work experience, connections, hobbies, a secret garden that belong to you alone.

Build a life that is unmistakably yours. Form your identity. Explore and refine your taste. Know what moves you, what inspires you. Be your own muse, go to shopping malls and smell new perfumes/try the clothes on instead of getting your inspiration online. A woman without a strong sense of identity risks losing herself in this world.

I remember my mother once saying that she had "nothing." That sentence has stayed with me. Many women were robbed of their identity whether by marrying the wrong man or by being reduced solely to the roles of wife and mother. They were never truly given the opportunity to explore their womanhood in all its depth.

If you are feeling lost in your womanhood, just start to cultivate your taste. Read foreign literature. Treat yourself according to your budget (for instance try to understand what you really enjoy in fashion and you really don’t need to buy anything ) . Explore new hobbies. Invest in your education and your future. If your circumstances allow try new occupations, develop new skills, travel, create, remain curious.

[silkyswan]

[loubis-and-champagne]

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[wetheurban]

Stop ignoring what feels off just because you want something to work.

[theambitiouswoman]